alana- I am really sorry to hear you have been through this. I experienced similar in March this year....lost my right tube and was told my left tube is dodgy/in bad shape, with some adhesions and scar tissue etc...was therefore told IVF is our best option for a baby...so we started treatment a few months later once I had recovered.
I send you a big hug - I remember feeling so shattered at the time- I was sad I had lost our baby..and I was sad/devastated at the apparent loss of my ability to conceive naturally. Plus I was sore and recovering physically etc.
I did heal and move forward though, emotionally and physically. It takes time though. There are many emotions...sadness, grief, anger, wondering why, resentment...
I'm sorry I can't say I'm now pregnant...sadly I just had a miscarriage after our second IVF treatment...but we have to remain hopefully that our turn for a baby will come...and yours will too! It's also hard for others to truly understand...so really look after yourself and surround yourself with those who care about you
also, there is a chance we could conceive naturally through one 'dodgy' 'not too good' tube... it happens! - just look at Ellie's case...(amd Ellie, that certainly give me hope!)
DH and I are now waiting to resume IVF and trying naturally in the meantime just in case of a miracle...
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