Trying to Conceive After Miscarriage or Loss Jan/Feb 2010

[ferrals5]

Dory-hang in there just hope its bub settling in and stiring things up a bit and it will be fine i don't know if you were posting in this thread when i mentioned my girlfriend had bleeding with her pregnancies and quite a bit to she now has 3 boys one born 12 weeks ago after 10 weeks of constent bleeding some babies just give there mums a bit of a scare.

[dory]

ferals - deep breath in..... hold.... thankyou.

[Kirsten]

Dory: how scary for you! Sounds like you are in good hands with your ob. My GP told me of a patient of hers who had 3 babies and bled with clots the whole way through all pregnancies...I'm she was trying to make me more positive (this was before my M/C) but it does happen.

AliCat, birthday was great thanks, and it's so nice to not be bleeding anymore I can't help you on the spotting/bleeding after D&C issue, sorry, I had natural miscarriage...but it could be AF...esp if headaches/migraines are normal for you.

Ferrals: Sounds like your hormones are all F#%$@d up, good luck with Catherine, hope she can sort it all out for you, and quickly too.

Craftymummy: Could be implantation, I have my fingers crossed!!

Sunbeam: good luck with your BT tomorrow.

AFM: not much to report....just going with the flow and seeing what happens...

Hi everyone else, hope you're all well!

[T-hopes]

hi everyone... just wanted you all to know that i am around and lurking.... just trying to be patient, hoping my next cycle might bring a norMal period and my doctor will be happy for us to start TTC again.
dory - just want you to know thAt im thinking of you and praying that like Ferrals said - bubs is just gettinng all cosy in there! please keep us updated...xx great to hear that your ob is cautious, they are few and far between
ferrals - nice to have you back !!! xxo
crafty - hmmm maybe implantation!! fingers crossed for you lovey!!!
murraycod - how are you going darlin?
TTCalovechild - hope all goes well with DF sperm test! hope they are healthy, strong little guys!
cookie - well, im thinking of you xx
ric - hello - how you going??
spf - when r u testing?? xx
jilly - sorry that you have had to join us here, but know that we all can help you through this. we lean on each other everyday, its nice to have more shoulders xx
hi emmy, matthews mum, sunbeam, alicat, kristen, sarah.... i know im missing lots of you but hello to you all and hope you are having a good day... or at least a little better then yesterday.... night all xx

[murraycod]

Dory honey, how are things going thisevening?? I hope the spotting/bleeding has stopped for you. I fully understand but have no idea how you must be feeling right now, as much as we all want to be pregnant, we are terrified to be. I am sending you all of my strength to get through this. You are a strong girl with lots of heart, it will be ok XX
I am so glad to read that your OB is supportive and wanting weekly visits with you, try and get some sleep tonight and wake up to a fresh day tomorrow.
Please please take care, and keep us posted on how you are, we are all here barracking for you XX

Sunbeam, I would love to do yoga but the closest classes are an hour away for me! Jealouse!!XX Friday isn't far away now, hope you get some reassurance that little bean is sticking in nice and strong X

Matthew'sMum good luck with the beginning of your IVF journey!!XX There are a few of us girls here to help you understand whats going on and all the jargon!X
Enjoy doing it, take time to have fun with the process and take each day as it's own journey XX The paperwork isn't too bad

Kristen (huggs) Going with the flow is good, don't put too much pressure on youself, stay positive and take it easy, sudden feelings will be still very raw for you right now, so make sure you are still getting plenty of huggs from DH XXXXX

Thopes I too hope you can get on the TTC wagon with us! Nice to hear from you darling X

Alicat, each of us are different, but your lining may have been still thin from your D/C so that may be the reason for such a light AF X I do hope it is the start of a fresh cycle for you hun X

KitF, I love the name splat!!! How cute is that!!! I dunno where my DH got the name Harvey from....let me just say, that I will be doing the naming when we are lucky enough to have a healthy bub!!
Hope the drive to Brisvegas wasn't too bad!

KellyM I hope that your new TTC journey is a short and happy one XX I'm glad that you are open chatting about your experience and feelings about your MC, my friends hate it when I start talking about my MC and TTC again, "They Feel Uncomfortable" .....!

TTCALC, hope you get the news there are some strong healthy swimmers!! Funny about you having to help, but you will never beleive what I have to go through with this subject..........where do I start!!!! For all of the IUI's we had to use a special sperm collection condom because DH couldnt......um......DTD himself.
And with the IVF, well, just imagine, my tummy felt like it had party poppers going off inside it, and the morning of my EPU, I stil had to give him the 'Pleasure' of using a collection condom, just before my op. I was sooooo delighted to help out

Jahzara, any news on 'O' yet!!!! Hope you get a nice suprise on valentines day!X

Sarahrach i hope the bleeding stops for you soon X Take it easy XXX

Jilly very best of luck for your ICSI cycle comming up Am so proud that you are strong enough to give it all you have X New FS, new hope! XX
Keep in touch XXXXX

Craftymummy, Just sending you a little more X!! Could be an implanter!!
OOOHHH the suspence!

