Trying to Conceive After Miscarriage or Loss April/May 2010

Crafty-i am laying here with a heat bag my cramping is like AF pain and pretty constant and my boobs are still really sore even laying on them hurts.
LOL i am to chicken to test to id rather not know and still have hope then be disapointed.
I watched clash of the titans pretty good and i emailed murrycod to see if she was ok and she got back to me from work so i am sure when she has time she will pop in.
I still have 6 days until i test it is driving me insane i can't possibly google any more on cramping or implantation pain or early pregnancy symptoms i don't get any sort of comfort from it just more guessing.

Hey ferrals !
Two old farts wondering !:ROFL: what a way to end up hey ! this time next week we will be really happy or really Pis**d off ! I will be there which ever way it goes for us !

:o can't beleive I just said that ( 2 old farts I mean )

Crafty-:ROFL:I know pretty funny hey you would think us being experienced mums and all we would know what we are doing and more importantly what our bodies are doing so lets show these young whipper snappers what us older chicks can do.

Oh! and i am there with ya all the way lets hope we get the same outcome so we can either ***** and rant and vent together or jump for joy into the BB thread together.

Oh i hope theres some good news in here this coming week! We want some BFPs!!!

Ferrals - are u sure u just arent constipated and have a build up of wind??! ;)
U poor thing not knowing whether u are or not, u wld be going insane.. especially since u dont have much on this weekend to keep ur mind occupied! hang in there. thinking of u.

T-hopes- ur right about everyone being a knowledgable bunch in here.. im so grateful! theres just some things on google u cant trust! :) Sorry to hear about ur DIL :(

millyd- why are u going to stop ttc next month?? good luck with this month :crossfingers:

matthews mum- thanku :)

ttca- it sounds like u have had a crazy few days!! congratulations on court case going well! im glad leighas bday went well!! ur pictures are great :D

craftmummy- ur symptoms sound very promising!! hurry up monday and testing!!!!

and hello to everyone else!! :D

Well i have been doing some googling research all day and have found a great website that u shld all have a look at! Welcome
It really makes me wonder if a lot of mc's cld have been prevented. Progesterone levels when u first fall pg arent usually one of the things docs test for when it really shld be according to the research i have been doing! Have a read of some of the ladies stories. Im not sure what my levels were before i fell pg or during but I know for sure when it happens again ill be asking for it to be tested.. my gyno wont know what hit him this next time around! ill be little miss educated!!!
I also have a question.. sorry if ur all getting sick of me! but am just wondering if any of u have tried false unicorn root?? ive been doing a bit of reading on it too and have found out that it may help to prevent mc in the first trimester.. i know im jumping the gun a bit but i wld rather be prepared this time!
I have also done my research on vitex ferrals and am just not sure if i shld start taking it when im already taking progesterone tablets?? and i will also be taking clomid in a couple days too.. so dont really want to go mixing it in... not sure tho?? I so wish i had started taking vitex straight after mc.. im kicking myself now but hey better late then never to find out hey.
Im freaking out a bit cos i have read to hold a healthy pregnancy ur levels have to be 16 or higher and since mine are only 3.8 its not a very good start.

Wow i sure have spent a lot of time googling today - a bit like u ferrals haha! i used to be addicted to facebook when i had spare time but i havent even opened it up today!

Anyway i hope ur all having a good weekend and not stressing too much.. if u can help it!! im hoping i wake up tomoro in a bloody mess (literally!! :rofl: ) so i can get this cycle happening!! xxx

:crossfingers: For all the girls with porno boobs, nausea, cramping and all the other maybe pregnant signs!

T-Hopes: sorry to hear about your FIL.

AFM: Finally got my positive OPK last night and after cramping all night and this morning the pain finally settled down (after having pains since Tuesday). I figure i must have laid one hell of a ginormous egg! lol So by tomorrow i guess i'm in the TWW. Phew that was hard work!! All the same, if i don't fall pg this month i might go to the dr to get checked out: i think 5 days of ovulation pain is a little extreme?

Hi to Alice, Murray Cod, Jellylove, Ami and all the others who have gone a bit quiet. Hope you are well. Sunbeam, sorry no BFP this cycle but good to hear you have a plan for moving forward. Loops, hope things are back on track soon, sorry for BFN. Porsche: sorry you are struggling: it really sucks when you have just had a loss and still bleeding and just want to be ready to try again. I hope the bleeding is finished soon. Hi to everyone else.

good luck everyone - can't wait to hear about your tests. Fingers crossed you all get your BFPs.

