Aww, smi.... that's tough! Could he possibly just be trying to make you jealous? That's really cr@ppy of him--totally inconsiderate--he needs a big, swift kick in the a$$! I'm so sorry, hon! How are your kids dealing with all this? It must be a pretty confusing situation! I'm saying major for you--stay strong! You're WAY better and above this, smi--you'll get thru this, I promise! I sent you an e-mail, did you get it?