Trying to Conceive After Miscarriage or Loss March 2010
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Murrycod- i got your PM i sent you one back just wanted to ask how far from castlemain vic do you live we will be down that way in october to visit DH father and i would love to pop in and give you a hug and maybe we can sit on the varandah together and rub our pregnant bellies or if we are still TTC we can have that JD's we keep talking about i would love to meet my dear friend in person thankyou from the bottom of my heart.
Dory: Happy Birthday Oliver! And my cat snores too!! George is a backwater ally cat we got in Hong Kong, he was abandoned and we couldn't leave him so brought him home with us, he was only 8 weeks but he'd caught an infection which messed up his nasal tubes, so he snores! Sometimes he and DH snore is unison. I hate those nights, lol.
Sunbeam: How you going sweetheart? Glad you liked the image, I fear I'll never be able to put it into practice, sigh.
Ferrals: Your hilarious, love that your keeping DH up late so he can replenish the good stuff! Good luck!
Iona Macca: Wow, that sucks sweetheart xo
Alice: How's things?
MurrayCod: Bring on the crazy woman, bring it on! xo
Ok, so I am starting to go mad awaiting my bt results tomorrow, so thaught I'd go back over the last month of posts and help some girls get on track on what is happening!!
Yes it is sooo hard to keep track of things in here as of late!
Darlings if I miss anyone or get mixed up a little please don't take it personally please please, I have only added the names of girls that posted in the last thread, so for the lurkers, pop in and say hi and let us know how you are, love to all XXXXX
This is in no particular order by the way X
INANNA Missed you in the last thread start!!XX Hope you are well darling X
KitF Wanting to hit her BIL with a pram and give him a vasectomy woohoo!
Ferrals Abbi's Bday on the 20th this month, CBFM reading high, her and DH taking loads of herbs and being healthy! And Horny!XX
Crafty EDD was on Sunday XX 1st month using CBFM goodluck X
EM Having a bit of a hard time still greiving, huggs to you sweetheart X
Thopes Twihard fan!!! Seeing a chinese Doc X
Matthew'sMum Starting Synarel nasal spray soon for first cycle of IVF goodluck X
IonaMacca Buisy at Uni, well done for working so hard, hope presentation on Fri went well X
Sunbeam on a fertility detox awaiting AF to have next IUI X Best wishes hun X
MissK attempting to Temp this cycle, hope you get the hang of it XX
Alice Awaiting pathology for this cycle of IVF
TTCALC Mabey UTD, mabey not, got us all eagerly awaiting!! Doing a fantastic job looking after her large household XX Well done hun X
Snugglybean Darling almost 12mnth TTC now, moving mountains on her Bike, so proud of you!!XX Getting a little cheeky and perking everyone up....finally!!XX
KirstenTrying to keep up with all of us, CD20, babydust to you XX
Bons, New here, hope you are still around lurking and doing ok sweetheart X
Sarahrach AF arrived early last cycle, currentlt at CD...7?
Jahzara, little on the quiet trying to keep up, staying positive XXXX Hugg 2 U X
Ric Is going to try for 12mnths TTC natural then dig deeper with testing if no success (wont have 2 worry aout that though!)
SammyP Making the coolest cupcakes I have ever seen!! In TWW X
Mildez EDD ectopic comming up. Huggs to you hun X Starting Clomid bf attempting IVF again, I hope it works!XX
Cuppi Newbie, hope you are ok darling XX
Alicat, missing you, not sure what part of cycle you are hun XX
Loopielouie De cluttering her life and house!! Go girl! X
Tryingfornumber3 awaiting arrival of AF post MC.
Mummyof4 in the TWW and big huggs to you X
Me Awaiting for path results, finished clomid, FET next week
For the escapees!!!XXX
Eliselouise 17wks already woohoo!!!
Dory darling getting over the flu XX
SPF having scan on Tuesday!! Excited!
Greencake, hope you are well X
Hubbabubba had a slow beta rise but doing ok X
Minimatron saw babies heart beat last month!
Maddison, miss you around x
I know there are heaps more, sorry to forget I'm starting to get a bit tired!!
