Thanks LuLu - and I'm sorry for your losses too.

No, it's not heartless, it's realistic and we probably will try again soon but need to see what the doc thinks when we see him. No snow babies I'm afraid so would have to start the whole thing from scratch.

Are you still TTC? My sister in law did her first IVF at 44 and my niece is now 7 months old! She had 2 mc before the IVF but no other health problems. I couldn't believe it after all our years of trying but at the same time it makes me hopeful things aren't all over yet (plus I adore my little niece!). I see you have PCOS...not fair, is it?

Thanks for replying.

Bye now,
Alice