i found out tuesday that ive had a misscarrage and i didnt even know i was pregnant. just wondering how other people coped and told freinds and family. im still trying to come to terms with the fact we were expecting again and to have all that taken away. i just feel so numb and just want to crawl up into a ball and have everything back to normal. i also have an active 16month old and i just want to stay in bed and cry. is this all normal.