thread: Trying to Conceive after miscarriage or loss - July 2008 #5

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  1. #1
    Registered User

    Jun 2008
    New Jersey, USA
    192

    Hi girlies..

    Wow the thread I left you girlies was closed....LOL I was lost again but found you..(again)...LMAO!!!

    Darn I'm such a noob.

    Update on me:

    So I did some calculating and I'm 8 weeks from LMP.. I decided it was enough time to get a BFP..so I tested today instead of Monday (for those who don't know I have PCOS and on all my 3 prev pregnancies ( 2 m/c) I never showed a BFP till after the 6 weeks on all 3) and I got a BFN

    I made an appointment with a fertility specialist and hopefully I will be able to get in on the beginning of Aug.
    I'm bummed out that I feel so many things but from now on it's only PMS. I have to stuff that into my head...
    so till then I'm just waiting for that docs visit. I will keep you posted on how I do.I'm just a bit bummed out and sad that I am not pregnant ; Meaning my fertility meds didn't work this month! For now I have to stop thinking I am pregnant.
    If I take too long to write back here feel free to e-mail me.

    makunga21@hotmail.com

    I wish each and everyone of you Good luck , baby dust and I hope you get your
    BFPS!!!


    to all of you and keep me posted on em BFPS! Good luck everyone.



    - Ruthie

  2. #2
    Registered User

    Oct 2007
    Hunter Valley, NSW
    624

    Well - that's much better. I don't feel neglected this morning, lots to catch up on. LOL

    Jen - don't know where that cleaning fairy went - I told her to go straight to your house cause you needed her. Sorry. obviously she got lost on the way. Hey, if anyone finds her, can you send her back - My place needs another clean up.

    Angel - for you. Sounds good so far.

    Krystie - Everyone is allowed a "sooky day". Glad to hear you're feeling a little better. OMG look at that list, you keep an update on that so well. I think we need to move everyone from the top half to the bottom half, what do you think. And we'll put the ones in the middle down the bottom too.

    Good Idea - put all the hospitals and birthing centres on alert - there's going to be an influx in April, actually around here there usually is.

  3. #3
    BellyBelly Member

    Jun 2008
    Brisbane
    185

    quick post before I get caught by the boss

    Thought it was all over early this morning. I woke at 3:30am (2nd day in a row) as I was soooo hot and needed to pee (not like me at all). I had major AF type cramps so quickly ran to the loo and checked and there was nothing.

    The cramps continued for the morning and still are quite distinct now so when the alarm went off I actually said to DH it was all over but I couldn't bear to go the the loo to check. Anyway the pee got the better of me and again checked and again nothing.

    Very interesting your last few posts have been about creamy CM cause I have had so much (TMI) and this is why I have been checking all the time.

    Temp stayed high, although could be because I worried all night about AF

    Oh well the waiting continues for me - keep throwing the baby dust

  4. #4
    Registered User

    Jan 2008
    Melbourne, Australia
    1,395

    Jen - lurking as always my friend!! lmao at it being called "rodeo" - I must be a regular cowgirl!!!

    Angel - I get heaps of discharge when pg and i often get it confused with thrush. Getting all that checked at the moment actually cos my thrush is not going away. So short answer is yep, get heaps of discharge on pants (panty liners a good idea - thanks for that!).

    Hey everyone - think I may have gone over the TMI line with each of the bits of info above but, oh well, we're all friends!

  5. #5
    Registered User

    Feb 2008
    Sydney :)
    317

    good morning all you lovely ladies

    oooh Easha: for you!!!! all the signs are looking good to me! dont worry about your boss, please come in and keep us updated!!!

    ruthie: the waiting is so so hard! im sorry you havent got the answer you are looking for yet...but its not over yet! it seems that this isnt unusual for you to be pg and get BFNs, so hape thats whats happening this time too...

    well, Jen, hope your bathrooms are all clean!!!
    oh, by the way, we definitely wont be waiting all weekend if i have anything to do with it! i will be getting hubby to ring the pathology people every half an hour till be get a HCG level!!!

    angel: well well well, looking good for you too sweety! when will you test? we cant wait!!!

    so, im heading off to have my BT soon, will BBL with the results...

    have a good day everyone

  6. #6
    Registered User

    Jan 2008
    573

    @#&#@ @#&#@ I have just been to 5...not 1 not 2 not 3 not 4 but 5 chemists to get the "first response" pg test..... none of them had it.....

    now I m back at work and going to let my fingers do the walking to find one that does have them and then buy the damn shop out.


    Goodness... what a waist over an hour

  7. #7
    Registered User

    Feb 2008
    168

    hey angel

    not sure about brissie but here in sydney you can buy first response at any wooolworths supermarket

    good luck, am dying to hear your BFP!

  8. #8
    Registered User

    Jun 2008
    New Jersey, USA
    192

    Thank you Jen805 and Tina!!

    Ok now this is the craziest thing!! I don;t believce it!!.. Rememeebr how I tested this AM and it was BFN??.. Well for the heck of it I threw it in a drawer before the time limit and like at 6Pm (eastern time) I went to stare at it and OMG a second faint faint line????.

    I was liek no...that has to be an evap... so I took another tests only that tthis time it acted awkward.... the ink depositeed on both side of the "test" line making it look white and all the sides pink???.. what theheck?

    anyways it acted funky and the 1st one I took in the AM had a second line.. not sure if it was an evap as I didn't wait for the time limit I just saw that no line showed up and threw it in my drawer. !!!..crazy crazy. so I lost all my hopes this AM and now they have gone AwAAY UP!!..
    Sooo..being the POAS addict that I am.. I bought like 5 FRER and a few cheapies from the "dollar tree " store and am going to POAS like a true maniac this weekend. But am using the brand ones this Monday.

    If I show up something good this weekend I will sure let you know!! I'm so excited as this week is exactly 8 weeks from my LMP.. the exact week I got a BFP when I miscarried my 1st baby. (the fetus was 6 weeks) but from my LMP it was 8 weeks.

    Again..baby dust donations appreciated. LOL
    I will sure keep you posted. Wow all I say is this TTC with PCOS is such a roller coaster of emotions. you get down then you get hope... sucks.
    Am just hoping I'm not putting myself for heartache. Funny thing my 3 yr old comes to me today pokes my belly and said "mommy a baby!!"..and I said you think?..and he said "I think so yeah".. a 3 YEAR OLD!! Does he know something I don't???.. LOL

    Oh girls I hope we all get our miracles this very cycle!!!

    ok I will sure let you know what happens. Oh I will not be home tomorrow so I will sure miss you girlies. All I can say is Good luck and I am praying for you girlies!!

    ♥hugs♥
    Ruthie

  9. #9
    Registered User

    Apr 2008
    White Gum Valley, WA
    318

    Hey all!
    Just a quickie from bme before I go to work. Took my temp today and put it in FF and now it says my temp is fluctuating more than it should and it may be because I'm not ovulating. Bit down. I just hope I am o-ing.


  10. #10
    Registered User

    Feb 2008
    Sydney :)
    317

    angel, you can buy first response form Coles Supermarkets, if you havent had any luck yet with pharmacies