TTCALC - congrats on custody outcome and happy birthday to leigha
Mildez - :hug: to you my sweet, we are here to help you through this time. if you need anything let us know. Am thinking of you mwah
hi to everyone else!!
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TTCALC - congrats on custody outcome and happy birthday to leigha
Mildez - :hug: to you my sweet, we are here to help you through this time. if you need anything let us know. Am thinking of you mwah
hi to everyone else!!
TTCALC Congrats!!!!!:happyforyou: thats so Fabulous
And happy bday to leigha, have agreat day tomorrow (since you are soon offto bed)
This is the beginning of many great things, I can feel it !!! mwa
Mildez big hugs sweetie xxx I am so sorry you dont have what you should and deserve to right now xxxx
TCCLAC - Glad things went well in Court for you, and I hope that you got some sleep the night before..... I love the story about the toilet paper. I am the same! We have only an 18 pack and about 10 in the house and I am thinking we are getting low! I now only buy in 18/24 packs because then I don't get anxious about it. Hilarious. My BF said once to me she never buys toilet paper in bulk because people might think she has diahoerra. Poor Leigha, I can't imagine what it must be like to live in a family where she was under appreciated to that extent. I can't imagine how low her self confidence must be. Did she get a cake? What sort? Did she love blowing out the candles? Good luck for your lap which is coming up. Hope Ron has got his nurses out fit ready? Woot Woot.
Ferals - I love the photos of Sarabi - I think its a great idea to get two cats, for lots of reasons. First of all they can keep each other company when you are both out, second, they play with each other when you're all at home, and third, you and DH don't have to fight to get cat cuddles. I just adore my fur babies. Of course there is the litter ( not my job at the moment!) and the puke, and the vet visits because I am too viligant, but there are so many more gifts that they unwittingly give. I was woken this morning by a cat wanting a cuddle. Then I woke later to a cat curled up between my feet. Right now, a cat has climbed up on the lounge and is snuggled up to me. Perfect. Just perfect. And yesterday when I just felt inexplicably sad and was just crying, I went and laid next to one of the cats, who looked up from his snooze, stretched out one paw put it on my hand and started to purr loudly, and then went back to snoozing. It was such a simple gesture but gave me so much comfort. So my sweet, with two furbabies, you won't look back. BTW I have everything crossed for your weird symptoms. Cat cuddles!
Kit - I laughed so hard when you recounted the story of your George falling into the toilet and being blue from the toilet water! Hilarous. You must have just laughed so hard. He didn't get out and run like a mad thing through the house did he? That would have been funny, except you
would have had to clean it up.
Mildez - sweetie. I am thinking of you. It sounds weird, but somehow, after you move past the milestone of your EDD, things are different. Its not like a magic wand type of moment, but more as you pointed out, something you have been wanting to avoid has passsed. The dread can often be worse than the day itself. I am sorry that your DH is going away.
Is there anyone that you trust not to hover and crowd you in but who can be with you over the weekend? You are right, its better not to be alone. I will be thinking of you, especially over the next few days and keeping you and your angel close to my heart. Love to you.
Bons - hmm a manicure. I don't reckon it would get noticed either, but if you want to feel a bit spec, go ahead! Maybe the boy will surprise us all and notice!
Hello to all my other special friends - Murray, Crafty, MillyD, Ionna, Possum. Alice, Saffy, T Hopes, Loops, Reet, Jenna ( glad you got some pain relief from the hospital but sorry about AF- hope you are resting up) Porhce ( you've been quiet – all ok), Ami, Sunbeam, ScaryPinkFairy – thinking of you and sending you cat cuddles.
Mathews Mum - thankyou for thinking of me when you have so much to think about at the moment. I really do appreciate it. I am so heartbroken for you and your emby. I wish I could make it better for you, I really do. Sending you a big cat hug and purr ( and coping you are not allergic).
AFM - feeling much more my old self today after being quite weepy yesterday. Maybe I just needed some extra cat cuddles? On an aside, I am in the throes of my second ever known bout of thrush. Not too bad in terms of symptoms but lots of itching. Anyway, have been using the “applicator” for two nights now. Wish I had a funny story to tell, but I have nothing. Usually inner health plus works for me at keeping it at bay, but not at the mo. I can't stand the smell of the VJ after the cream is in there. Yucko!
