Trying to Conceive After Miscarriage or Loss March 2010
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Murrycod- i got your PM i sent you one back just wanted to ask how far from castlemain vic do you live we will be down that way in october to visit DH father and i would love to pop in and give you a hug and maybe we can sit on the varandah together and rub our pregnant bellies or if we are still TTC we can have that JD's we keep talking about i would love to meet my dear friend in person thankyou from the bottom of my heart.
Dory: Happy Birthday Oliver! And my cat snores too!! George is a backwater ally cat we got in Hong Kong, he was abandoned and we couldn't leave him so brought him home with us, he was only 8 weeks but he'd caught an infection which messed up his nasal tubes, so he snores! Sometimes he and DH snore is unison. I hate those nights, lol.
Sunbeam: How you going sweetheart? Glad you liked the image, I fear I'll never be able to put it into practice, sigh.
Ferrals: Your hilarious, love that your keeping DH up late so he can replenish the good stuff! Good luck!
Iona Macca: Wow, that sucks sweetheart xo
Alice: How's things?
MurrayCod: Bring on the crazy woman, bring it on! xo
Ok, so I am starting to go mad awaiting my bt results tomorrow, so thaught I'd go back over the last month of posts and help some girls get on track on what is happening!!
Yes it is sooo hard to keep track of things in here as of late!
Darlings if I miss anyone or get mixed up a little please don't take it personally please please, I have only added the names of girls that posted in the last thread, so for the lurkers, pop in and say hi and let us know how you are, love to all XXXXX
This is in no particular order by the way X
INANNA Missed you in the last thread start!!XX Hope you are well darling X
KitF Wanting to hit her BIL with a pram and give him a vasectomy woohoo!
Ferrals Abbi's Bday on the 20th this month, CBFM reading high, her and DH taking loads of herbs and being healthy! And Horny!XX
Crafty EDD was on Sunday XX 1st month using CBFM goodluck X
EM Having a bit of a hard time still greiving, huggs to you sweetheart X
Thopes Twihard fan!!! Seeing a chinese Doc X
Matthew'sMum Starting Synarel nasal spray soon for first cycle of IVF goodluck X
IonaMacca Buisy at Uni, well done for working so hard, hope presentation on Fri went well X
Sunbeam on a fertility detox awaiting AF to have next IUI X Best wishes hun X
MissK attempting to Temp this cycle, hope you get the hang of it XX
Alice Awaiting pathology for this cycle of IVF
TTCALC Mabey UTD, mabey not, got us all eagerly awaiting!! Doing a fantastic job looking after her large household XX Well done hun X
Snugglybean Darling almost 12mnth TTC now, moving mountains on her Bike, so proud of you!!XX Getting a little cheeky and perking everyone up....finally!!XX
KirstenTrying to keep up with all of us, CD20, babydust to you XX
Bons, New here, hope you are still around lurking and doing ok sweetheart X
Sarahrach AF arrived early last cycle, currentlt at CD...7?
Jahzara, little on the quiet trying to keep up, staying positive XXXX Hugg 2 U X
Ric Is going to try for 12mnths TTC natural then dig deeper with testing if no success (wont have 2 worry aout that though!)
SammyP Making the coolest cupcakes I have ever seen!! In TWW X
Mildez EDD ectopic comming up. Huggs to you hun X Starting Clomid bf attempting IVF again, I hope it works!XX
Cuppi Newbie, hope you are ok darling XX
Alicat, missing you, not sure what part of cycle you are hun XX
Loopielouie De cluttering her life and house!! Go girl! X
Tryingfornumber3 awaiting arrival of AF post MC.
Mummyof4 in the TWW and big huggs to you X
Me Awaiting for path results, finished clomid, FET next week
For the escapees!!!XXX
Eliselouise 17wks already woohoo!!!
Dory darling getting over the flu XX
SPF having scan on Tuesday!! Excited!
Greencake, hope you are well X
Hubbabubba had a slow beta rise but doing ok X
Minimatron saw babies heart beat last month!
Maddison, miss you around x
I know there are heaps more, sorry to forget I'm starting to get a bit tired!!
Belly rubbs to all of you and your bubs X
Hope I got things right, just a very quick skim over everyone, Love you all XX
Thanks for the nice welcome back ladies!
Hope all is well!!!!
i am having a really hard time resisting the urge to POAS I just cant handle the BFN and i dont think i could handle getting AF if i didnt know she was coming IYKWIM... arghhhhh this hole thing is stupid... grrrr
Mummyof4-why resist i tell everyone to hold off and step away from the pee sticks but who are we kidding we are crazy women trying to get pregnant so if you need to poas go for it i hope the outcome is a good one my fingers are crossed for you.
