thread: Trying to Conceive After Miscarriage or Loss Jan 2010

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    Apr 2009
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    Murraycod I am praying for that miracle for you. Do they update you again today or wait for another few days?
    Stupid AF arrived in full force this morning as predicted from the pink CM last night. I honestly don't know how much more I can keep trying. Surely this has got to come to and end soon. Oh well.

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    Apr 2009
    central coast
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    Just a quick one

    Way to go murrycod 9 you got 1 more than me im glad everything went smoothly and you are feeling ok you will lose a few in the next couple of days hopeful not to many i started with 8 if you remeber and ended up with 3 blastocysts one they tested and it was effected and the other two were a grade 3 so we could of had them transfered untested but thats the same as trying naturally so i would rather nature decide if i get pregnant with a sick baby i cant do the what if i diddnt do ect thing and blame myself and yes it was devastating going through all that and not have an uneffected embryo but i have read posts were women have tried many times and none of there embies make it so i feel good knowing my eggs are still pretty good and i can make embryos but i hope you have better luck than me do you get a day 3 report if so find out what grade your embies are at i have my fingers crossed for you.

    AFM- sorry for no personals have been a bit down the last few days DH and i took the kids to the pool and there were babies everywhere and parents in the pool with little ones and DH said we deffinately need to have one as we watched a little bub splashing in the water it broke my heart and i felt like it was my fault again Abbi would of been 5 months old yesterday.
    Last edited by ferrals5; January 13th, 2010 at 11:42 AM.

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    Aug 2009
    Murray River Victoria
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    Ferrals, It will be ok I promise XXXXX And thank you XXXXX

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    Sep 2009
    Melbourne, Victoria
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    MurrayCod - That was a Good News, Hope Everything Goes well this cycle and you get a big BFP with the start of this 2010, sending you lots of positive vibes and good wishes
    Ferrals - Big Hugs Hun, Dont worry everything is going to be allright and soon you will be pregnant again.
    Emmy - sorry AF arrived for you. Good thing is another month to crack...hopefully this month sweety. Send some here, mine is cycle day 32 and no trace of AF. i am thinking to see my GP, lets see
    Anita - whats happening with you? did you get the AF...
    THopes - How are you feeling?
    EliseLouise - Glad to know, everything is fit and fine with you. Thanks for babydust

    I am waiting for AF to come, hopefully soon

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    morning all, craftymummy-hope you've found something to distract you from the tww,for a bit anyway...scarypinkfairy-how are you?..emmy-i know it's cold comfort but at least now you can get ready for this cycle,rest up...t-hopes-good luck,looking at your ticker,are you testing Monday??me too,though doc's don't hold out any hope for me with a natural cycle,hope i surprise them!!..murraycod-thanks for the info,i've obviously have a lot to learn,looking forward to your update!!..ferrals-hugs to you &your family.I know it is heartbreaking, just so unfair.How are your boys coping with missing Abbi...

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    Apr 2009
    central coast
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    Mathewsmum-i talk about abbi in a positive way around the boys i include her in a lot of our day to day things like at xmas we brought a glass ball with an angel in it and abbi's name engraved on it so she was with us i also hung her little booties on the tree and when we go out if we see roses we buy one and put it with her ashes the boys are not afraid to mention her name they ask me all the time how old would abbi be now mum and would she be sitting up yet ect i keep my saddness to myself and my hubby and when we see serverely disabled children i tell the boys if abbi were here she would be like that or worse and i say where she is now she is healthy and normal and has no pain they also have abbi's foot prints as their wallpaper on there mobile phones so i think they are doing great i wish i was.
    Last edited by Inanna; January 13th, 2010 at 03:02 PM.

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    Nov 2009
    Melbourne
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    Ferrals - I CAN NOT believe just how amazing you really are.

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    Apr 2009
    central coast
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    Mummyof4-sounds promising hope those two lines appear soon for you.

    Dory-I go from the date Abbi was born 20/3/09 same day as my niece and the only other grandaughter in my family coincidence or what! congratz on your 3 BFP's i hope this one is a healthy pregnancy for you.

    Mathewsmum-awww it must be hard to explain to little ones.

    TTCALC-wouldnt it be nice to go to your doc appt already pregnant anything is possible.

    SPF-kittens are so cute i also can tell when i ovulate but i like to use OPK's so i can get in before but i will not be using the fortel brand again they are always positive with me so i got some first response and they are neg at the moment so i expect to see a positive in the next few days.

    AFM- my clearblue fertility monitor still has not arrived so i have to wait until next cycle to use it lets hope i wont need it and we catch that egg when we are away on holiday.

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    Aug 2009
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    Hey Ferals - I hope you don't go permanently, maybe just take a few days to chill? it would be really sad not to hear your words of advice and quirky stories and great sense of humour. This is a tough time right now for you, but you can get through it and hopefully with the help of your friends here. We've travelled some interesting times together.

