Hi lissy. I'm so sorry to hear about your loss. I've just come out of the other side of a 6 month wait due to molar pregnancy, and honestly, it feels like forever at the beginning, and like it is the world's worst curse, but it's really not. It's a bit of a leave pass, if you will, to have some dedicated couple time before you become a family. Our 6 month wait has been the most incredible time for our relationship, and our lives in general. We put a lot of focus on building on our relationships with friends, too, and now we have this wonderful tight circle of friends that will be there for us through anything.
It's also a great time to get your body in good shape for baby making - lose any extra kilos, do an enormous detox, eat heaps of fresh food, and prepare a lovely environment for that baby to grow in.

Good luck!