thread: Trying to Conceive after Miscarriage/Loss - January 2009

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  1. #1
    BellyBelly Member

    Jun 2008
    Brisbane
    185

    Hey Ladies,

    I am sooooo happy there has been anothe 2 BFP's within days of mine , that's so awesome. Come on ladies let set the record for my BFP's in one month especially you Jen, it is your time. 2 wks to go.

    Dont have too much time as I'm about to have dinner. I saw the gyno on Friday and have had bloods taken. Will get the results Monday. He also had a very old ultrasound machine..... all we could see what a black dot in the middle of gray but that's good enough for me. I have a proper U/s on 30/01/09 so looking forward to that. I am so lucky this guy understands and is working with me really closely to get me to past the first trimester. Still can't decide whether to keep going to the chinese herbalist - any advice??

    Anyhow dinner ready - got DH trained well

  2. #2
    Registered User

    Sep 2008
    Cairns, Australia
    69

    How fast is that???

    Hi Everyone - cannot believe we have moved into a January thread already for our TTC posse

    to Theresa (Zachary's Mom) and Easha for your wonderful news - a H & H 9 months to both of you in this year of the Golden Ox!!!!!!!!

    Ruthie - I was so glad to hear about your mum's results - that is excellent - hopefully you can feel a bit of the weight lifting off you now

    hannahD - you have such courage and honesty - these are incredible allies in the fight against depression - do you feel the depression cycles or is random - sometimes the pattern can be revealing - good luck with TTC!!!!

    Toccara50 - I feel for you with the EDD coming up soon - mine isn't until later in the year and I am not sure yet how I will feel about it - it is hard with m/cs as you have two emotional anchors from them - the day you m/c or found out and the expectations of the EDD hanging around out there for you to deal with. I don't know but I feel the most important thing can be to acknowledge that time and allow yourself to feel what you need to regardless of how anyone else feels about it - we allow ourselves to celebrate the happy occasions I think it is sad that our society has such an issue with honouring our tragedies and losses of our lives - they are what define our character and our appreciation of the better times...

    meh - this is a response to a post you made quite a while back - but in keeping with the internal spring cleaning I am doing of my life - I am wanting to try and allow all the energies to have clear channels. With my little one - the memorial DP and I created helped immensely - we went to our favourite beach, found a beautiful little sapling with a sea view and buried our little one with a marker and candles - nestled between the elements of earth and sea. I have not been back to visit since but I gain immense comfort from knowing that our little one was respected and rests in such a lovely place. Doing this seemed to let the floodgates open and it felt like a completion at the time - and with a little help from herbal tonics and some wonderful infusions - the emotional balancing of those wacked out hormones has brought us to a good place

    Hello to the incredible beautiful souls of jackjack, jenushka, Shortcake, babymiracles, rach2281 (you are amazing), megsmum and jen805 and my huge apologies to anyone I might of missed who I hold in the highest regard and wish no end of to in this journey we are all on.

    Last but hopefully not least - I just wanted to say it has been fantastic standing tall in the support of everyone here and I would like to say - is in the building - and I would like to thank everyone for helping us get to this point!!!!!! Our little Golden Ox hopefully will be with us later this year and if he (I don't know why - I just feel like the little tacker is likely to be a boy) feels we're want he needs - we would be ecstatic to have him join our family!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    Much love and laughter to everyone
    Karen van