thread: Feel awful!

  1. #1
    Registered User

    Oct 2009
    Frankston
    214

    Feel awful!

    Hi ladies, I've been MIA for a bit of a brake. My best friend just texted me saying she was 8.5 weeks pg! I'm happy for her but feel absolutely shattered as I am so longing for a baby after my miscarriages. I feel awful for not being overly excited but it seems everyone but me is getting up the duff :-(
    I feel like an awful friend :-(

  2. #2
    Registered User

    Jul 2009
    Riding it out...
    4,959

    Don't beat yourself up too much Shan I'm sure it is completely normal to feel that way. I've seen your sig and I really hope your Clomid cycle brings you the little baby you so want to have

  3. #3
    Registered User

    Apr 2009
    Bayside Melb.
    834

    Hi ladies, I've been MIA for a bit of a brake. My best friend just texted me saying she was 8.5 weeks pg! I'm happy for her but feel absolutely shattered as I am so longing for a baby after my miscarriages. I feel awful for not being overly excited but it seems everyone but me is getting up the duff :-(
    I feel like an awful friend :-(
    your friend know doubt ummed and arghed about telling you too (im assuming she knows of your loss) so please just go with your feelings and dont feel bad .xx

  4. #4
    Registered User

    Jul 2006
    Melbourne
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    :-( Shan, it really is tough when you hear of others happy news, particularly when that is all you want too. Please don't feel bad for how you feel, better that you talk about those feelings rather than bottle them up. I am sure like bubno3 said, as a friend she would have known how hard it would have been for you to hear her news. I went through all sorts of emotions constantly when people told me they were expecting - inital happiness, then sadness for me & my family, to anger etc.... hopefully you won't have to wait too much longer for an earthside bubba

  5. #5
    Registered User

    Oct 2007
    Brisbane, QLD
    412

    HUGS HUGS HUGS
    Words just don't work sometimes.. HUGS