Hi Dory:
Yes I have been a bit quiet. I've been struggling a little. As i'm in the LTTTC Metformin/Clomid as well and all the ladies there are talking about their recent pregnancies. I know they are excited and nervous and worried etc.... I'm just feeling like knife is twisting through my heart. Not their fault I know. So I've been avoiding the forum for a couple of days to get myself together a little. I'm still not ready to reply to that thread but I do read it to keep up.
But the good news is the bleeding has eased up to brown spotting now. I had more clots pass yesterday so i paniked and rang the FS who fitted me in to do an ultrasound. It showed all was ok. Perhaps a little more tissue to pass but nothing to worry about. Just got to wait till Wednesday for my "official" appointment for our clearance to start trying again. It was difficult sitting in the waiting room with those pregnant women and their new born babies. Where do you look? I tried to go to a happy place and I think I managed pretty well.
I feel more at ease now within myself. I'll be much better when we can start TTC again. I'm counting down.
Porsche- I was just looking for you in the other thread!, glad to find you here and that you are ok, I understand why you don't post there ATM. good luck with your appt. I've been thinking about you xx
Dory- I am a kitty fanatic too, in the TWW I always imagine they know I am UTD and are giving me signs-alas not yet but hopefully one day! Glad you are back on track.
TTCALC- congrats on a great outcome you must be so happy! xx
Everyone else- I'm just waiting for the mass POAS and mass BFP's......put me out of my misery soon please!!
Hi Ladies
Thanks for the help and wishes.
GL to all you wonderful ladies in TWW and soon to be testing, FX so tight! :bluedust::stickyvibesgirl:
Ferrals ~ I can relate to your clean freak thing, you sound exactly the same as me LOL
TTCALC ~ Sounds like you have a very full house now and you've been through a lot with regards to custody, congratulations!
GL everyone, hoping lots of BFP's very soon
AFM ~ Did a POAS this morning and of course BFN! So hoping AF is coming Sun/Mon. I really hope it does, so badly want to get back to normal.
Love to all!
Porche - Sweetie, I have no idea where you look, it is so hard going to appointments where you are confronted with pregnant women and babies. I think you did the best thing - find yourself a happy place mentally and just go there. I usually just keep my head down and don't make eye contact. It's just easier for me that way. Glad that you had some reassurane by the scan though that things were ok and maybe you'll stop bleeding soon and be on the TCC bandwagon quick smart and off again just as quickly!
It's ok not to post, and you don't have to explain. It's hard sometimes, but I like to ask after people who aren't posting, just in case they are lurking. I reckon its when you are lurking that its most important to feel remembered.
Saffy - hope your furbabies give you a signal very soon. I always thought one of ours gave me the signal - not a lap or cuddle cat, but everytime I have been pregnant, this cat has come and laid on my tummy. I wonder if it means something or is just a coincidence? What signs do you look out for?
Loops - for once I hope AF arrives for you, and then stays away!
Dory
Yay! TTCalovechild, so glad court went well! I hope leigha enjoyed her birthday! Im with Dory, what flavour cake etc :D I love cake hehe specially orange poppyseed!
Mildez - Hugs hun xxx
Loops - the dreaded BFN....I hope AF makes a speedy entrance and exit!
Dory - Lovely to hear from you, Im sure all pets just know when we need a bit of extra affection, My puppy slept in the laundry until the night I found out we had mc, i went to put her to bed and she howled and whined until i let her sleep in our room, she had been sleeping in the laundry fine for months before that!
AFM - Im just being bored at home, DH had to go straight from the airport to work, wont get to pick him up til about 7 tonight, so i dont think he will feel like any loving anyways:shakehead:
xxx
Thanks ladies, hope you are both well! xoxo
I need fingers crossed for us today as we have been trying to sell our tractor for over a year now as we have a huge loan on it and are no longer farming and if we sell it we will have some money for IVF. Someone is looking at it today to possibly buy :pray:
Ok so i called up docs to find out results of bt and my progesterone level is at 3.8!!! The gyno said if its 15 or above AF is on its way, if its below 5 i have to take provera cos my body isnt doin wat its meant to be doing. I just cant understand why my body is doing this!! im so angry at it! Wat has it been doing for the last 10 weeks????!! im glad i didnt wait any longer to find out.. that wld have been a waste of time. Oh and my hcg level was 0.. so no sneaky bfp for me :(
So anyway tonight im going to start taking the provera, hopefully it will make me start bleeding, then i can start taking the clomid to make me ovulate. I hope things all run smoothly for me now.. :crossfingers:
Bons - I am sure with you ravaging him he'll feel like some lovin....... Good luck. And give you puppy a pat for me, she sounds just perfect!
