Trying to Conceive after Loss or Miscarriage ~ June 08 #3

**MistyFying** · June 25th, 2008, 07:42 AM

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**tina_k** · June 25th, 2008, 07:46 AM

YAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAYYYYYYYY!!!!!!!

I always wanted to be first!!!! maybe its a good omen for this month

jen: dont give up hope yet missy, your chart looks like a perfect example of a pg chart ( ni compared it to the pg chart gallery!)
i know what you mean about just waking up and wanting the day and night to be over to temp again the next morning! almost sounds like the beginning of a "you know your obsessed with TTC when..." list!!!!! im sure we could all add lots to that!!!!

molly: hope you enjoy your picnic! that sounds lovely, some time out with just you and DH sounds just perfect!!!

have a good day girlies,

to everyone!!!

candice wray · July 1st, 2008, 05:10 AM

Hi. I am a new member so please bear with me and send me many prayers that I know what I am doing. My name is Candice and I have three wonderful boys. After they were born, I had a tubaligation performed. Worst thing I ever did in my life! We divorced and now I am faced with dealing with a tubalization reversal and have no luck at conceiving. I too have suffered from a miscarriage and feel that pain every day. Stay strong and I will keep you in my prayers.

**mollycat** · July 1st, 2008, 06:09 AM

Candice - Welcome to BB. Sorry to hear about your loss and glad that you found us. You will find a lot of support from this thread (and the whole site). Hoping that your dreams can come true soon.

Ruthie - your little boy is just beautiful, no wonder you want to be selfish and have another (who wouldn't), - just hope next time everything goes smoothly for you. Maybe your son does know something, some do.

PBStar - you sound so relaxed with TTC at the moment.

for you that this is the answer for you

AFM - not much else to say - My eldest DS is on an excursion for school today (he'll be home tonight) and the younger DS is off on to camp with school today for the rest of the week. It will be so quiet here without him. Apart from weekend camps with his father, this is the first time he'll be away for a few days. He'll be one tired little boy when he gets home.

**bettyboop** · June 25th, 2008, 07:53 AM

i wanted to be first

i have news, i got BFP today , fingers crossed is early days

**tina_k** · June 25th, 2008, 08:13 AM

oooh betty! congrats babe, thats wonderful!!!!! woo hoo!!!!! fingers crossed for a sticky one!!!

**Toccara50** · June 25th, 2008, 08:27 AM

YAY betty hope this one sticks !!!

I got some bd'ing in this morning and I just felt some cramping I'm hoping it was the egg implanting itself !!! Or it could just be all in my head ...

Yay for all the bfp's hope I join you ladies soon ...

**mollycat** · June 25th, 2008, 08:44 AM

Betty -

About time something good happened to you - must be the explaination for feeling so yuck - hopefully you have many more "yuck" days. (in the nicest possible way)

OK - new thread - lets see how many BFP's we can get to fill it up
No. 1 Betty
No. 2 ?

**plc1805** · June 25th, 2008, 08:47 AM

OMG!!!!OMG!!!!OMG!!!!

Betty - congrats hun - oh I pray I pray I pray that this is a little sticker for you!!!!

WELL DONE!!!

**jen805** · June 25th, 2008, 08:50 AM

betty--WOO HOO--ARE YOU SERIOUS??????

Congratulations!! OMG, I just read your post from the last thread, then I switch to this one and it's a BFP for you!!!

I'm so, so happy for you--well done!

Here's a few thousand tons of

ALL for you!

tina--You're so sweet, thanks so much for the encouragement! I can't tell you how many hours I've been going through the chart gallery for the last 2 days comparing my charts with others! lol... and I think it's already on the addicted list! Going to try to bring it over to the new thread in a few since I added a few more to it. Oooh, is that an O dip I see on your chart? Get busy, girl!! It's gotta be a good omen since you were the first to post in the new thread! Have some

tuck it in your pocket and keep it for yourself!

mollycat--Thanks so much for being so encouraging! I'm glad to hear you're feeling better, I can tell you're in a much better place today! Did some research on hcg levels this morning and read that it can take up to 14 days after O for the hormone to become present, and that's tomorrow for me. I think it also said that it can show up 7 days after conception, and I had a possible implantation dip (according to FF) on 7DPO, and tomorrow I'm 14DPO. Soooo, now I just wait and see what my temp does tomorrow! Ugh, I just don't want to put too much hope on this, just in case! If I'm not, I'll be fine, it will just mean more practice temping--plus I'll get to finish up the Preseed that I bought--but I'd much rather it never get used!

