Beaksie - thanks heaps. my doc was pretty gentle with the terms used, i think i've found a "winner" in this doc thats for sure, shes great... really really nice doctor.
Slyder - thank you! You've been extremely helpful in answering my questions. i feel alot better about it all now and not so "misinformed". im very grateful that i dont need to have a D&C! and thanks, yes i do hope we are a very fertile couple!!! i feel so lucky if that is the case, i really do feel so lucky if we are! time will tell...

Jodi - thank you for asking, yes the doc appointment today couldnt have gone better! this is the 2nd time i've ever seen this doctor and she is really great. I explained my situatoin and what happened Friday etc and she had a sad look on her face like she really felt for me (which is unusual for a gp!) and she asked me questions and we talked about a few things and i asked more questoins and she said that there is no reason to wait to ttc so she said go right ahead if we feel ready (and we do!) and she said that its a good thing we have fallen pregnant first month and that we should hopefully have some good news in the next couple of mths and she is expecting me back to see her soon with good news! oh, and she also said to wait until AF is 2 weeks late before i test....by that stage i would probably have symptoms anyway!!! she said avoid testing before AF is due (i understand now why docs say this)
she also said that most first time pregnancies end like this, early m/c and that there is nothing we did wrong at all (i knew that).

I am just so grateful now that my body detected something wrong, so so soon into the pregnancy rather than later.

thank you everyone, i feel so much better about it all now and i understand it all better now with the info you have given me. *hugs*