Loops - hope that tractor sells! Come un puchaser sign on that dotted line and hand over that cashola.... there are more important things to be done with that money!
Reet - arghhh, sorry sweetie that this is so frustrating for you. I am glad you took the steps to find out what's happening though.
hi everyone ,mildez-big hugs,have you got anything planned for the day( do what feels right for you)dh's deal with these things differently....tttalvechild-great news...dory-thanks,i've got 3 cats,so no allergys here..loops12-sorry about the bfn,hope that tractor sells.My dh was a farmer before we met...reet-sorry there was no sneaky bfp your way,what i have heard the provera is pretty quick to work,so wont be long now till you can ttc again...murraycod-got any results yet?..wouldloveabubba-how are you?what is the the plan for this month?..ric-where are you up to this month?..hugs to all
TTCALC: Great news on your custody case and happy birthday to leigha!
Reet: how frustrating! I'm also glad you didn't wait longer to get help. HOpefully they can sort you out and get you back on track again soon. GOod luck.
Dory: Sorry you've been having a hard time. THe cat paw in hand comfort sounds so cute. Glad you have your furbabies to help you out.
Millyd, Ferrals, T-hopes: am dying to find out what your results are. I agree with Kitfaerie though: the TWW is just crazy making! I'm counting the days with you: I find BFPs very heartening even when they belong to someone else : )
AFM: Have felt quite sore low down on the sides of my tummy the last couple of days, especially when walking around. (Like i've been kicked in the ovaries!) I'm about due for O but never used to get these strong symptoms so I get worried there's something wrong. My OPK was negative two nights ago even with these symptoms but last night I got a second line (though not as strong as the first). I'll test again tonight. Hoping there's an egg ready to pop!
T-Hopes: I eyed off the eggs but just couldn't do it! I was going to join the omlette club but decided to just go natural for now! I, like Kitfaerie have had kick-a**se EWCM this month (my best in ages) hee hee
Hi ladies
Well 3 days left in this TWW oh how hard it is to keep busy and not think about it ! I have tried sewing and knitting but I am afraid I just can't concentrate sorry to the ladies waiting for booties I will try really hard to get them done but this TWW is just so damn hard. Got the tingly boobs and they feel a bit fuller and then i think I am imagining it so tell myself to stop being so stupid ! will test monday or tuesday if AF hasn't arrived but who knows which way it will go !
Dory I had dreadful thrush all through my pg with DD who is now 6 it was a real pain bath in sea salt water in your bath really helps the sore itching and kills the yeast too. I also wore some trousers that were made of that peachy type fabric well they were a no no too much nylon only wear cotton or nothing under your dress if its that bad ( just don't forget to put some on if you run out to the shops ) :dance: someone will get a suprise if the wind blows your dress up ! :ROFL: eat plenty ntural yougurt and try not to eat too much sugery stuff it makes it worse ! But for me these things all helped but it didn't go completely until I delivered her and then since nothing never again not yet anyways !
Hope the tractor sells will keep my fingers crossed for you
Reet its a bugger when the hormones mess you about but I have needed help in the past don't mean they won't return to normal eventually just takes a little time is all !
Ferrals how you doing are you as crazy as me my body is playing tricks again !
possummagic-sounds like your about to be getting busy with some egg catching,good luck..craftymummy-fingers crossed for you...
Crafty-your cycle is being normal this month not 19 days like last month so that is a good sign and yes i am going crazy reading to much into every little niggle and pain one minute i think oooh i could be pregnant and the next its nah just stupid AF on her way.
Take your time with the booties i won't be going anywhere soon i'm not that lucky.
Oh my gosh ladies I am on absolute tender hooks waiting to see if all these symptoms turn into BFPs I will be sooooo happy.
I tested again today and BFN as I expected. I feel fine and have decided we will do 2 more iui cycles before moving to IVF. I will be over my medicare threshold by then so it will not cost us a fortune.
Congratulations TTALC on the court case that is a brilliant outcome.
Have a lovely long weekend.
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