Emmy, second opinions are always good if you are still unsure of what your next step needs to be, I hope you find great success no matter what you need to try!X I do hope that you caught that egg this month though!XX Spermies can live for an amazing amount of time, especially the Girlie ones!! I think Jahzara is gender bending ATM!!!!

Hubbabubba it was soooo lovely to hear from you the other day!X I hope you are well X

SPF!!!!!!!!!! I laughed at your thaughts on the bumpy road and implantaton....not at you, but with you!! I was worried about the 5hr very bumpy road home after ET last month so I asked the FS about it and he giggled at me, he said having an embie in the uterus is like sticking a grain of rice in peanut butter then screwing on the cap, theres no chance of anything 'falling out or not implanting' even if i went off road 4x4ing!!
In saying this, I still worry about sneasing....still!!!!

Ric I hope that you have some luck with that referral you were after hun XXX Thinking of you sweetheart XXX

Snugglybean, I hope you are having a ralaxing break, and I hope you are doing ok, if you are lurking away, know I am always wondering how you are XXXXX

Ferrals!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Late again!!!!!! give your naughty reproductive system a nudge from me! Have the coolest news about today, am so darn excited...............yeup, excited all over again! Bloody rollercoaster!!!

Visit with FS in Adelaide went better than fantastic, when I mentioned to him that DH and I would like to try out FET before a stim cycle in April/may, his eyes lit up like shining lights and said it was a great idea!! He said he was so glad that we decided on our own do a FET, he always likes to do a FET if able before another stim, and also reassured us, that even though there was a 50/50 chance of thawing, the chances would still be 50/50 if we had 2 or 3 to thaw, so it doesn't make a difference.
He even asked me if I wanted to do it this month on the cycle im on now! Decided on March cycle though, think my body needs a break from all of the drugs!
Because I have such long natural cycles, and all over the place he gave me the option of taking Clomid for the FET cycle so I jumped at the chance. Would much rather have a 28 day cycle for an embryo transfer, much better than a 38+ day wait !!

So charging away, got the boxing gloves on!! We also filled out all of the needed paperwork for our next Stim Cycle so if the FET brings no success, all we have to do is ring and let the nurses know when I get AF, so they can start me on the Antagonist Stim Cycle injections. All organised!! Amazing what you can get done in one visit girls!!
Fs also offered us phone consults now so we don't have to travel to Adelaide all of the time for followups, what a Darling he is!X

Have a lovely night everyone XXX

To the Darling thaughtfull person who RAKed me, thank you so very much X I will treat it with great respect X May Karma give you a special gift in return XXX Thank you Thank you XXXXX

[TTCALoveChild]

Thanks ladies..
Kinda running behind so it will be a shorty
these 6 days for this appt is going slow.. i just need and want to know NOW...lol
im so ready to call and see what they see.
Afm- Been bd'ing we arent missing a day..LOL

Ill be on later tonite..

good luck all and best wishes!!

[dory]

Murraycod - you are never one to be kept down for long. You are my inspiration.

[murraycod]

Dory, you are a sweetheart and always somehow get a smile outa me when I read your posts XXX Thank you XXX I am so happy to read that your bleeding has stopped X
I remember when I first found out I was pregnant early last year, I had the most elated feeling inside, like I could scream with glee and laugh all day! Constantly dancing through the house like my life was at it's happiest moment. I hope that one day I can feel like that again, and I hope you can enjoy the rest of your pregnancy like that too. So tell that uterus of yours from me, no more scares!!!XXX

scarypinkfairy congratulations!!!So happy for you my friend, the girls are right, a line is a line, there is no such thing as a fake positive (unless you have pregnyl in your system, which you don't!). I am so elated for you.

Ferrals, relax, have a bath, have a JD, or 2 , grab a DVD, cook up a nice feed or get chinese and enjoy your weekend X ( the microwave popcorn with butter is nice get some of that too!! ) Just because you have just come back from a nice trip away, doesn't mean you can't have a nice cuddly weekend! Enjoy XXX

Sunbeam, great news your beta is getting higher and higher!X

Jahzara, babe, please be strong with me, we can do this...we have too

Craftymummy, sorry to hear that your boys have left today, I hope you get to see them again soon XX Oh Ferrals speaking of chinese...Crafty how are those little guineapigs going!!XX Just kidding around hun!!! LOL !

TTCALC I have never seen snow, I have on the tv but YKWIM, in real life! I would love to be there with you to see that much snow!!!

Kirsten I would love to have short cycles you lucky thing!!! Hope you catch that egg sweetheart!!!

Sarahrach good luck this month hun X
Emmy, Thopes, huggs to you both XXXXX