Trying to Conceive after Miscarriage/Loss - December 2009

[Tanya]

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[Tanya]

So sorry I haven't been around much... all this ttc talk really has begun to do my head in!! I can get so obsessive that I needed to take a stap back...

So I have no idea what is going on, so I will have to go back and read up on where you are all at.

AFM... at the business end of the TWW... I feel sick at the thought of doing a test... but not sure if I can wait and see... I tested yesterday and got a BFN... and I was crushed... *sigh*

I hope you are all having a wonderful day.

xx

[Matthew's Mum]

afternoon all,Greencake-christmas cruise,good for you,sounds great.bon voyage...snugglebean-good luck with testing,you'll be up,up,and away soon,the spot sounds promising...eliselouise-good luck friday...murraycod-af just doesn't like to co-operate does she,still hoping there is a reason for it...tanya-hope it was just too early to show up on test.there is a few of us in the tww...

[eliselouise]

New thread, New month - hopefully its a good one for alot of us.
Tanya sorry to hear your having a tough timne, i know what you mean im the same at the moment, kinda struggling with it all. Hopefully its just too early for a bfp, i tested on the weekend too only to get a BFN and was also shattered. Hope its a Bfp for you in the next few days.
Snuggly the spotting sounds very promising, hopefully it was implantation bleeding and you can get a BFP for xmas, not long now till your holiday bet your getting very excited.
AFM still very sore boobs today and sick feeling till about 2 or 3 in the arvo but trying not too get my hopes up as i dont want to be shattered if im not.
So who else is in the TWW with me?? Anyone testing this week??
Talk to you all soon

[dory]

Hey gals - bugger all this heartache, it just doesn't go away.

Good luck with any TWW's. It's hard to resist isn't it? Even with the knowledge it might not be the news we want and our little spirits are crushed, but somehow we keep doing it.

Lets see how I go, I am at day 16, I expect the anticipation and anxiety of AF's appearance will mount as time draws closer.

I wonder if, because we want a particular outcome so much that we overthink every little symptom as confirming our hopes? Me for instance - feeling a little nauseous lately, which gives me hope, despite it being far too early..... and some cramping and feeling tired and having more saliva and being more sensitive to smells....ah but strangely no sore boobs......I am just going to have to be strong to put them out of my mind.....else I will go balmy.

Murraycod - hope you get an answer to your symptoms. Tanya & Eliselousie hopefully just too early for a test....

I have just worked 2 consecutive days, a day off tomorrow and then another 2 consecutive days. First time since mid June this year. Still not back to full duties, but that suits me. That won't happen until the new year. Means a lack of stress.

It's quite sobering to realise so much of my year this year has been spent in immediate and active grieving.

Be strong, thinking of you all.

[scarypinkfairy]

good luck matthew's mum hope you get your bfp soon. snuggly and elise, those symptoms you have sound very promising. i hope you just tested too early eliselouise and Tanya, i know the waiting is hard!

dory, you sound like you have had a really tough year, and this yeah has been the worst year ever for me too. Hopefully 2010 will be lucky for us! when are you testing?

greencake enjoy your trip! i am so jealous lol

afm, you will notice by my new ticker af is here strange to be happy about it but there you go. we are officially ttc again this cycle, yipee
i just wanted to add, i have been taking supplements to regulate hormones, it's called nature's own pms essentials and i just got it from the chemist. i really would give it a try if you need help with regulating your cycles as i think it did work for me x