Belly rubbs to all of you and your bubs X
Hope I got things right, just a very quick skim over everyone, Love you all XX
Thanks for the nice welcome back ladies!
Hope all is well!!!!
i am having a really hard time resisting the urge to POAS I just cant handle the BFN and i dont think i could handle getting AF if i didnt know she was coming IYKWIM... arghhhhh this hole thing is stupid... grrrr
Mummyof4-why resist i tell everyone to hold off and step away from the pee sticks but who are we kidding we are crazy women trying to get pregnant so if you need to poas go for it i hope the outcome is a good one my fingers are crossed for you.
Murrycod-were you a bit bored last night you did a good job with all the girls there are a heap of us now.
I hope your BT results are all normal today and you can go ahead with harriet or harvey being TFed.
Did you see my last post asking if you are near castlemain vic?
Crafty-how you doing girl? it's cycle day 13 and day 12 of my CBFM 7th day of poas and 5th day of HIGH reading i was expecting a PEAK reading today like last month but no not yet the booklet did say the monitor can detect extra fertile days due to the increase in E2 so you can get a few extra days of HIGH so i am glad we had a rest from BDing last night as i am hoping tomorrow i see a PEAK we will BD tonight just to make sure we at least do it every 2nd day until i see a peak i am also getting half ferning on my maybe baby and cm is very watery so my body is showing all the signs that i am about to O god i hope it's a good egg.
AFM-just hopeing for a good healthy egg this month being Abbi's birthday i would love to have something good come from a sad time hoping this is our month.
wow ladies i was hoping for a new thread..lol so i could start fresh..
I just want to say thanks sooo Much for all your guys comments means alot to me..
Murraycod.. your such a sweetie!! and thanks im doing my best and for having 5 kiddos here its not as bad as i thought it would be.. It been going great.. i thought the Morning would be crazy but nope it been smooth ( hope i didnt just jinks myself) but again thanks.. big hugss!
By the way your fingers had to be hurting with all that typing.. i was getting sleepy just reading it all
Ferrals.... Sweetie my fingers are crossed for you!! best of luck big hugsss lotsss of sticky vibes
Mommyof4.... Welcome back and hang in there sweetie.. i know what u mean i want to POAS also but i rather wait to see if i start when i should.. good luck lots of sticky vibes.
Kitfarie.. thanks sweetie
AFM.. just waiting and taking care of my family =]
HUGS TO ALL Sticky vibes to the ones TTC and good luck on the 2WW
Anita
I keep trying to post but they are going MIA?????
Thank you all for the warm welcome!
Murraycod - I hope your test results are good news and you can go ahead with the transfer,im keeping my fingers crossed for you
Ferrals - Glad your DH had time to restock, I hope a healthy egg is on its way for you.
THopes - Im a bit of a twilight fan too, more team Jacob though
Snuggles - I love your mantra, i might have to adopt it myself, i dont think i can cycle up a mountain though.
ScarrypinkFairy - How was your scan? looking forward to hearing how it went xxx
Kitfaerie - Hope your DH is feeling better and has his BDing shoes on! I hope this is your month!
Alice - How was the sunshine coast?
Dory - How are you doing hun?
Crafty - Have fun with your week of BDing, I hope this is the month!
TTCaLovechild - How are you doing? Im glad your DH lets you rest
Im sorry if I have forgotten anyone!
Thinking of you all and Hoping for some BFP's in the coming weeks
AFM - Af arrived this morning, a little earlier than expected but i think my cycle is way out since the D&C.....Im not sure if Im ready to go again, DH is meant to go away at the start of April for 3 months and im not sure i could handle anything bad happening while he is away.
Like you all I feel pretty upset and jealous at all my friends announcing pregnancies, about 8 have now since I mc, I think it makes me upset more that they werent even ttc.
