Ferrals- hun, sending massive hugs to you!! Don't give up, we are all here to support you! xx
Greencake - BIG CONGRATS!!
AFM - Don't really post much but am always keeping up to date, a bit down about the whole TTC thing.. coming up to my due date and just feel like i am no closer to getting the baby we want so badly. Gotta keep trucking on though, hopefully the new year will bring all of us our wishes!! xx
Eloise - congrats on the 6wks! Wishing for a long healthy pregnancy for you!
SPF - thanks. Just the waiting game now. I should be used to that game with this ttc stuff...feels like you're ALWAYS in a tww!! lol.
Dory - thanks! I'm hoping so too. My doc bulk bills me all the time (I have been seeing her for years so she just automatically still does it, even though the surgery is no longer a bulk billing surgery).. so she did tick the bulk billing section on the bt request. Thanks for pointing that out. I'll have a look for that thread, would be great to see what to check for, thanks!. Hope you're enjoying your holidays?
Murraycod - yes, i'm trying to get a bit of a game plan.. can't hurt can it? Glad I could make u laugh too! this ttc stuff should be more fun that it usually is, hey?
Craftymummy - thank you, and enjoy your shagfest!! The fun part of the month! Make him work for it!!! and hope your friend is going ok also.
Ferrals - don't give up hope..perhaps give it a few more days and test again? I'm praying for your BFP!! And we're all here if you need to vent! sending hugs your way!
Sparkles - i'm with you. I would have been due in a couple of weeks and I've been feeling the same. It's just not fair sometimes. But when we finally do get our BFPs, it will mean so much more to us! Chin up, this year is going to be our year!! hopefully this month!!!
Well afm, i have had cramping for about 3 or 4 days, sore boobs etc so i'm pretty sure i O'd on time. i guess I would consider myself as being in the TWW starting today i guess.
ciara.e we must be cycle buddies this time lol I am also thinking I am in the 2ww starting today. Not holding much hope though as haven't BD for 2days and its not going to happen again this cycle. I now its possible but we could have timed it better (to argue that is right when I need it the most)
Ferrals sweetheart I'm so sorry you did not get the result you were after thismorning. Hold in there X
How are you feeling? Is your body telling you AF is on her way? Take it easy, it's your first month, straight after such an emotional Stim Cycle, don't let your heart get dissapointed.
I understand that starting a fresh month off seems like you have a HUGE hill to climb, so far in the distance, but as slow as the climb is, you will get to the top faster than you think you will, and will be getting those darn evil sticks out once again
You have just begun a life long marriage to a wonderfull husband, enjoy the New Year season, dust yourself off and put a smile on that beutifull face of yours, you have much to be proud of, and we all look to you for inspiration. Especially me this next month, you will have to be my sane IVF buddy and beleive me, that is going to keep you buisy enough to make the hill climb a whole lot easier!X
We love you, be kind to yourself. AF isn't here yet! XX
Hey Emmy. We must be cycle buddies!! Nice one. I'm with you, i didn't do any naughty stuff yesterday cos i've been unwell, but like they say... sperm can survive days in there! so it's not all gloomy! Are you going to wait the 2 weeks out and then test, or just wait and see if AF arrives? I'm not very good at waiting haha.
Ferrals - i agree with everything Murraycod said! Wow, she has a way with words that I could never match! Feel free to vent your frustrations babe, that's what we're all here for. <3
ciara.e I will definately test early. Not that I will be expecting a BFP but its like I need to see the BFN to crush my hopes and then its a relief when AF arrives as I know I am not pregnant anyway. The thing is although I am desperate to be pregnant I know as soon as I see those lines (not line) I will be a mess. So the hope I feel at getting a BFP will very quickly be replaced with a hopeless feeling of doom. I can't win. Depression over not been pregnant and BFN after BFN each cycle or terror and fear to follow when the BFP shows. Grrrr
Anyhow I am angry at DH at the moment and I o'd from my tubeless side. It would be a miracle if I got pregnant. My one tube is pinned down from adhesions so it can't move and catch the egg from the other side. I will probably test at 10-11DPO. Always had a BFP by then if I have been pregnant. I think if I were I would secretly know by then as my symptoms are so strong in the past. The nose and smell of the most stupid things gives it away. With my first m/c I knew at about 5-6DPO when I couldn't stand the smell of a placenta at work. I was convinced it was infected lol
Oh Emmy..I completely understand the depression you're talking about! It's kind of like, upset at another BFN, but upset at a BFP cos you're thinking 'am I really ready for what i'm getting myself into?'. The short answer is 'yes'. If we weren't ready for this, we wouldn't be here wanting it so badly and doing all that we can to make it happen. i kind of think that the feeling we get at a BFP is more like 'what if it doesn't stick' or 'what if i do something wrong'... which is completely normal given that we have all experienced difficulties in the past.
Why are u upset at hubby??? Anything we can help u with???
what sort of work do u do? I'm hoping for you that those placenta's smell a little off for you by this time next week! I know it's a challenge being a one tuber and ttc, but I have faith! Even if you feel all the odds are against you, sometimes they're not! Give yourself a week or so (but hopefully 2 weeks), and if you feel its the right time, grab that hpt out and pee on that stick girl! I'll be right there with you.. peeing away over here!! haha... that sounds kinda wrong.
Well if it doesn't happen this time, we can at least look forward to the fun of trying again next cycle! And i'm thinking of following dory's lead by calling a 7 day shag fest.. sounds like great fun!
Morning all
Ferrals don't give up I think I am the oldest on here and I'm not giving up even though mother nature may think I am getting too old I am not too old and you are younger than me !
YOU had a hell of a last few months with IVF and ended so sweetly with a lovely wedding so look to the good things that came to you and take comfort from that and keep going besides we still need you in this forum for a bit longer Murraycod and myself want to move over with you !
everyone else keep going its a long hard road but worth the trek in the end !
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