Tell me it will all be OK

[TreeTops]

Oh Fiona, it's so hard isn't it? I remember I had good days and bloody awful days, and there was often no rhyme or reason to which would be good and which wouldn't...and often no notice with the uncontrolable tears.

At the time it really does feel like you'll never be happy again. But you can be. It will all be OK, it just takes time. Don't feel hard on yourself for feeling upset.

Good luck getting pregnant again. x

[TreeTops]

P.S. I found BellyBelly helpful when I miscarried, but awful when I got pregnant again as there are so many tickers of people who have lost their babies. I found it really quite hard getting through those early weeks with the second pregnancy. I say feel free to use the site as you want, and don't feel guilty for not visiting.

[Toccara50]

Everything you are feeling is normal I have the same kind of days and I too think to myself wow I would be this far along right now you have every right to be upset you lost something very dear to you!!! I hope your TTC road is short one good luck ...

[MummaSue]

Hey,

You could have been writing about the thoughts in my head.

I'm really sorry for your loss. It is a terrible thing to be going through.

I had my m/c in October and would have been 20 weeks this week. Finding out the sex of my baby. But instead, I have 9 (yes 9) friends who are pregnant at the moment and I get to see them all doing the things I should be doing.

It is hard not to feel a bit sorry for yourself (ourselves) but as long as you don't let it consume you - which again is hard.

I give myself a day where I can be as miserable and grumpy as I like and then snap out of it the next day. It is hard but I think allowing myself to feel those feelings regularly helps.

Hope you're ok hun, you're certainly not alone here.
Big hugs
S X

[Tegam]

P.S. I found BellyBelly helpful when I miscarried, but awful when I got pregnant again as there are so many tickers of people who have lost their babies. I found it really quite hard getting through those early weeks with the second pregnancy. I say feel free to use the site as you want, and don't feel guilty for not visiting.

Im glad that im not the only one...it too me forever to read peoples tickers...one of the reasons i dont mention my angel in my ticker...it shall always be in my heart...

Fiona: hugs and support! the pain does lesson but never goes