thread: Trying again after losing son who lived for 2 days

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  1. #1
    Registered User

    May 2009
    11

    Hi Everyone,
    Thank you all for your replies.
    Thanks Rachel for recommending Maybe Baby, i have now ordered it online and will see how i go. I have not heard of it before your message. I am also taking your advice about tests from ebay. Will let you all know how I go
    Thanks again
    Zara

  2. #2
    BellyBelly Life Subscriber

    Feb 2006
    South Eastern Suburbs, Vic
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    I'm sorry that you lost your little guy Zara.

    No advice for the TTC, but wishing you all the very best. xo

  3. #3
    Registered User

    Jun 2009
    Brisbane
    132

    hi zara

    i am sorry for you loss. you are showing great courage. my brother lost his son at 2 weeks and has gone on to have 2 kids. stay strong.

    i bought a maybe baby and i'm about to start using it if i don't have any luck this month. i have heard mixed things about it so i will let you know how i go.

    i'm sure you will find the support on bb amazing and i hope your TTC time is very short!

    big hugs

  4. #4

    Oct 2008
    2,880

    Hi Zara, I just wanted to say that I am so sorry for your loss.

    I also wanted to suggest maybe trying acupuncture to sort your cycle out? After my miscarriage, it totally helped and straight away got my cycles back to normal.

    Hope that you get some answers soon hun,
    Hugs
    Sue xxxxx

  5. #5
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    Mar 2009
    Mundoolun, QLD
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    Hi Zara,

    Well I just want to say that I feel deeply for you, I have not experinced the loss of my child, just had 4 m/c, so I cant say that i understand, just that i know the feeling of loss. I personally would wait until my period has returned and give your body and mind time to heal. Your body is not going to give you what you want if your mind isnt ready.

    However in saying that, I have driven myself crazy last month and the month before (the month I had my last m/c) trying and trying and testing and testing. I have done the ebay thing (bought lots of tests for cheap), and hope that this month will be the month.....the other thing you can do is do some ovulation tests, i havnt tried these, but i have heard good things......so good luck on your journey and may god give you the child you so desperately want....


  6. #6
    Registered User

    Sep 2008
    Where the sun shines
    322

    Hi Zara,

    I very sorry for your loss . After my loss, AF came back after 5-weeks but was a bit erratic for a while. It is different for each person. I used Maybe Baby and did find it helpful. There are mixed views on this forum and I can understand why, it can be a bit tricky to get use to how to use it 'correctly' but I did find it helpful. After my loss I started temping, which really helped me detect when I was O'ing, but this is more helpful once you have charted a couple of months (hopefully you fall pg straight away though). There is a free website called fertility friend if you are interested. I second Sue's suggestion of trying accupuncture. I have read a lot of great things about it helping get your cycle back in check. I had been ttc for 6-months and was quite frustrated with the whole thing, after reading about some great successes with accupunture (there are some threads on this in the 'natural therapies' section) I started going and after one month got a BFP.

    I really feel for you hun and pray that you get your BFP very soon There is a thread called 'ttc after late loss or still birth' there are an amazing group of women there that have been through the same or similar thing and are a great support when ttc and going through the grieving process. Take care of yourself.
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  7. #7
    Registered User

    May 2009
    Sydney
    191


    Don't have advice but am sending my good vibes your way!!