I go away for three days and it's taken me 3 hours to catch up!!
thanks MurryCod for doing the amazing summary for us - I was thinking how cool if we could have our own blog/web page - we could have status down the side so we could quickly glance and see how everyone is doing...ah well you've solved that for us for now! Thanks
I started reading this morning back around the time you got your slap in the face news from your friend at work. And on you EDD too I'm so sorry I know you have found some peace with it and are being a lovely supportive friend but my heart aches for you all the same. Yah for the big thaw - go Harvey! go Harriet! (since there might be so bdancing I think we'd better cheer for two!) I hope you'll be an escapee soon too (that made me smile) but would miss you all the same lovely woman.
Ferrals and Crafty - Have you both got your landing gear on? It's your turn this month, it is, I know it, you both deserve this fingers crossed and lots of prayers for you both.
Crafty - glad you got through Sunday OK. Sounds like the lead up was much harder than the day itself - I guess it is the part of us that backs up against our loss and then when the day comes, there is a kind of acceptance of it that we come to terms with again, despite the pain. Big hugs to you and I hope you can look forward this month to TTC and getting a good egg.
Ferrals so sorry to read what a tough time you've been having of late. You won't be letting your DH down in any way - you are both going great guns with the health kick and it will be so worth it when you get a beautiful healthy bub.
TTCaLC - April!! Wouldn't that be great if you are pg! Hope all works out OK with your smear being irregular - v. important to have that sorted out. Hugs to you.
Dory - was it your boy Oliver having his furry birthday? Looks like we are soon to be having a cat of our own when my BIL & SIL go off on their big trip around Aus. Poor kitty has diabetes so needs needles (meh - how easy is that for me! I can jab myself with my eye's closed!) and is very old. I just hope we don't get him and he turns his tail up straight away 'cause I'd feel terrible! Bellyrubs to you as always x
Sorry for the brief personals today - hugs to everyone and I'll catch up again soon.
AFM, had a big upset on my time away. We had a lunch for my uncle who just turned 80 in Brisbane and I got to see my niece for the first time in agggees 'cause she's been os travelling. She's like my little sister - we are so close. I've been wanting to tell her about our mc 'cause she was away when we got our happy news and has no idea of everything that has been going on but was waiting for the right time to tell her when we could be together. Well, we had a little chat during a break at lunch and turns out her dad (my brother) already told her. Actually, it was his partner who announced it, over lunch, in company, and followed it up by saying that she and my brother are getting married. I am so angry with her and upset - she had no right to tell her (this is the same 'SIL' who fell pg on her first go at IVF at 44 and who has a beautiful baby girl (who I love to pieces). My niece was devastated on two counts - she was so upset for me and my DH she couldn't stop crying and she has had such a tough time with her Dad leaving her Mum and then having a little sister to come to terms with (she's 22 and her sister is 9 mnths). She's been so beautiful through it all, and so loving, but this really knocked her for a six. I couldn't believe it. I struggle enough with this woman as it is but we all put our best foot forward for my brother's sake but this just takes the cake. Kit, when you are finished with the pram for the vasectomy, can I have it?
Sorry for the long me post. The rest of our trip was lovely - lots of rain but such a beautiful place. Never been to Noosa before.
Hello all wow new thread this has to be a good one you hear me ! we need some BFPs and please let me have one !
Murraycod very impressive with the updates wow it must have taken you ages ! you sure did us proud, hope your bt result is ok and they can get H out the freezer real soon.
Ferrals so glad we could help even if jsut a little bit we are here for you !
I have a question, I forgot my test window today and so when I switched it on it was a couple of hours outside the hours I was supposed to be in. Anyway its day 7 for me and it didn't ask me to test today is it because I was late or because it read low yesterday on day 6 ? Been through the booklet and can find no answer ! I am so stupid I was rushing around like mad this morning and normally test just before the school run but anyhow missed it but did collect my 1st sample, then by the time I got home and switched it on after running errands all morning it was 2hrs later than allowed my window is quarter to six to quarter to 12 and I switched it on at 1.30 pm
Crafty - just popped in to say YOU ARE NOT STUPID you are just a very busy mum! But I do hope Ferrals can help
Bons, you must have posted while I was typing. Ah that's a hard one knowing your DH will be away for so long. Maybe the time off would be good for you to do other things and find your feet again? I'm on a three month wait til my next IVF cycle and I was pretty upset at first to wait that long but now I think I need the time mentally to process everything that has happened since December. Yeah, I'm more of a Jacob fan too
Had to laugh with the Twilight mania! I loved the first movie (I've read all the books) but was sooo disappointed with the second one. How they're going to film the opening scenes of the last book is going to be interesting - Edward destroying the bed while they bdance and Bella waking up covered in bruises...not to mention the vamp baby. No very PG at all! I'm with you Kit - I wanted them to close the deal in book one - was bloody painful waiting for the fourth one for the big bite!
