Ms K - I am not sure. Depends on what sort of things you're wondering about?

I have had two m/c at about 20 weeks, and I O'ed within 14-21 days of each, but continued to bleed for a while. For one it worked out to be for about 2 months of bleeding all up. Not heavy bleeding the whole time, but light to spotting. Even though I haven't discussed the details with my ob, for me he told me my milk was likely to come in, and that in other respects ( at least for me) my body had given birth, so would be affected by post partum issues - weak pelvic floor, mood swings, the blues, after pains, fatigue. It certainly didn't take me too long after the first m/c at 21 weeks to get back into my beloved running and sport and my body went back to normal in terms of physical appearance very quickly ( no baby belly sag). Not so much with the second at 19 weeks, but that was a twin pregnancy where I m/c one of the twins at 14 weeks and then carried the second twin until 19 weeks. So I spent a lot more time doing very little trying to preserve the pregnancy. But I am not sure if it's the same for everyone. Hope you find the answers you were looking for.

Iona Macca - welcome, sorry you have to be here. Hope those levels come down quick smart. taking a HPT is a quick way to test those levels, and more convenient that blood tests.

Em - similarly welcome. What of thread have you been posting on? I would like to understand a bit about where you've been to get here, and don't want to ask you to have to repeat it.

Hi to everyone else,I miss talking to you more reguarly than I have been lately. But it's been 3 or 4 days since I logged on. Have been a little self absorbed. I am feeling a bit drained today, so not much energy to respond to everyone but know I am thinking of you and just hoping for a BFP for you.

I am going ok, but my invincibility bubble burst again last night with another scare, not totally burst, but enough of a reminder of the precariousness of the journey I am on. Nothing like another good scare to remind me how much I want this and how scared I am. But that's just how it is at the mo for me. I hope that soon enough you are each going through your own version of this challenging journey. Lots of babydust to you......