thread: Advice on what to do next

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  1. #1
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    May 2009
    Brisbane
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    I'd call and re-book everything. There was presumably a reason for booking it in the first place?

    We had a natural conception (our first ever BFP, after 2.75 years TTC) after 3 failed IVF and it ended in m/c. We still went back to IVF. When that didn't work, we changed to a new Dr and did a lap (diagnosed and removed endo) and DD was conceived (via IVF) only 2 months after the lap!

    Just because we had gotten a BFP once, didn't mean I didn't need a lap.

  2. #2
    Registered User

    Jun 2011
    WA
    435

    Thanks for the replies girls.

    Juniper- the FS wanted to have a look and see if there was anything affecting our fertility. They don't think I have endo as I have zero symptoms but he wanted to have a good look and flush my tubes etc before we looked at assisted conception. I think your last line summed it up though I am hanging onto the hope that I got a natural BFP but it doesn't mean that any fertility problems have gone away.

    I will call the FS tomorrow and make an appointment.

  3. #3
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    Nov 2011
    SE Melbourne
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    yeah, I reckon the FS will barely notice! when I first started seeing my FS, I don't think he even remembered who I was, I had to explain where we were at at each meeting! besides, there is nothing to be embarrassed about - you came for advice, didn't need it... but now you do again....

    So sorry for your lost sweetie, it's really hard, especially when you have been trying for a while.