Alice x
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: Twilight additions
Hey ladies - we all seem to be surrounded by expecting colleagues!! I myself , was today hit expectantly by the Green Eyed Monster !
I had a dream last night that a lady at my work was pregnant, anyway I mentioned my dream to the lady I work closely with.... and she went pale and said "omg who told you that, no one is suppose to know?!" I said - noone told me, I dreamt it!!!! And turns out she is about 9 weeks! I was sooo jealous I felt sick then I spent the whole day feeling guilty for me finding misery in her happiness Ah gee! I was doing so well with my head space lately and ended up spending the whole day wondering why her and not me and now im all anxious! It sux! My EDD is next Wednesday, 24th, dreading it But tomorrow is a new day and I will get through it.... just gunna be a loooong 2 weeks ahead!
Bons - great that AF has showed up and I hope she is kind to you!
crafty - Hello! Bring on the March BFP's!!!! Dear Lord - Please send one my way too!!! AMEN!
Murraycod - any word from bt's??
mummyof4 - so nice to see you back around!!! Hope its a good month for you!
Alice - oh lovely, sorry to hear you had a ruff time away.. hugs darlin x
ferrals - have you O'd yet?? Join me in the 2WW!
TTCalovechild - not long till testing for you right???
SPF- How did your scan go??? was thinking of you today sweetheart! I pray you had happy news xx
Anyway loves, Im off to catch up with some girlies for a cuppa... anything to pass the time at the moment is good!!!
xx
PS - Go Team Edward!
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Thopes: Bah, join us with the green eyed monster! I'm sorry you had a bad day though, hope the girly time was good! Meanwhile, your dream was correct, how freaking awesome is that! (Dream about me, about me! BFP please!) Your almost in the TWW, really hope you get some good news at the end of it!
Murraycod: You, my dear, rock. Muchos kudos for the giant catch up list! It was really nice seeing it all again, we do move fairly quickly in here! But, there totally needs to be more escapees.
Mummyof4: Yep, waiting sucks. So hard isn't it? Best of luck for the inevitable test fest!
Bons: Hooray for day 1! I love day 1, there's something so fresh and shiny about it. I was recently away for a week from DH and I didn't handle that brilliantly, 3 months is an age!
Alice: I read all the books over the christmas holidays (if your upset, I can highly recommend them). I have no idea how they're going to film them! In the books, I like Jacob better (which is odd cos I'm usually not a fan of hairy guys) but in the movies he just looks too young! And sorry the family drama, I'm sorry it happened that way, I will gladly lend you the pram.
hi all ,kitfairie-let the fun begin..t-hopes,ionamacca,missk-hugs,pregnancy announcements are hard,what your feeling is perfectly understandable...eliselouise,scarypinkfairy,dory-thinking of you & bubs..mummyof4-lovely to see your name again,fingers crossed this month for you..ferrals-fingers crossed for you...ttcalovechild-sounds like your doing a beautiful job with your family...craftymummy-it's hard to fit everything in sometimes..alice-sorry your sil put a damper on your trip..bons-sorry for your loss,hope your next bfp is here soon..murraycod-how did your scan go?ric-trying to relax when ttc is easier said than done ,good luck with it though..big hugs to everyone...afm-thank you to the ladies who asked about me,started synarel nose spray today ,spoke to the dr about having a sample of dh sperm frozen as a back up on epu day and he agreed to it.
