Trying to Conceive after Miscarriage/Loss #2- June 2009

[catgirl]

Wow - thanks for an amazing welcome! There's something about talking to people who hae been through the same thing that is so comforting

Good luck to you girls in the TWW - I wish I was there with you, but I had screwy cycles before I got preggers, so who knows when/if I'll ov!! OPKs are still very negative!

Lovely poem Ferrals4 - big hugs to you... hope you're doing ok

I'm going to see my doc tomorrow for my first checkup after my D&C... got lots of questions for him!!

[TinaR]

hi all,

Ferrals - that poem is beautiful..it bought tears to my eyes.

Given up hope - Just for some inspiration..when I lost my fourth just a few weeks ago my boss spoke to me to give me hope. he and his wife lost 6 angels then had a boy lost another angel then had a girl. While it is hard and heartbreaking especially when they (docs) won't give us a reason why they leave us there is hope for all of us.

Thanks everyone for the uplifting 'hope ur better' messages. I'm doing great. I'm really looking forward to bd next week (I'm chasing ) and then that painful tww. I've still got 37 of those 40 hcg tests so I can waste a few testing early

I've got a bridal expo to put together in 2 months...I'm freaking out!

Hey to everyone...fingers crossed and to everyone.... we all get out of here this month and move together into the due date.

[Anila]

oh ferrals, that poem was wonderful.

[zstar]

ferrals you are amazing and inspiring

[maddison]

Hello everyone,

I have been in Melbourne the last few days attending a bra fitting course and havent had a computer to check out whats been happening. I am officially out of the TTW. A/F arrived right on time yesterday which i feel fine about. I am all back to normal. A 28 day cycle... Fantastic. Im going to stop charting my bbt this month. Just bd when we feel like it, no pressure, no stress and see what happens. Feeling really good about it too. Like a weight has been lifted.

Ferrals your poem was beautiful. Im glad i didnt get any customers while i was reading it as it brought tears to my eyes.

Welcome to all the new ladies. I hope you find all the support you need here with all the wonderful women on this forum.

I hope everyone is well and having a lovely morning.
and more to everyone.

[Sunbeam]

Hello Lovely ladies,

Ferrlas-that is such a gorgeous poem and shows me yet again how strong you are to carry on and cling to the hope of a beautiful bundle of joy. I'm sorry if time is dragging but it will all be worth it when you know you are pg with your healthy baby.

maddison- I'm glad you are happy to see af and that your cycle is back to normal. I think not charting and just going with the flow is a great idea. Donor daddy and I have taken months off completely before just because we needed a break from thinking about it the whole time. Its hard but it feels better the next month.

catgirl- I really hope you can get some answers from your doc today.

sunny09- sorry to hear you are sick hope you feel better really soon ready to chase the egg.

TinaR- happy egg hunting

afm- i was freaking out this morning as my temp is still only up by .1 (36.6) which is unusual for me in an ov cycle but then I went to the ovusoft website and looked at some other bfp crazy temp charts and felt a lot better. Because of the low temps I have started to use the progesterone pesseries already in case it means my progesterone is low figure I can always get more and it can only help. Still having strong o pains at odd times. Crazy freaky body!!

[milly5]

HI ladies,

It's been a while since I posted, but just wanted to let you know I was still here.
WAY too many posts to catch up on all the persies, so sorry if I don't mention you directly.

Welcome Givenuphope & catgirl, and any other new ladies I may have missed, sorry you have had to join us, but the ladies here are great?

I'm not sure about how others my age feel but at 43 I am very concerned about my ability to have a healthy baby.

Sammy I worry about this too. I am 37, no living children, and now, since the m/c I keep thinking that my mother had a very early menopause for her age, so maybe I am "older" than my age, and wonder if that's why we have had so much trouble TTC??

Sunbeam - so you're in the 2ww - as am I from today, so you never know, fingers crossed we will get to be BB together!!
Zstar - also in the 2ww - fingers crossed
who else is in the 2ww wait?

[Inanna]

It's time for a new thread my lovelies... Keep chatting HERE