Murrycod-were you a bit bored last night you did a good job with all the girls there are a heap of us now.
I hope your BT results are all normal today and you can go ahead with harriet or harvey being TFed.
Did you see my last post asking if you are near castlemain vic?
Crafty-how you doing girl? it's cycle day 13 and day 12 of my CBFM 7th day of poas and 5th day of HIGH reading i was expecting a PEAK reading today like last month but no not yet the booklet did say the monitor can detect extra fertile days due to the increase in E2 so you can get a few extra days of HIGH so i am glad we had a rest from BDing last night as i am hoping tomorrow i see a PEAK we will BD tonight just to make sure we at least do it every 2nd day until i see a peak i am also getting half ferning on my maybe baby and cm is very watery so my body is showing all the signs that i am about to O god i hope it's a good egg.
AFM-just hopeing for a good healthy egg this month being Abbi's birthday i would love to have something good come from a sad time hoping this is our month.
What a Beautiful day out First Day Of spring..
and im sick with a cold go figure.. but i promised the kids to go to the park today so i got keep that promise
T-hopes.. hey sweetie yes my ticker says i can test today.. but i think im going to wait to see if i start in jan i started on the 29th and feb i started on the 25 .. i thought i wait till April 1st to see if start..lol Yeah on April fools day...lol the joke was funny..hehe
MatthewMom... yes the kids keep me busy but its worth it
Murray your welcome sweetei you deserve BIG hugs
Snugglebean CONGRATS!! WOHOOOOO
Sunbeam thanks sweetie i need those stickvibes
Kitfare BIG HUGS to you sweetie
possum m .. sorry you had to join us but youw ill feel comfortable knowing this group has alot of wonderful ladies .. and im sorry for your loss
Spf.. so happy for you sweetie..
Alice thanks for the postice vibes you send to all of us!!
Craftymom... how you been sweetie
Ric.. how you been? Im doing good and been resting alot last 2 days been sick with a cold.. so sorry for your BFN
Ferrals my fingers are crossed for you!
Bons.. hang in there sweetie
Chody .. sorry you had to join us.. and best of luck for you sweetie!!
for everyone else i forgot so sorry.. butyou are in my thoughts and i wish you the best..
AFM.. im starting to think maybe i should go test today but then i dont want to see the BFN just in case..i keep thinking of Snugglebean being sick with tummy and all she got a BFP so maybe ill see one .so im not sure just yet.. but i feel nlike i sis back in Nov sick with a cold and then i tested in dec 14 and got my BFP .. alot of things going thru my head right now so i will be sure to let you all knwo if i do test today but im not sure if i will..
other then that spending soo much time with the kids they sure do keep us busy but its worth..
Ill try and stop back in later
BEST OF LUCK TO YOU ALL!!
BIG HUGS FOR YOU!!!
ttcalc - I think you should test first thing tomorrow. Even though the Codster wants you to do it now.
I will send you some You're to rub it into your belly hourly, hear me? Then test in the morning. (Don't worry, Dr Bean bulk bills, this service will cost you nothing.)
Now, who said they'd miss SVN? I am getting boatloads of sticky-ish CM, it looks like snot and is almost green in colour. Bet you don't miss it now!
I can't unsubscribe to this thread. I tried, but couldn't do it. I will hang around til you chatterboxes hit 300 and this ones over (or till you all get bfps and this thread disappears, whichever comes first. Hopefully the latter!) Love you all too too too much!
Hello to the newbies sorry for the reason you have found your way here but welcome to our forum family.
TTCALC-Go on poas already.
Murrycod-Thanks for thinking of us and lighting a candle for Abbi.
AFM-well i got through yesterday ok we woke up in the morning lit Abbi's candle wished her a happy 1st birthday then we went out and kept real busy last minute shopping for my nieces 18th than spent all arvo getting into our costumes.
We got to the party and had a fantastic time my niece looked awesome and so did the other 40 kids when i get a chance i will post some photo's.
No one mentioned Abbi's Bday i was sure they didn't want to upset me.
Anyway after all the speeches and cake cutting my mum said come on we have a family cake for jade inside and want to give her the families gift's away from all the drunken younger ones so i am standing there when they bring out two small mud cakes one was chocolate with an 18 on it the other was a caramel mud cake with pink icing and a number 1 on it and Abbi's name i couldn't believe it my sister mum and niece hugged me and said we didn't forget her she is with us.