Hello all of my Lovely Ladies!!XX Yeah we are pretty buisy in here, I had no idea the list was so huge when I started, took me ages!!
Matthew'sMum so glad to hear from you, hope the synarel isn't too bad, I never had that but a few of my friends have.
KitF, thanks for the Muchos Kudos my luv!! Have fun BD'ing!! Go catch that egg girl woot woot!! You are the same cycle day as me and Ferrals!
Thopes darling, sorry you had to go through that, I know exactly how you feel XXX
GO TEAM EDWARD
Alice Sweetheart, thank you XX Im sorry you had a rough time away, it's not the greatest when the world throws us a bad day XX Huggs to you X
Crafty, hope you get some luck working this new monitor out hun X
Bons, for being a newbie here, that was a pretty impressive post!! Yay for Day1, hope your cycles work themselves out now honey XX Glad you are sticking around in here to share your journey, you will make great friends here X
TTCALC thanks for the hug X
Ferrals hope you are getting ready to get this egg!! Yeah I was bored last night, couldnt sleep, but I slept like a baby after all that typing!!
Mummyof4 did you resist the urge?? Or did you cave??!!XX
Well girly girls, my bloods came back........................Fantastic, wootwoot!!
I have a 7am appt tomorrow for a scan to make sure I have an eggie ready to go, if I do, Repromed will ring me to tell me when to have my trigger injection of 5000iu Pregnyl(to make me spontneouse ovulate) , and give me a date and time for the big Thaw!!!! OOOhh nervouse part comming up now, Im scared the only place to go is down from here, I have gone through this excitement so many times since August, here comes the crazy woman!!! Just a warning to ya'll X
Crafty-if you miss the window and turn it on to late it wont ask for a test stick until the next day don't panic it is early in your cycle so should be fine.
My freaking body is driving me nuts i still have not had a peak reading only high but the estrogen line is so faint i can bearly see it meaning i am about to get a LH surge but it hasn't happened yet today is day 14 so look's like i will O right when i am supose to and not early this month lucky i have the monitor as i would assume that it was today and only BD to the signs and symptoms my body gives me i always went off OPK's before but they seem to pick up my LH hormone even before it surges and are positive to early in my cycle and then stay positive where the CBFM only picks up the surge and then goes back to low after a day or to god i wish i had my own ultrasound dildo cam to see what my eggs are doing in there.
Bons-cross fingers your cycle is back to normal and yes i know the feeling when you lose a baby every tom **** and harry seems to get pregnant.
Alice- And i was disapointed with the 2nd twilight book to.
T-Hopes-no i havn't yet but i am on day 14 today i use to ovulate around day 11-12 but now it is a few days later as my CBFM shows or maybe all those OPK's i have used over the months have been wrong but as i said to crafty my estrogen is real high so the LH surge should be any minute now and it seems a few of us have have march on our mind's at the moment for not so good memories.
Kitfaerie-murrycod did a good job i did a quick count and i think there is 25 or so of us and then the few who pop in from the prego threads.
Murrycod-great news not only do you get the green light to defrost harvey but you also know exactly when you are going to O so you can BD for added sercurity and twice the chance so it is possible you could have twins.
Anyway my sweet i just want to say remember what ever happens with harvey as you know the thaw process is pretty tricky and some little embies just don't do so well you have a back up plan to BD and still be in there with a good chance and that is something positive to think about i have a good feeling this will be a good month of BFP's we will be in the tww together(if i ever 0).
Trying to Conceive After Miscarriage or Loss March 2010
hoping this is our month.
I'm so sorry
Ah gee! I was doing so well with my head space lately and ended up spending the whole day wondering why her and not me and now im all anxious! It sux! My EDD is next Wednesday, 24th, dreading it
But tomorrow is a new day and I will get through it.... just gunna be a loooong 2 weeks ahead!
Hello all of my Lovely Ladies!!XX Yeah we are pretty buisy in here, I had no idea the list was so huge when I started, took me ages!!
Im sorry you had a rough time away, it's not the greatest when the world throws us a bad day XX Huggs to you X
And i was disapointed with the 2nd twilight book to.
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