    What ever decision you make, may your journey be peaceful and that you get the outcome you desire, and thankyou for your words of advice.


    Thankyou!!!!!! I have cried tears of happiness and wonder at your posts. They are exactly what I needed. Big hugs.

    Cookie36 - in front of the mirror naked!

    TTCALC - thankyou - I hope you don't have to wait either. Hope your headches get better soon? How long have you been diagnosed with pituatry cancer? It sounds so scary. I hope the levels sort themselves out and soon you and Ric are disappointed when AF arrives.....

    TinaR - thankyou sweetie for the kinds words and offer of advice, and OMG - congratulations. 24 weeks is just amazing. ahhh I forgot about the stretching pains.... how are you managing? I might PM you. I don't want to upset anyone by waffling.

    Crafty - oh bloss - are you feeling any better? there is only one good thing about gastro - that it stops eventually. I hope that you are feeling better, and that the bug didn't spread. Kids usually seems to bounce back quicker from it than adults do. I hope you got both gastro and MS symptoms together, but maybe that's wishful thinking? Oh the ob is very understanding and in previous pgs has offered extra scans, consults, ph calls, pretty much whatever I think will give me some comfort and reassurance. I feel that I am pretty lucky to have such an understanding ob.

    Mo4- you're a bit quiet? what's going on? any more news on the pukies? or other symptoms? thinking of you and hoping. It was 8 days til testing on 13 Jan, which means yu are a few days closer to testing now... have you caved?

    Emmy83 - Thankyou . I was really hoping with our symptoms we might have had BFP's together. I am sad that we haven't, and hoping your comes soon. Hopefully the next cycle?

    Ciara.e - I tell you babe - at one level I am so jealous of all that exercise! I love exercise. I was so tired yesterday I thought I was going to puke and faint. I don't do either very often. For some reason, pg just knocks me around. Exhaustion and fatigue are my constant companions. Yet usually I am pretty active, a lot like you. So even though it sounds a bit like a complaint its not, it's just that the thing I miss most in pg, is being able to exercise.I can't even really muster a decent walk at the mo. SO can you enjoy it for me and tell me about what you do? I will be an exercise junkie through you. I might try a swim on the weekend..... sory about the wisdom teeth... painful, I had 4 extracted in hospital. How did yours come out? Try not to be too frustrated, but i know how hard it is\.

    Elsielouise -I hope so too for a sticky pg - how are you doing? recovered from that gastro. ewhhh, 3 days worth.

    T- hopes? How you doing? It was thursday yesterday.......

    sunbeam - how are you doing? going gently on yourself? have you been back to work?

    Ric - thankyou. Its exciting for me. I am starting to be more excited. Hey, I am glad you went to the Dr and got all that stuff tested. It must be driving you insane. Can you let us know what the results are? shared knowledge is power. \

    Mathew's mum - thankyou. Your words were so kind, and I always love reading about you and how you're doing. I love your stories about Mathew. I remember being worried about fragilty too. You're such a good and protective mum. I like the idea of the family heirloom christmas stocking, what a lovely tribute. How hard it must be to try and explain m/c to kids. You are amazing. It's so sweet that your DD worry themselves about the future of any pg, and as hard as it is for you it's good that the ask questions.

    MURRAYCOD
    - I hope you didn't get a phone call and that you are on your way to Adelaide for ET ( or was that happening yesterday?) OMG - I am so excited for you. It represents hope, and I hope you do one cycle and get a BFP in 2 weeks. presaries. hmmm, like you sai, the things we do. I have heard a lot of good things about repromed in Adelaide and hope you have a good experience with their staff but more than that, that you have a BFP and sticky pg. Are you allowed to use your treadmill after ET? Do they recommend acupuncture before and after ET? And as always your advice is spot on! You are also so thoughul to remember others. WOOT WOOT - nice to see you guys splurging at a nice hotel and a walk along the beach. I have a great mental image of you doing that and it makes me smile.

    Carrie.ps - how you doing? You've not written or a while. Thinking about you and Eden.

    Snugglybean - almost home from Japan? Your trip just sounds like the best. I am so happy for you.


    SPK - one of my fur babies, just came to say hello as I typed to you. Must be a kindred cat person thing! So big purrs to you from Arthur cat ( he's part grey burmese)
    Oh the other two are snoozing in the same room with me, but I didn't notice because they weren't snoring. Well one of them Oliver snores more loudly than any person I know ( well not quite but almost) and snuffles and snorts in his sleep. Vet is not too worried about it. None the less I love my little snuffler cat. Anyway, how are you doing?

    AFM - thanks again for helping me find my smile and positive mojo. And finally I had a good sleep and feel pretty good this morning. Have a good day ....