Possums,

My dear, i am so sorry for your loss. I hated when I had to go back to work after my 1st m/c (first pregnancy too). I felt so alone. I know you are probably feeling that way too. Some times I had to stop myself from all those thoughts about what if's and what went wrong and why. Try not to worry yourself too much and just take a minute to yourself to just breath and be thankful that your are still here where you can be loved and be strong because you will have more opportunities to have beautiful babies.
I still have to remind myself of that everyday. Just Breathe...

Leslie