Trying to Conceive after Miscarriage or Loss #2 April '08

Magda · April 28th, 2008, 12:15 PM

Hi ladies,

Hope everyone has had a great day.

Trac: Gl with your pregnancy. I had 2 etopic pregnancies before and I don't recall feeling dizzy, but with the first one I did feel as though something inside was swinging as I walked I realized after the fact what that was. If you feel anything like that get to the dr imediately, that etopic erupted. I don't mean to worry you but it is one of those things that is best to catch in time.

Jen805: Thank you for your encouragement. I checked out the site you mentioned and found another site that talks about misdiagnoised mc. I found a lot of stories of women that have gone through what I am going through and everything turned out ok. It is nice to read these stories right now. It keeps me from stressing out, which whatever is going to happen is what will be. I am hoping that it works out, if it doesn't I'll try again.

Angel Babies 3, Thank you. I am sorry that you had to go through this. Did you mc naturally or get a d&c. How long after you knew.

I want to thank all the other ladies, I have to go to the bathroom I feel as though something is leaking.

**jen805** · April 28th, 2008, 12:30 PM

Oh, Magda,

I'm

for you! I'm glad to see you're keeping your mind occupied during this stressful time, and I'm SOOOO glad that there's some positive stories that are giving you some much needed hope! Don't forget we're all here for you!

**issy02** · April 28th, 2008, 01:02 PM

Hi ladies,

WOW, I cant keep up with everyones posts between here and the TWW

...

So....hello to EVERYONE

Hope you are all doing ok and trying to stay positive. Im

for BFP's for all...spread em' around I say!!!

Have a great day everyone,

Issy

**smilanatu** · April 28th, 2008, 11:46 PM

Morning ladies! I had a fabolous weekend w/my sweetie...we hope to repeat it next weekdend sice that will be big "O" time. AF was her usaul short and sweet self...although I wish the witch would stay aay for about 9 months LOL!!!

jen...boo witch boo!!!

for you...

tempus and issy...I was upset about AF at first but ...it's almost TWW again!

Sorry I'm short on personals but it's Monday and my desk is full!

**jen805** · April 28th, 2008, 11:56 PM

smilanatu--Was wondering why I hadn't heard from you in a while! Glad to hear all is well, and you had such a great weekend! Have fun next weekend--make sure you get LOTS of

then! Can't believe it's almost TWW for you again, and I haven't even LEFT yet!

I think I may pick up another HPT today--this is just ridiculous and going on for too long. Even if it's still a BFN at least I would know for sure that I'm out for this month. It's hard enough having to wait during the TWW, but to go beyond that is just completely insane!

Hope everyone state-side has a happy Monday--I hate Mondays! All my Aussie friends are lucky they've already had theirs! Hope you all have sweet dreams and a happy Tue!

**jen805** · April 29th, 2008, 03:46 AM

Morning ladies. For those of who in the TWW thread, sorry this will be a repeat for you. POAS=

I'm not

but I'm ok with it. I just had a feeling after the last test came back neg. that it didn't happen for me this month. Actually once my chart changed I just kinda knew... Now I need all the

I can get that AF will get here before FF says she will--which isn't until May 19th! Does anyone have any idea how I can be fertile again before it shows AF coming? Just doesn't seem possible. Anyhow, I'm sure she'll show by then. I've had mild crampiness for the last several days off and on. So lets get this over with Flo!

Have to make DF a sandwich before I leave for work at the school. I'm very lucky I only live 4 houses away from the school! I always feel bad for grumbling about having to go to work when it's only for 1 1/2 hrs, but since school will be out in just about a month, the kids are starting to try to get away with a little more than usual. I'll check back in later on...

**plc1805** · April 29th, 2008, 07:17 AM

Oh jen - I'm so sorry honey!!! Do you think you should see someone about no AF? Or is it too early yet?

bday buddy - 19 sleeps to go !!!!

**jen805** · April 29th, 2008, 09:03 AM

Thanks plc, but it's really ok. I think I'm just going to wait it out, it has to just be that my cycle's not quite back to normal. I'm more annoyed at my chart than I am about my BFN!

Hope things are well with you!

**Baby Angels** · April 29th, 2008, 10:18 AM

Birthday Buddy.... You dont have to remind me

I m telling you... I feel OLD this time.... Whaaaaaaaaa

Nickster.... keep it going girlfriend..... I check in all the time to see.

