thread: Trying to Conceive after Miscarriage/Loss - January 2009

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  1. #1
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    Aug 2008
    Adelaide
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    babymiracles - That is exactly what my mum says. She thinks I'm stressing too much and that alcohol will relax me. But, I'm also avoiding alcohol due to my moods, I just don't want to have to explain that part to my mum yet. I'm sorry to read your FIL-to-be is unwell. I he can survive long enough to see his son marry you.

    fifi - I'm so sorry that guy at work upset you. I don't think you've over reacted at all. I agree with jen, most people take pregnancy of a live, healthy baby for granted. I would love to be that oblivious again. I'm sure once he gazes into his daughter's eyes for the first time, he'll love her no matter what.

    jenushka - Congratulations on having a girl. I'm glad everything is going so well.

    chappas - Goodluck for your appointment on Wednesday.

    AFM - Have been feeling really sick this morning. Had a wave of nausea so bad I had to sit down for 10 minutes. I think this heat is finally getting to me.

  2. #2
    BellyBelly Member

    May 2008
    NSW
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    Well I managed an IVF (with PGD) transfer yesterday, so that makes me PUPO (pregnant until proven otherwise).

    Big thanks for you all for for me:
    AJC ( for Samuel), Theresa, Mel1979, Baby Miracles (would love nothing more than to be belly buddies), HannahD, Indy, Ruthie and Jen

    We also managed a "frostie", plus two more will be biopsied today, though I am just thrilled to have made it to transfer. It really is a stressful experience just to this point.

    Last transfer they told me my odds were about 28-30% of conception. Just loving the idea of having a chromosonally normal bubba in me, even if it is only until my BT Monday week.

  3. #3
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    Mar 2008
    California
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    WTH--A huge congrats on a successful transfer!! Sending massive loads of



    HannahD--Hope you feel better.... unless it's m/s induced!!



    chappas--Wishing you the best of luck at your appt. next week! Until then, some extra

  4. #4
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    Aug 2008
    Adelaide
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    WTH - Congratulations on a successful transfer! Thats fantastic news. Sending lots of your way.

    jen - I do feel better now actually. It got better once I managed to make myself eat something. I'm trying not to get my hopes up yet, but

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    Jan 2008
    Melbourne, Australia
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    WTH - sweet you have all the positive vibes in the world from me

    jenushka - congrats on your pretty pink flavour hun - hope she brings you every happiness

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    Apr 2007
    NSW
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    WTH - I'll just say it again, but for a succesful transfer and a frostie!! Have everything crossed too for your other 2 embies. Yippee for being in the TWW!

    HannahD - I'm sorry to hear about you Mum being like that - why can't she just take no for an answer and leave it at that? It's your body and your decision after all. As for the relaxing you bit I can't believe that people persist with the "just relax and it will happen" attitude - it is so not helpful and personally after 2 years of TTC I got pretty sick of hearing it! Good luck for your appt on Mon and hope the sickness is a good sign!

    jackjack - I agree with the other ladies too, I would get the bleeding checked out too. It isn't normal to be still bleeding 2 months after a D&C. Good luck with it all and hope you feel better soon

    babymiracles - So sory hear about your fiances Dad I hope he makes it to your wedding somehow. Try not to melt in that heat! Thank goodness it is not that bad here!

    fifi - I don't think you are overreacting at all. I would have been hard put not to tell the guy to wake up to himself! Some people just have no idea though I guess, hopefully he will change once the baby arrives.

    jenushka - Yay for a little pink bundle Girls are so cool

    Jen - Sorry to hear that DS is sick again Hope he is on the mend for you soon.

    chappas - GL for next Wed!

    Big hi's to everyone else I have missed, sorry for no more persies - after a couple of good days in terms of ms I have been feeling a bit queasy again today. Not much fun but very reassuring all the same!!

  7. #7
    2011 BellyBelly RAK Recipient.

    Aug 2008
    Adelaide
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    WTH - A big congratulations to you for the transfer, and two frosties - good luck with the remaining two. for BFP monday week for you and sending you lots of

    HannahD: hope you are feeling better. The heat is definately getting to me too - 3rd day over 40 degrees with no relief in sight! We are lucky that we have airconditioning but for some reason had no power to aircon last night for about 8 hours -was not happy

    Megsmum: thanks for your wishes about my fiances father. Sorry to hear you are feeling queasy - but agree it must be reassuring to some extent.

    Chappas: will be thinking of you next wed. Good luck honey

    jenuska: congratulations on having a beautiful girl - you can now start buying all things pink. That is lovely news

    Fificlaire: OMG I cannot believe your work colleague either and I think you were very restrained just to walk away. Well done..

    Jen: my fellow piscean. Hope you are having a lovely day - Praying that this is the cycle for you my dear

    Big hugs to everyone else on thread - mannie, jackjack, plc, possums, erybery, rachel, karen van, meh, theresa, and everyone else (Jen I don't know how you do it - you deserve a medal for remembering all of our names)

  8. #8
    Registered User

    Sep 2008
    Sydney
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    Smile Can this be true????

    OH MY GOODNESS! I got a BFP!
    I did 2 pregnow tests this morning (10ml) and very, very very aint lines came up! I think Im 11 days post ovulation so still very early though. I went to the doc this arvo who has done a bt so should know for sure by tomorrow morning. My dad is a nurse so grabbed me some pregnancy tests from the hosp. I just did one (so it wasnt even FM urine and Ive been drinking heaps!) and it is anoter BFP! its a different kind of test called a hcg combo obc I think it picks up 25 mls!

    So hopefully if it is confirmed tomorrow I can truly declare Clomid a wonder drug.
    Just praying this baby sticks, I wont feel sure of myself till I see that heartbeat on a scan.

    Just on cloud nine, though not quite believing it and overcome with anxiety about the "what ifs"

    Come on cycle buddies - be brave test with me, I cant do this alone.