hey hun,



i had to wait 91 days for my first AF after my D&C. i was like you beside myself with worry. almost as bad as the miscarriage itself wondering each day "is it here" "where is it" "what if i am damaged in some way?"
my second came on time, but i have heard of a quite few ladies here on BB who's cycles have been all over the place for up to 6 months after a miscarriage.
do go to the doc's and get checked out, if only for your sanity's sake. the major cause of a late AF is a delay in ovulation, which can be caused by stress, travel, disrupted sleep, etc.
so i know its hard and i do feel silly saying it, but try not to panic.
i started by takeing charge of the things i could control eating more fruit, playing with my kids more, i started pilarties (?sp) with a friend, i got a few books from the library all to try and distract myself. it didn't work 100% i still have trouble sleeping sometimes, but on the whole i am much better.
TTC is a rollacoster, it is "normal" for couples to be trying for up to 12 months and since you only miscarried in sept i'd say you have a while to wait B4 you need get too concerned. the baby i lost was conceived after 10 months and it has been only 5 months since my D&C. time is ticking away but in the whole scheme of things its not that long
i wish you all the best, and pray you get a BFP in the new year.
come on 2009 !!