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thread: Trying to Conceive After Miscarriage or Loss Jan 2010

  1. #289
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    Oct 2009
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    Good Afternoon all!

    Murraycod: Your DH sounds lovely, your very lucky I'm glad the future looks bright, and I really hope Friday brings the best future possible! I loooove the 2am D&M's, so nice to realise that you can still talk for hours to the person you love

    Alicat: Sorry for the circumstances that brought you here, but your in good company! I'm waiting for AF too, it will be 6 weeks on wednesday (ARGGHHHHH!!! lol)

    Chickybabe: Hurrah for housework, lol

    Sunbeam: Porno boobs (ooooooo!) and tugging sounds promising, have fun testing!

    Thopes: Could be bubba getting a deeper implantation? This must be so frustrating for you! Hopefully wednesday will bring good news

    AFM still waiting, lol. Still getting cramps, still a bit cranky and teary (how many cute nappy ads really need to be on tv? really). I'm thinking that if I get to 7 weeks and no AF I'll start wearing white pants/skirts, AF just can't resist the white pants/skirts.

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    Alicat- welcome to our thread. I'm sorry it has been such a rough ride for you but I'm glad Belly Belly has been a good support to you it has definitely been a godsend to me. I've been trying for #1 for 2 years next month with a known donor and I'm now on IUI #3 after a chemical pregnancy in Dec.

    Murrycod- Happy anniversary. Your DH sounds like such a lovely guy I think it is so wonderful that you have found someone who can openly share his feelings with you so well.

    I'm not driving myself too mad on my TTW as the psychic assured me by little one is very near so I'm really feeling it is this month or next. Unfortunately I don't have the strength to just hold out to the blood test, that would drive me crazy.

    Kit Faerie-Thats too funny I never though of trying to get AF started by teasing her
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    Sunbeam good luck with the tww. i have never seen a physic, the terrify me, well the thought of hearing bad news does anyway. hope she is right and you get utd soon

    KitFaerie hope af comes soon, i can send you mine if you like it's frustrating not knowing where you are in your cycle when you just want to start ttc again. you will get there.

    murraycod don't give up hope! you are still in with a massive chance. cramping and tugging pains are good in my experience! and happy anniversary

    AliCat sorry you have had to join us on here. hope your stay is a short one.

    Sunbeam porno boobs! wowsers hehe. hope they only get bigger from now

    craftymummy9 i know what you mean, it's nice to have your family around even if it only for a short time. your tww will fly by now

    T-hopes and ~mummyof4~ any more news yet? good luck.

    sophia80 welcome, and sorry for you loss. cramps are quite normal after d&c. hope you get af back soon and you can start to ttc.

    eliselouise85 glad things are going well for you.

    dory, hope you are ok, it can't be easy being that sick!

    afm, sorry i've been mia. been having some bad days recently, with things getting to me again. just hoping for a bfp this cycle or will have to stop ttc for a few months.

  4. #292
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    Nov 2009
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    AliCat - Sorry for your loss - I know the shock of having a normal u/s the day before (or in my case, 12 hours before) it goes pear shaped. Hope the next frosty turns into your little snowman (or snowgirl!)
    CarriePS - Stay strong - hoping the move will do you good, help you mend. I hope you're doing a bit better.
    CharlieMarina - I hope time, and your loved ones, are helping you heal
    ChickyBabe - I hope that this year is your year!
    Ciara - The setting of other goals will help both of you get back on track, will help both of your realise what's important and why. And hopefully, you'll both come to the same conclusion. Just like every mother who goes through a m/c, says she's never going to try again and then changes her mind, our men are the same.
    CraftyMummy - Hope your boys bring you the re-energising you need.
    Dory - Just remember - hand on the bub ... calm soothing voice ... and smile!
    EliseLouise - nearly the 2nd tm - keep up the positive thinking - you bub will thank you
    Emmy - Hope you can give your gift of a bfp on v day. I suspected I was UTD on fathers day (which I was), but it was too early to test.
    Ferrals - If you're still lurking, I hope your trip has been a blast - we're all hanging for your honeymoon bub! This place hasn't quite been the same.
    HubbaBubba - Good luck with the "re-calibration". The other women here have done some lovely things to commemorate the memories of their angels, certainly a lot more beneficial than what I did for KT, which was just mope around.
    Inanna - thanks for your careful guidance - it can't be easy to balance respecting our memories, and respecting our pain.
    Kezzy - You need to try to relax, you need to take a few deep breaths. Look in the mirror, smile, and trust that everything will be ok.
    KitFaerie - I know the frustration. Try flogging your guts out on a treadmill! That can work just as effectively as the white skirt theory!
    Matthews Mum - Matthew is your guardian angel - a gift of strength. You just need to be able to trust that Matthew has your best interests at heart, and that you will wind up stronger for having loved him.
    Mummyof4 - Hoping your still late for good reason
    Murraycod - Here's to Harvey - stick around little buddy - we want to meet you!
    Ric - Hope the specialist gives you some (good) answers!
    ScaryPinkFairy - Chin up. Relax. Take the time if you need it.
    SmallFry - Hope everything is travelling well
    Snuggly - I really wish everything for you (and not just because I need a post PMP success story!). Thank you for everything.
    Sophia - Hope your body sorts itself out, so your mind can start as well.
    Sparkles - I hope you're doing ok.
    Sunbeam - Good luck - Hoping the psychic got it right - I've thought of seeing one - but not sure I want to hear what may or may not get said.
    T-Hopes - Hoping the teeny pieces are imp. bleeding!
    TinaR - Hope everythings going swimmingly - we do like a success story now and then!
    TTCALC - Hoping your doc appointment goes well, and your body sorts itself out in a timely fashion.
    Twinsister - Make sure you keep that DH of yours in line!
    xx Sparkles xx - Hopefully the steroids will provide the extra something your bubs need!
    I hope I've gotten everybody.

