thread: Trying to Conceive After Miscarriage or Loss Jan/Feb 2010

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  1. #1
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    Apr 2007
    Melbourne
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    TryingforNo3 - I am also a negative blood group and I was told if you bleed while you are pregnant at ANY stage or if you miscarry then you need an anti-d injection. I was given one after each miscarriage and none were over 12 weeks.

    Sunbeam - I am so sorry to hear your news. You are very brave and resilient to pick yourself up the way you have.

    Craftymummy - I am the same age as you.

    Minimatron - I was told if your levels reached 3 then you were no longer pregnant so a positive test now is a new pregnancy. Congratulations!

  2. #2
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    Nov 2009
    In the hills - south east of Melbourne
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    Tryingfor3: I'm a negative blood group and OB and doctor were insistant that I get anti-D before 72 hours after first bleed started. I was 8w2d.

    Melissa - wow, I'm so excited for you. I hope its a BFP and you have a happy and healthy bubs. So how many weeks would this put you then?

  3. #3
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    Sep 2009
    WA
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    Hi Sammyp
    I didn't realize you were my age sorry guess you know the score then as ferrals told me last week its not the amount of eggs we have left its the quality and we have to keep trying to catch the good egg I know how hard it is I feel like giving up but I just can't I have to give it a good try. The main thing to remember is its not impossible it can happen at our age we just have to be a bit more patient I think and beleive in ourselves and our bodies, I guess like me you don't want to wait too long before TTC and there is no reason why you should so if you are ready then go for it ! I did as soon as the bleeding stopped but I did have a D&C and it took ages for my cycle to get back and even now its not perfect but any cycle is a cycle all the same so I will not give up and neither must you !

    Melisa wow you seem to have done it girl well done I am so happy for you just take it easy and try to relax I know its easier said than done !

    Murraycod I am so sorry your finding it hard waiting but try to be positive not too much longer and there is always the chance of a miracle you know ! so keep bdancing and who knows ! not far behind you this cycle so lets enjoy our TWW and if no BFPs then well it will be march by then anyways !
    Walk by the river sounds so nice you lucky thing ! I got to rush off in half hour to collect my kids then my work really begins ! had a few hours off as only my youngest at home mon and tues ! can't beleive how quiet this house is when he fell asleep was quite scary for me !


    "There are no miracles for those that have no faith in them."

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    Aug 2006
    Springvale South, Melbourne
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    Hey Sarahrach, I think i would be just pregnant, although I have no idea! So maybe 4 or 5 weeks. I made an appointment to see my gp although he is booked out until next Tuesday...8 days to go!!! Which is ok...i think! I might ring tomorrow and see if I can get in with a cancellation!

  5. #5

    Apr 2009
    central coast
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    Crafty-luv your avatar i'm hanging to see what mine is going to look like and with the email i sent you i have downloaded a power point slide show converter program so DH can have a go at converting it tonight.

    Murrycod,littleone and kitfaerie did your's work? the one's we sent to our parents worked so i hope your's did.

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    May 2009
    Gold Coast
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    Thnaks for your support girls
    Just got call from FS, levels are down from 3100 to 2000 which means a m/c and no need for ectopic surgery. I am in some way relieved as I really did not want surgery on my tubes and then the constant worry of future ectopics on top of everything else. I think the m/c part just has not hit me yet as I still feel sort of numb, I guess it will feel more real when I start to bleed. Part of me is still feeling quite positive because that's 2 pregnancies from 3 IUIs and I still feel my baby is very close so the universe can get screwed if it thinks I'll give up. I might not be a ranga but I can be just as fiesty!

  7. #7
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    Sep 2009
    WA
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    Ferrals I got Abbies story to open ! but I can't hear any music as yet its probs just me !
    What a wonderful way to remember a lovely precious girl thanks for sharing it ! I was in tears as I am sure others will be but I know you had to be very brave to go through it and I admire your courage you are a strong women god bless you and give you your last little bub ! ASAP


    About my avatar ( wish I had that bust line in real life ) DH would be smiling !

  8. #8

    Apr 2009
    central coast
    2,298

    Crafty-i'm glad you got to see why i am always talking about her and the music playing in the background is eric claptons heaven it is perfect for her anyway i have spent all day emailing it to everyone that has asked to see it i am hopeing to get a link up and running it will be so much easier and i forgot to ask for big boobs in my avatar bummer!