**Angel Babies 3** · April 29th, 2008, 10:32 AM

Magda - I started having dark brown discharge when I was 7 weeks. Had an U/S done and they could see the sac but no heartbeat. They said it looked like I was only 5-6 weeks so they wanted to leave things as they thought my dates may just have been out. I knew my dates weren't wrong and just knew the worse was going to happen. I guess because I had had a previous loss (S/B twins at 30 wks) I just was optimistic any more. I had another U/S in 2 weeks and it had grown but still no heartbeat. I spoke to my OB about what options there were. He said D&C (which I didn't fancy - don't like generals), pessaries to bring on the M/C or just wait and see. I chose to wait and see. Light bleeding started and went on for a week. The morning I was due for my next U/S the bleeding was really heavy and filled pads even though I was sitting down. I started to decrease by the time I went to the hospital. I just knew that my baby was now gone and things would be over. The bleeding had stopped by the time I went in for my U/S and sure enough, nothing left. All clear and no need for anything further. For me letting the M/C take it's course was the right thing to do but everyone is different. And of course, if things hadn't have gone so smoothly I may have needed medical intervention.
But this was me. Everyone is different.

By the way. One cycle later I was pregnant with my DD no.1 and that pregnancy was smooth sailing (even though I was a nervous wreck half of the time).

Good luck and big hugs,
Debbie

**tempus moriendi** · April 29th, 2008, 11:50 AM

Hi, still just 2wwing. Ugh. Although my boobs hurt for the first time in months.

AngelBabies: hey girl! Long time no see. Hope everythings going well with you.

Magda: let us know how you're doing, okay?

**plc1805** · April 29th, 2008, 01:05 PM

Girls - I don't know how to tell you this and I am shaking as I write but I am very weak and couldn't help POASing this morning even tho I said I was going to wait til Sat when AF is due. Anyway, I got a bfp - and it wasn't even FMU. I am only 12dpo so I guess I just need to wait til Sat to POAS again and then see how I go from there - day by day. I am very very nervous but totally aware that I could m/c early and even if I don't, my past m/cs have left me with a lot of issues about seeing u/s's with no heartbeat present. If all goes well and I get to see a heartbeat, I will truly feel this one's for real. I can't believe I am actually giving you all this news, I knew I felt strange and just had to know if it was in my head. Whatever happens, I am not robbing myself of the joy of receiving a bfp ...... finally! U all r the only ones who know besides my DH (not telling anyone else for the longest time) and I'm getting teary just thinking of how much you all mean to me and how grateful I am of ur support and strength. From the bottom of my heart - thankyou.

**jen805** · April 29th, 2008, 01:14 PM

Congrats!!

Sending you tons of

I'm SO happy for you!! Just relax and enjoy every minute of it!!!

**mmteacher** · April 29th, 2008, 01:35 PM

Jen~I am sorry to hear about your BFN and I hope you get a late BFP or AF comes and you can start again!

PLC1805~Congrats-how very exciting! Yeah I love hearing about BFP's-it gives me hope!!!

Tempus~I hope your sore bb's are a good early sign!!!!

AFM~BD Saturday afternoon and again Sunday morning and one more time tonight just to be sure! I have soreness on my right ovary which is where my doctor thought I would O from so I guess that is good. I never got a +OPK though so not sure what's up with that! Oh well, we BD anyway and hope for the best! I guess I am in the TWW but feeling more relaxed this month...I just keep reminding myself to let go and focus on things I CAN control!

BFP's and Sticky Baby Dust to all!

MMTeacher

**mollycat** · April 29th, 2008, 02:01 PM

YAY. well done! I just knew you were going to get a BFP. Your temps looked so good.

Guess the rest of us are just going to have to follow you into PAML. just don't get to far ahead okay. What a great early b'day pressie for you

Now - take it easy, rest up and enjoy getting really, really FAT.

**plc1805** · April 29th, 2008, 02:02 PM

Thanks so much ladies - I too am praying with my whole heart for BFPs and sticky vibes for us all!!

**plc1805** · April 29th, 2008, 02:10 PM

Thanks mollycat - just saw ur post. If it's ok, I'll camp here for a while - not ready for PAML - don't feel like I belong there just yet. I hope I am allowed to get to the fatt-er stage - that would be such a blessing

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