Trying to Conceive after Miscarriage or Loss #2 April '08

[jen805]

smilanatu--Was wondering why I hadn't heard from you in a while! Glad to hear all is well, and you had such a great weekend! Have fun next weekend--make sure you get LOTS of then! Can't believe it's almost TWW for you again, and I haven't even LEFT yet!

I think I may pick up another HPT today--this is just ridiculous and going on for too long. Even if it's still a BFN at least I would know for sure that I'm out for this month. It's hard enough having to wait during the TWW, but to go beyond that is just completely insane!

Hope everyone state-side has a happy Monday--I hate Mondays! All my Aussie friends are lucky they've already had theirs! Hope you all have sweet dreams and a happy Tue!

[jen805]

Morning ladies. For those of who in the TWW thread, sorry this will be a repeat for you. POAS= I'm not but I'm ok with it. I just had a feeling after the last test came back neg. that it didn't happen for me this month. Actually once my chart changed I just kinda knew... Now I need all the I can get that AF will get here before FF says she will--which isn't until May 19th! Does anyone have any idea how I can be fertile again before it shows AF coming? Just doesn't seem possible. Anyhow, I'm sure she'll show by then. I've had mild crampiness for the last several days off and on. So lets get this over with Flo!

Have to make DF a sandwich before I leave for work at the school. I'm very lucky I only live 4 houses away from the school! I always feel bad for grumbling about having to go to work when it's only for 1 1/2 hrs, but since school will be out in just about a month, the kids are starting to try to get away with a little more than usual. I'll check back in later on...

[plc1805]

Oh jen - I'm so sorry honey!!! Do you think you should see someone about no AF? Or is it too early yet?

bday buddy - 19 sleeps to go !!!!

[jen805]

Thanks plc, but it's really ok. I think I'm just going to wait it out, it has to just be that my cycle's not quite back to normal. I'm more annoyed at my chart than I am about my BFN!

Hope things are well with you!

[Baby Angels]

Birthday Buddy.... You dont have to remind me I m telling you... I feel OLD this time.... Whaaaaaaaaa


Nickster.... keep it going girlfriend..... I check in all the time to see.

[Angel Babies 3]

Magda - I started having dark brown discharge when I was 7 weeks. Had an U/S done and they could see the sac but no heartbeat. They said it looked like I was only 5-6 weeks so they wanted to leave things as they thought my dates may just have been out. I knew my dates weren't wrong and just knew the worse was going to happen. I guess because I had had a previous loss (S/B twins at 30 wks) I just was optimistic any more. I had another U/S in 2 weeks and it had grown but still no heartbeat. I spoke to my OB about what options there were. He said D&C (which I didn't fancy - don't like generals), pessaries to bring on the M/C or just wait and see. I chose to wait and see. Light bleeding started and went on for a week. The morning I was due for my next U/S the bleeding was really heavy and filled pads even though I was sitting down. I started to decrease by the time I went to the hospital. I just knew that my baby was now gone and things would be over. The bleeding had stopped by the time I went in for my U/S and sure enough, nothing left. All clear and no need for anything further. For me letting the M/C take it's course was the right thing to do but everyone is different. And of course, if things hadn't have gone so smoothly I may have needed medical intervention.
But this was me. Everyone is different.

By the way. One cycle later I was pregnant with my DD no.1 and that pregnancy was smooth sailing (even though I was a nervous wreck half of the time).

Good luck and big hugs,
Debbie

[tempus moriendi]

Hi, still just 2wwing. Ugh. Although my boobs hurt for the first time in months.

AngelBabies: hey girl! Long time no see. Hope everythings going well with you.

Magda: let us know how you're doing, okay?