Well i burst into tears i was totally surprised and very moved that my niece would do that for me on her special day i thought in all the excitment they forgot.
What a wonerful family i have i love then dearly.
OH! and my DH brought me a pedigree devon rex blue point kitten he is gorgeous we went and picked himout yesterday and put a deposit on him i fell in love he is 4 weeks old and we can pick him up in 5 weeks when he is desexed and had his needles
they have the shortest coat ever it reminds me of a shaved sheep but realllllly soft the coat looks like a ripple effect to it and almost bald but when you pat the parents they are so soft and you wont get hair shedding all over the house which is good i don't like long haired animals i am tossing up between calling him mowgli or angus.
aww ferrals, that is such a beautiful thing for your family to do! Made me cry! was thinking of you and your family yesterday, im glad you and DH had a nice day and night and kept busy! Im sure Abby was with you to xx
Ferrals!!! That's just beautiful! I'm so glad you got to celebrate Abbi's birthday with our family. She is loved and missed xo And you got a kitten! Congratulations on your little boy furbaby, I think Angus is a really sweet name, I like giving cats people names Your family sounds wonderful, your blessed babe
TTCALC: Yup. GO POAS!
Snuggly: I'm glad your not going yet! SVN is just too fascinating You can stick to us for a bit while your baby's getting all snuggly and sticky in your belly
MissK: Glad that your finding some peace, it's a hard journey, but I think it will be worth it! xo
Timeforafamily: First of all, brilliant name I'm glad you decided to join us (hello lurkers!) but I'm sorry for the circumstances that brought you here. 0.56 is such a cute name, and yep, you are a mum. Good luck for trying again, keep us posted on how it goes. Ah, dildo cam, our time together was just beautiful (he never called me back, I suspect he gets around a bit).
Alice: Yay for happy starts to the weekend! Your DH is 1 of 11! 10 sisters! I bet he learnt a lot from them!
Chody: Good luck with your doc's appt!
Murraycod: LOL! I see pregnyl hasn't dampened your sense of sarcasm. It may take your bowel regularity, but it can never take your sarcasm! Ahhhhhh!! (Sorry, had a convo about Braveheart last night, and now I keep doing that, eg to DH:''You may take the last muffin, but you'll never take my orange juice! Ahhhhhh!!" Lets hope it's shortlived)
AFM: Apart from the slight insanity I'm doing good. No idea when/if I'm o'ing. I can feel the obsession creeping up on me, and I'm not even in the TWW!
Just popping in while I try and write up some notes for my group assignment!!
Hi to all the new ladies that have joined us but am very sorry for the reasoning behind it, but the girls here are so supportive. You couldn't ask for a better group!!
AFM: Been so busy with uni, and we went and saw Kevin Bl00dy Wilson on thursday nite and had a great nite out with DF and a wonderful bunch of friends. It's also DF's 30th next weekend so have been busy trying to orgainise the party for next sat nite. And it looks like the witch is on her way to visit, so will see how things go after she has vacated.
Lots to get through and running late for work so this will be a quickie and sorry to miss anyone.
MatthewsMum - GOOD LUCK WITH THE CYCLE!!! You must have started your FSH now - how exciting!!! Oh I so hope it works for you - crossing my fingers and toes. Donor eggs...we are going through similar thoughts. After my mc a very dear friend who I have known since I was 22 told me her daughter (who I have also known since that age but she was only 8!) offered to donate me some eggs (she is 26 now). I was blown away with her offer but also a bit weirded out about the fact she is the daughter of a friend, IYKWIM. Everytime I see her now I think about it but I'm hoping we will get our BFP in May and I won't have to think about it anymore. And I hope the same for you!!
Bons - sorry you are feeling short tempered love. Everything seems all over the place after a mc - I hope you are feeling brighter soon.
Thopes - hugs for your due date. What a sad day for you and I'm with the other girls and hooping that you just POAS a little early and that the BFP is hiding there waiting for you and after your last post, well - seems like it could be true! Fingers crossed.
Dory so good to hear from you! I think of you often. I had no idea what a cerclage is until I read further and I'm with Kit there's nothing coming out of you my dear til it's good and done! x
Hubba great news all is well with you!
Em - ah it's a hard journey Em. I'm gonig through it for the first time too and it is very up and down, as you can see with the posts here. Good to hear from you again and hang in there lovely
Crafty - sorry you are feeling so low. I really hope and wish for a BFP for you and Ferrals and I feel it will come but it's hard feeling like it won't ever happen. I hope you found Kit's info about late O'ing reassuring. Fingers crossed.
