thread: Trying to Conceive after Miscarriage/Loss - January 2009

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  1. #1
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    Dec 2008
    Melbourne, VIC
    46

    sorry a self-centred vent...

    hmmmm...so much for the BD marathon....sorry for TMI....one go and I have a gorgeous UTI!

    My doc is running some tests because it's so soon after the m/c just to make sure it's only a normal infection. She's good though ~ no grief about trying again, just supportive. She even suggested I should take two tablets at lunchtime to get started so I can have three today and get better quicker. Probably antibiotics (even though they're on the 'safe list') will mean this isn't our month....bummer.

    Take care everyone.

  2. #2
    Registered User

    Sep 2008
    Sydney
    1,413

    hannahD - Im soooo sorry to hear AF arrived! I know the feeling of just waiting and waiting. Big hugs for you!

    Clockley, KristyN, Samandpoppy - welcome to our group. All I can say is this group is soooo supportive and knowing that everyone understands exactly what your feeling really helps.

    Jen - when are you testing, would love it if you joined out bellybellygroup.

    AFM - really scared, just trying to take one day at a time and enjoy it, though very hard to do. I got an appoint 24th Feb (so I will be 7 weeks) to see my gyn/ob who will also do a scan. I will be holding my breath till then till I see a baby on the screen. But also just my luck, I find out hes probably on holidays when I am due! ahhh, will still see him though but just very annoying.

    Love and hugs to you all.

  3. #3
    Registered User

    Mar 2008
    Springfield Lakes
    13

    I'm still lurking and that this is our month. Feeling suprisingly good regarding TTC though so it's slightly easier. For now anyway.

    Just letting you know that I'm reading along but never know what to post.

  4. #4
    Registered User

    Nov 2008
    13

    hi everyone
    just a quick post.
    i caved in yesterday and POAS and BFN of course. I was expecting that. Oh well.
    AF hasn't showed yet. have been having cramps so AF can't be too far away.

  5. #5
    Registered User

    Jan 2008
    Newcastle,uk
    156

    Ruthie - So pleased you got af, Hope you get bfp soon

    Mannie - Hope you enjoy Brisbane

    Jen - Sending lots of vibes your way

    Theresa - Sorry to hear you have cold, Take it easy.

    Kristyn + Clockley - So sorry to hear of your losses, Glad you decided to join us you will get lots of support from the ladies here. Wishing you lots of luck ttc.

    Hannahd - So sorry af arrived, I just know it will happen for you. Understand how you feel.

    Issy - CONGRATULATIONS! on reaching 12 weeks and hearing heartbeat. Let us know how midwife visit goes.

    Hannahs86 - Hope af stays away

    Babymiracles - Glad everything is on track, Know what you mean about the stress.

    Meh - Sorry to hear about uti, hope tablets make you feel better soon.

    Erybery - Glad you got app sorted out for 24th, i feel really scared too

    Matb - Hope you get bfp

    Princess - Sorry about bfn

    to everyone else

    AFM - Snowing here quite bad today, expecting phonecall from DD school saying they are going to close early.

  6. #6
    Registered User

    Aug 2008
    Somerset - UK
    95

    Hey ladies how was everyone's weekend?????

    I woke up this morning to a nice thick white blanket of snow, bit extreme from the weather most of you ladies have been experiencing!!

    Also had a phone call from the doc this morning who has had my blood results back from last week and i'm anaemic so he has stuck me on iron tablets to hopefully sort that out.

    Well i'm off to play in the snow

    Happy Monday Girlies xxx

  7. #7
    Registered User

    Mar 2008
    California
    1,665

    Kristy & clockley-- My sincere apologies over the losses of your little angels! While a loss is difficult at any stage of pg'cy, a loss during Christmas had to have been extremely difficult! I pray that your TTC journey is short, and you're both blessed very quickly with your earth-bound angels!



    HannahD--Aww, hon.... I saw your ticker yesterday said CD1, and I was soooooo hoping that it was a mistake! Sometimes when you go past the last day of your cycle, the ticker restarts at CD1, so I was really hoping that was the case! Like you said, at least AF had the decency to show on time and not leave you hanging and wondering... not much of a consolation, I'm sure, but we have to find the silver lining somewhere, right?



    meh--Oh, hon, I'm so sorry--UTI's are the worst!! Hope you feel better soon and it doesn't slow things down on the TTC front! Big *hugs*



    HannahS--Welcome back, stranger! *hugs* Wishing you lot's of luck with the temping! Warning--it can be very addicting!



    issy--You could never sound insensitive! It's completely understandable that it would be difficult for you (esp. in the 1st trimester) to read stories of loss, when you're doing everything you can to stay focused on staying positive!! Congrats for making it past the huge 12 week milestone! Hope your m/w appt. went well! Wishing you an uneventful 2nd and 3rd trimester!! *hugs*



    Babymiracles--Would love to be 'fishy' belly buddies! I'm keeping my Woo hoo--great numbers on your BT!!



    erybery--Check out that shiny new ticker you're sporting there! Congrats! I'm supposed to test on Friday... we'll see how it's going symptom-wise!



    MaternalBride--Hi! Glad to see you're still hanging around!



    princess--Sorry about your BFN! Hopefully it was just a little too early to test. Sending lots of anti-AF vibes just in case!!



    chappas & fifi--Enjoy the snow! I'll stick with my 75F temperatures, thank you very much!

  8. #8
    Registered User

    Dec 2008
    35

    Thanks for the hugs Jen. I definitely need them as AF showed up this morning. I literally had an HPT in hand. Oh well. DH and I started a fire AND broke our bed last month while DTD. How does that not make a baby? Time to start temping! Hope it goes well and doesn't cause any more stress! I'm going to try not to be moping around today. I'm definitely not as down as I was last month. DH and I always try to get out and do something fun if AF shows up so we can stay positive and not be bummed out.

    Princess&MaternalBride&Jen- I'm crossing my fingers you get your BFPs this month!

    Issy- So glad you made it to the 12 week mark!!! I hope the next 28 weeks will fly by!

    Babymiracles- Those are great numbers! Glad you will be able to relax a bit now.

    Meh- Sorry about the UTI I got an infection last month also, but it was just as I entered the 2WW (which ended up being a 3WW). Hope next month goes differently for you!

    Erybery- So so happy for you! I hope you are able to stay as stress-free as possible until your appt. everything goes well!

    Fifi- Sorry about the doc's results. Hoping everything is sorted out with the iron.

    Take care ladies