Hope you enjoy your picnic, sounds like you'll be catching an egg and some fish this weekend! I hope it's a peaceful, stress-free day for you on Sat. My thoughts will be with you!

You know you're addicted to BB when:

1. You sign a 2-year contract and pay $60 more per month just to have wireless internet service for a 5 day camping trip! lol...

2. Your significant other walks in on you checking the position of your cervix, and actually gets turned on from it!

3. You resort to becoming an adult film industry advocate!

4. You read, post, and then refresh to read again in case you missed a post while posting!

5. You dream of being the first to post in the new thread!

6. You feel like you are wasting urine when you don't pee on a stick!

7. You see abbreviations in everyday life and try to work out what they mean in the TTC world (eg. DVD must stand for something like "Doing the vjay vjay dance"...)

8. When you get excited about choosing a new ticker....oh the choices!!!!!

9. You actually think in emoticons and abbreviations...and occasionally call your husband DH....and he says, "what the hell did you call me????".

10. And the biggest one of all....DH actually asks if it was a light or dark "BFP" (not positive test) and whether or not you used "FMU" to test!!!! (all in abbreviations...)

11. When getting a coverline makes you so happy, you feel as though you won the lottery!

12. When you look forward to going to bed just so you can wake up in the morning and add a new temp!

13. You say you are taking a break from bb and then spend 24 hours trying to do anything but log on, including cleaning, washing, ironing, shopping, all the while saying to yourself don't do it don't do it don't do it before finally breaking down and getting your bb fix...

14. You drag yourself out of bed at 6 am every morning even though you're still tired, just to have "quiet alone time" on BB while the kids are still sleeping!

15. You get the butterflies while logging on to read posts!

16. You keep your computer on all day long so you know as soon as someone has made a post!

17. You know you are addicted to BB when you go to put the date on something and you end up writing 9 DPO!

18. You're whole day is ruined just because you can't log onto BB, and you feel like you're going to go insane without your BB fix!

19. You climb a slide and drive up the tallest hills at your camp spot trying to find a signal so your laptop will work!

20. You bring your laptop to the drive-in with you so you can check on posts in between shows!

21. You check your chart at least every half hour, because what if it changed somehow?

Looking great so far! Let me know if you think of any and I'll add them to the list! Still hoping this is ok with the mods!
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**jen805** · June 25th, 2008, 08:56 AM

betty--Just went back and re-read your post from the other thread, and you were just asking who was next to test! Apparently it was you, you sneaky little thing!

I'm in shock, and still so very happy for you!

Congratulations again a thousand times!

**Katiegirl** · June 25th, 2008, 08:58 AM

Hi all. I just wanted to send a big congrats to BettyBoop!!! I will pray so hard for you that this is a sticky bub. You have been through so much to get this far, that I just know that things are on the way up for you!

**AJC** · June 25th, 2008, 09:33 AM

bettyboop -

CONGRATULATIONS!!! Sending you lots and lots of

Wishing you a very happy & healthy pregnancy!

Hi to all of you other wonderful ladies - showering this thread, and you all, with lots and lots of

**Baby Angels** · June 25th, 2008, 11:13 AM

i wanted to be first

i have news, i got BFP today , fingers crossed is early days

CONGRATULATIONS

Betty... I am beyond excited for you.... sometimes it has felt like it was just you and I left...... so I am thrilled... thrilled... thrilled for you... goodess.. close to tears hear.. I'm that happy for you. All prays and love and hope going your way for a event free 9 months.

THRILLED.... THRILLED... THRILLED

**Where there's hope** · June 25th, 2008, 01:38 PM

YYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAYYYYYYYYY YYYYYY!

hooray for you, BettyBoop. I am so excited for you. You so deserve this.

Jen - I tested on Monday with a supposedly highly sensitive test picking up 10 hcg. The line was barely there. My BT revealed I was 110 later that morning!!! It ain't over yet, Sunshine. Your chart is still telling a different story. When is your AF due??? Sending you lots of BABYDUST

**bettyboop** · June 25th, 2008, 01:56 PM

i am still in shock myself , i was trying so hard not to test, wow i have no self control.hope jen will join me soon, thanks for all the baby dust and sticky wishes

**AJC** · June 25th, 2008, 01:57 PM

jen - the BFN doesn't have me convinced. Your chart looks great - am sure your BFP is just around the corner..... it's knocking at the door even!!!! Good luck!!!