KitF my love you so are a generous and happy being - in here anyway! I'm sure that even when you feel you are not your bright self that you are still very loving and giving to those around you and I'm sure your friends appreciate you very much for the wonderful friend that you are. You'll get your sparkle back girl - we all feel like this from time to time, it's part of the rhythm of life (so to speak) (though that could be the intro to a really bad song!). May this TWW fly by and with it a BFP to announce.
MurryCod - Pregnyl lasts about 4-7 days (per shot) and some wear off much quicker (I asked about it last cycle when I fell pg) soooooyou just might be?
Ferrals - hugs to you
Jahazra and Sunbeam - I know where you are both coming from, best wishes to you and hope to see you in the BellyBuddy forums soon.
AFM - AF arrived yesterday (second since the mc) and with it a sore heart. Had a blue with my DH last night and went to bed early. Warning; TMI. My period is really watery and light and I'm worried that the lining isn't growing back properly. The first AF after my mc was quite heavy but this one the complete opposite so don't know whether I should speak to the dr or see a herbalist. Don't want to find it isn't developed enough when we go to do our cycle after all this time waiting.
Love to everyone - sorry to miss you in the persies but gotta run. So much for the quickie!!
afternoon all,ferrals-i've still got my fingers crossed for you...t-hopes-hope af stays away..dory-how are you feeling?..millyd-fingers crossed for you too.Our bodies sent us mixed messages,i know it's hard but we just have to wait it out ,i think...murraycod-Where are you?You okay or as okay as anyone can be in this journey?..ttalovechild-sorry af turned up it's still hard even when your expecting her..alice-sorry you &dh had a tiff,hope all is sorted now,what a lovely gesture of your friend's daughter,but as you said hope you don't need to take her up on her offer.If we need to go down that road clinic said they will help us advertise,spoke about adoption,but dh age is a obstactale as well as having other children,anyway yes i've had 2 injections,they've put me on 225iu,still sniffing up the spray,blood test came back okay,hope scan on friday show good results.If worried about af maybe ask dr,might just be your body still settling down though.
Matthews Mum: Glad your doing ok, you sound so on top of it all! Very excited to see the outcome of the cycle!
Alice: Thanks, you made my day It is sweet of your friend's daughter to offer her eggs, fair enough about being a bit weirded out, but if you needed too, I'm sure you could get past that bit pretty darn quickly! Fingers crossed for that May baby! (I was born in May, I can highly recommend it)
Ferrals: I'm sorry it's been so tough lately, you've had so much to deal with and you've been strong for so long, totally ok to have a meltdown. Have two if you want. I know you think AF is coming, but you never really know until it shows up. Your still in.
TTCALC: Crap. I'm sorry sweetheart. This month! This is the one!
T-hopes: It does sound promising! I hate how AF and preg symptoms are so similar! Testing soon?
Milly: It is tough, that's why I'm so grateful that everyone in here understands! Not sure about CP though, I know if your preg it's meant to stay soft and high, so could be?
Jahzara: It sounds like you've put a lot of thought into your decision, I think your family is very lucky to have you! I really hope you return to your family better than ever and come back to TTC feeling happier. I hope we're not here too though, lol, xoxo
Sunbeam: Aww darling, gonna miss you!! When you feel like you can't see a future with a baby in it, remember that we can. Until you feel strong enough to come back, I'll be your future-see'er ok? And I see your little girl in your arms. I'm glad your stepping up the counselling, you look after yourself ok. We'll see you soon xoxo
Em: How you going sweetheart?
AFM: Oh my goodness I hate this part! I'm really distracted and irritable. DH said he thinks I'm UTD cos the last time I was this irritable was when I was preg! I really wasn't sure how to take that I'm not sleeping well, boobs get achy on and off, had some cramping today. And apparently DH can't do anything right (his words, not mine). Not sure if that counts as a symptom. Could be though. I worked out dates and I think I'm 7 DPO. So I'm in the 1 - 2 week wait. I hope it goes quick while my husband still loves me!
Trying to Conceive After Miscarriage or Loss March 2010
hoping this is our month.
You're to rub it into your belly hourly, hear me? Then test in the morning. (Don't worry, Dr Bean bulk bills, this service will cost you nothing.)
but im ok im use to it.. So were just back @ step 1.
I'm not sleeping well, boobs get achy on and off, had some cramping today. And apparently DH can't do anything right (his words, not mine). Not sure if that counts as a symptom. Could be though. I worked out dates and I think I'm 7 DPO. So I'm in the 1 - 2 week wait. I hope it goes quick while my husband still loves me!
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