Hi there Summer24
I had a 12wk MC in June 2006. I refused D&C as I was unaware of the pregnancy at the time and most of it had passed. I had a few complications requiring antibiotics and went straight into cycle monitoring (we had been TTC for a while but hormones were not behaving).
Long story short, after being told I had secondary infertility, I fell pregnant without intervention in October 2006. We are not users of preventive methods so conception was totally out of our hands in the months prior other than my healing time. DS3 is now almost 2yo.
As a PP illuded there can also be an emotional toll. I needed some serious counselling about a year after the MC, in the months before I was due, as I clearly did not deal with it at the time. If you find yourself not coping with the loss then please also reach out for professional help such as a counsellor or psychologist. It is important for babies to welcomed into the world by healthy Mums as often as possible!
I cannot tell you to try or not to try. My only suggestion is to go with what is right for yourself and your DP both physically and emotionally. Best wishes as you move forward from your loss.





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