We've had visitors again today - my best friend and her husband and kids so really lovely but very tiring after a long week. You know what I love the best? Finding all the funny little things the kids leave around when they go. I got in the bath and there were two little plastic polar bears watching me - very funny. I have a cupboard full of toys and a little book case with books and colouring in things for them for when they come. They love running around the yard and chasing the chooks and collecting stones...ah, it's so fun.

TTCaLC - CONGRATULATIONS on the court case! And looks like Leigha had a great birthday. Oh boy I was so sad to read that she had never had one. Breaks my heart to think of kids going through that, if IVF doesn't work for us this time I think we'll look into fostering again. I just want this happy mess around the house all the time but I'm sure all of you mums reading this will roll your eyes and say no you don't!

Back tomorrow for a proper catch up.

Fingers crossed and love to everyone,

Alice x

PS Thanks Possum - had a busy few days away from home and visitors but ducking in to check up on you all when I can. All good here x

Thanks Everyone she did have a nice one..
Alice .. I hope youget you bub :) and i didnt roll my eyes i smiled :)


For you Ladies waiting to POAS GOODLUCK STICKY VIBES!! Im soo praying that you all get a BIG fat BFP!!!



Off to make lunch :)

Oh my beautiful ladies, I am sitting here bawling my husband has gone for a surf and would you believe you guys are the first I am telling.....
ITS A :bfp:!!!!!!
I cannot stop crying I am so grateful. I feel like my little angel is back and I have been praying up a storm lately, I just feel so grateful. Its good maybe that DH is not here, he'd be freaking out with all these tears.

Its BFP, I cant believe it. Also just as a side issue I tested at 10dpo with BFN, but today AF is due thats 12dpo and its BFP, faint but definite no question BFP!!! So hold on you ladies who like me go a little insane and test early with BFN xxx your BFP may be just a day or 2 away...

Love you all, I know its the start of a very positive month for all of us
xxxxxx

I will be back for persies and reading later when I can read the screen properly
xxxxx:pink-babydust::bluedust:

Alice, I didnt roll my eyes you beautiful thing. I know how much you want it, and you deserve it. Messiness is some peoples happiness xxxx You will get your bubby xxx

:happyforyou:
Congratulations Millyd!!!!
Wishing you a H & H PG!
The first of the BFP'S for this thread:hooray:
let us know the look on your DH's face ;)

xxxx

Thanks Bons, I am counting the minutes til his return. He will probably be at least another hour. I was thinking of going to the beach to get him but then we will have to come back in seperate cars and that will just not do today!! :)
So I am thinking of some gigglingly fun to tell him....hehehe

Millyd-OMG! OMG! congratz hunny i am so happy for you and you made it in time before you hubby's cut off date.
I'm glad i read your post i am 10dpo today and was gonna poas but i won't do it i will wait.

Reet-no not constipated just feel like it.
Vitex is a natural herb to help balance out your hormones i wouldn't take it while taking progesterone tablets let them do there work 1st i know that in the 1st half of your cycle after AF starts your progesterone is supose to be low and mine was then is rises in the 2nd half until AF shows or pregnant sorry not much help i am an expert on estrogen levels and FSH levels LOL.

T-Hopes your next for a BFP.

Possum magic-yeh! for the tww NOT! i can't wait for it to be over.

AFM-Temp rise again to 36.9 i feel really hot now and my boobs are definately a swollen i am in two minds at the moment thank god i have to go to work this arvo to take my mind off it.

CONGRATULATIONS millyd

:stickyvibesboy::stickyvibesgirl::stickyvibesboy:: stickyvibesgirl:

:happyforyou::happyforyou::happyforyou:

Milly I teared up when i read your post. Hooray! :leap: (My daughter has seen me on Belly Belly and that is her favourite smiley!) Congratulations!

OMG OMG millyd OMG OMG

Congratulations sweety, :leap::happyforyou: I had tears in my eyes from happiness when I read your post, am so happy that it's your turn. Sending you heaps of sticky vibes!!

ferals, it's your turn next!!

OK! i just entered todays temp into FF and i now have a triphasic chart.

Iona macc-I think T-Hopes and Crafty are next i hope i can follow.

Ferrals it has to be your month also. I have everything :crossfingers: for you

Fr I have no idea what a Triphasic chart is, but I am guessing it bl##dy good!!! Well done. Its happening!!! I know it!!

Thank you all you lovely ladies, you are all so beautiful in your support I love it. Thank you thank you thankyouxxx