About the spotting It may be that you are having implantation bleeding. I had IB with this pregnancy and also I was really crampy for the first few weeks.
You said you are cycle day 31, how long is your cycle usually? If you want to, take a test, it can't hurt.
Cycles are usually around 28 days but I have not been counting for the past few months. If it doesnt happen this month then I will start my chart and see where it takes me.
Thanks for the support.
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