KAM, I am very sorry for your loss. I experienced early loss so my situation different but just wanted to share my thought on ttc again with you. I felt that although I wanted to be pregnant again straight away I also didn't feel right being pregnant with another baby when I was still supposed to be pregnant with my angel baby. So in other words I didn't feel right being pregnant again until after my edd. Not sure if this will help as your bub I am guessing was term or close to term but just wanted to at least offer my thoughts in the hope they may help.
Isabel will always be in your heart and am sure you will just 'feel' when it's right to ttc again. You might see something that just prompts that feeling, whether it's a movie, tv show or something out the window of the car as you are driving along like a pretty sunset or something.
I don't think you are being disrespectful if you are ready to try again though.
sweetie, im so sorry for your loss....i believe that you will know when you are ready...
i know your fear all too well....i also wonder about 'what if this happens again?' and i think its one of those things that for every woman that ever experience a loss of their babies will go thru...
we need to stay strong and keep positive thoughts and honestly only you will know in your heart when you are truly ready ((((HUGS))))
Last edited by kiwi_gal; May 25th, 2009 at 01:45 PM.
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