DH wants me to have the needle so I will probably have it.
But does this mean your preference has changed or does it mean that it's not being given a thought as to what you want?

In just my opinion, I would love for baby to breathe on it's own, when it's ready. Not when the cord has been cut iykwim? But it's important that each partner has their feelings heard and one person doesn't feel like they are giving into the other. Not saying this is the case here, but that communication about all this is so important