Thanks plc, but it's really ok. I think I'm just going to wait it out, it has to just be that my cycle's not quite back to normal. I'm more annoyed at my chart than I am about my BFN!
Hope things are well with you!
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Thanks plc, but it's really ok. I think I'm just going to wait it out, it has to just be that my cycle's not quite back to normal. I'm more annoyed at my chart than I am about my BFN!
Hope things are well with you!
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Birthday Buddy.... You dont have to remind meI m telling you... I feel OLD this time.... Whaaaaaaaaa
Nickster.... keep it going girlfriend..... I check in all the time to see.
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Magda - I started having dark brown discharge when I was 7 weeks. Had an U/S done and they could see the sac but no heartbeat. They said it looked like I was only 5-6 weeks so they wanted to leave things as they thought my dates may just have been out. I knew my dates weren't wrong and just knew the worse was going to happen. I guess because I had had a previous loss (S/B twins at 30 wks) I just was optimistic any more. I had another U/S in 2 weeks and it had grown but still no heartbeat. I spoke to my OB about what options there were. He said D&C (which I didn't fancy - don't like generals), pessaries to bring on the M/C or just wait and see. I chose to wait and see. Light bleeding started and went on for a week. The morning I was due for my next U/S the bleeding was really heavy and filled pads even though I was sitting down. I started to decrease by the time I went to the hospital. I just knew that my baby was now gone and things would be over. The bleeding had stopped by the time I went in for my U/S and sure enough, nothing left. All clear and no need for anything further. For me letting the M/C take it's course was the right thing to do but everyone is different. And of course, if things hadn't have gone so smoothly I may have needed medical intervention.
But this was me. Everyone is different.
By the way. One cycle later I was pregnant with my DD no.1 and that pregnancy was smooth sailing (even though I was a nervous wreck half of the time).
Good luck and big hugs,
Debbie
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Hi, still just 2wwing. Ugh. Although my boobs hurt for the first time in months.
AngelBabies: hey girl! Long time no see. Hope everythings going well with you.
Magda: let us know how you're doing, okay?
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Girls - I don't know how to tell you this and I am shaking as I write but I am very weak and couldn't help POASing this morning even tho I said I was going to wait til Sat when AF is due. Anyway, I got a bfp - and it wasn't even FMU. I am only 12dpo so I guess I just need to wait til Sat to POAS again and then see how I go from there - day by day. I am very very nervous but totally aware that I could m/c early and even if I don't, my past m/cs have left me with a lot of issues about seeing u/s's with no heartbeat present. If all goes well and I get to see a heartbeat, I will truly feel this one's for real. I can't believe I am actually giving you all this news, I knew I felt strange and just had to know if it was in my head. Whatever happens, I am not robbing myself of the joy of receiving a bfp ...... finally! U all r the only ones who know besides my DH (not telling anyone else for the longest time) and I'm getting teary just thinking of how much you all mean to me and how grateful I am of ur support and strength. From the bottom of my heart - thankyou.
Last edited by plc1805; April 29th, 2008 at 01:14 PM.
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Congrats!!
Sending you tons of
I'm SO happy for you!! Just relax and enjoy every minute of it!!!
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Jen~I am sorry to hear about your BFN and I hope you get a late BFP or AF comes and you can start again!
PLC1805~Congrats-how very exciting! Yeah I love hearing about BFP's-it gives me hope!!!
Tempus~I hope your sore bb's are a good early sign!!!!
AFM~BD Saturday afternoon and again Sunday morning and one more time tonight just to be sure! I have soreness on my right ovary which is where my doctor thought I would O from so I guess that is good. I never got a +OPK though so not sure what's up with that! Oh well, we BD anyway and hope for the best! I guess I am in the TWW but feeling more relaxed this month...I just keep reminding myself to let go and focus on things I CAN control!
BFP's and Sticky Baby Dust to all!
MMTeacher
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