    AFM - Yet another week of blood tests has shown that my levels have failed to fall. My ob is referring my case on to a specialist molar pregnancy unit at Monash. I will probably be administered methotrexate (a cancer drug) to force my hcgs down. I now have to face the fact that even if I were to want to ttc again, most of you will have your bubs before I will be medically allowed to. I want to thank you all sincerely for the support you have given me thus far, but as I am officially off the ttc wagon, I don't think this is the best place for me to be at this time.
    I wish you all the h&h miracle you are chasing - and that you journeys become much easier than they have been to date.

    xox

  5. #293
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    Cookie36 seems like you got everyone there in alphabetical order! i didn't realise the list was so long

    hopefully they can sort out why your hcg levels are not dropping as they should, and maybe you do need that extra kick from the methotrexate to get your levels down.

    i wish you all the best, and i know this forum is helpful but can get disheartening when everyone is getting bfps, and all we want it ours too. take care x

  6. #294
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    Oh my goodness Cookie - i am so sorry this is happening.
    I want to wish you all the best and hope things are sorted quickly.

    Take care and i really hope you can come back soon with a bfp !

    xoxo

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    well i dont know why everything is agianst me.... 5 days late and AF showed up this morning and she certainly is being a ***** as well....
    i feel like i cant do this anymore, i am so over TTC but i know that at the end of it all it will be so worth it...

    Sorry for all the doom and gloom....

    Happy Australia day!

  8. #296
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    Cookie darling I am so sorry to read that your levels have failed to drop still. I completely understand how disheartened you must feel ATM. big hugs to you.
    I hope that this new specialist can get you back TTC asap.
    As difficult as it is for me to say right now, take this time to share special one on one time with you DH, so you can both come back stronger than ever XXX
    BB can be the best place to get support and in-common friendship with others going through the trials and hard moments with what we are all triyng to acheive, but I do understand if you need to take some time out.
    Thank you so much for remembering all of us here, wow I normally do a list, but had no idea it had become so huge. Actually it is sad and not fair XXXX
    Take care Cookie. XXXXX

    Sunbeam hows the porno boobs going?! I do hope that you are still feeling positive about this month.

    Mummyof4, honey, I'm with you today, a bit down and out, actually quite a lot!
    Sorry to see AF has payed you an unwelcome visit, I hope it eases off for you by the end of the day, I know the first day I get mine, she's a cow!

    Chickybabe, hope your house is nice and clean after yesterday, so you can relax and enjoy Austrailia Day, just chill out for a while XXXX

    SPF, thanks for the reassuring words, but I have started the dreaded chore of telling my friends and family that knew about the IVF, that it didn't work.
    I have 1 more horrible crinone pessary to use tonight then I get to stop, so AF should be here within a few days for me.
    I just hope it comes soon, because I start back at work on monday, and i would hate for it to arrive then, I know it's going to be a painfull one, have had warning cramps for over a week now that it's going to be a tough ride.

    Snugglybean thinking of you honey XXXX
    Ferrals, if you are lurking, I miss you soooo darn much.

    KitF, any more signs of AF for you??

    TTCALC I am hanging out badly to hear about your Appt.

    THopes, still no AF? How are you feeling honey?

    Everyone I have missed I hope you are all well XXXXX

    Me, just waiting to get this stupid cycle done, I'm over it. I was so sure it was going to work, but no, things just cannot be that easy hey...

  9. #297

    Oct 2005
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    It's time for a new thread my lovelies. You will find it HERE...
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