Trying to Conceive after miscarriage or loss - July 2008 #5

[jen805]

joey--You're handling this like a champ, hon...you're amazingly strong, I hope you realize that! If you ever feel like not being strong, remember that we won't tell you "not to worry", because you can't be strong all the time!! So April it is!! It will be for me, too! But no skiing for you in Aug, because you'll be UTD by then!

Our competition seems to have gone flat... no BD for over a week! But DF has been home sick for 3 days, and he doesn't take being sick well, so no BD'ing has been ok with me! It's not like it would matter right now anyways! (yikes, that sounded rough) I think for this current cycle we should all have a BD-off--anyone up for a challenge???? Hope you enjoy your Birthday dinners!!


mollycat--Still waiting on that cleaning fairy! Maybe she was too pooped out after cleaning your house!


Van--Yes, FF is definitely confused this month! At least you used opk's, can't remember without clicking back where those +opk's came in relation to your temps--and I don't want to lose my post! Looks like we're both in limbo for now! You could be like me and have more than 1 chart to go by--I like my other one better than FF this month!


tina--Thanks, hon...I'm trying not to worry about those stupid red lines! Still trying.... Good luck with your BT's today!!! Will we really have to wait ALL weekend to get the results??? I'm feeling very impatient! I'm for some nice, high, numbers!


Easha-- that AF is still MIA!!! Looking forward to seeing another high temp! 1 more sleep till you POAS!!! Looks like no skiing for you in Aug. either!!


jenushka--Congrats on your great OB appt!!! for heartbeats and foot waves!! I'm so happy for you that you've passed a milestone! Wishing you continued good luck and lots of

[smilanatu]

Morning gurlies!

No headache today thank goodness!

Tocarra...maybe we'll be PG buddies I see you are on CD7 I am CD8...my cycle averages 26 days how about yours?

Easha...blowing all over you!

joey... Was it the 16th or is it today? NOOOOOOO AF was/is banned! I will have to say you are dealing with it wonderfully...on a positive note we can be April baby partners!

jen...umm...if you ain't first you're last Sorry I couldn't resist.

Van...wow still on the poo smell quest? LOL

Krystie...I too have been deeply disappointed with our lack of ...July has proven to be a sucky month for conception...last half is left who will redeem the month and begin a new craze?

AFM...guess what this week...weekend is? DVD!!! We've been practicing for the weekend... I wonder if I am using up all the swimmers prior to O day...I sure hope not we rather enjoy so we tend do do it OFTEN!!! Hmm...

[Baby Angels]

okkkk serious TMI warning......


Does CM increase with a BFP

[smilanatu]

Jenushka...CONGRATS on a great scan!!!

Angel Babies...I am soooooo for you a

jen when he's sick you gotta go rodeo style... Trust me Lee gets no breaks and I accept no excuses

[smilanatu]

Angel Babies...according to lots of things I've read yes it does increase and I think it becomes a creamy consistancy...

[jen805]

Part 2--


Krystie-- You're back! The thread just seems far too quiet without you! I'm glad you took the time to take a sooky day, sometimes we need that to feel better! And you're MUCH smarter than FF, so I'm sure you're right about me O'ing on CD14!! How's your eye feeling lately after that bird attack? That reminded me of that old Hitch**** movie, The Birds--have you seen that one? Creepy...


AFM...Had an interesting occurrence when trying to temp today...DS slept on a cot next to my bed last night, so as I was reaching over him this am to grab my thermometer, it fell in between the cot and the dresser! So I was trying to reach it without waking DF and DS--no such luck! I was feeling pretty stressed out by this time! So I had to get up and grab my regular thermometer from the front bathroom. By the time I took my temp it was 98.2, which is a slight drop from yesterday, so I figure it's gotta be pretty close to accurate! What a dramatic experience! Then I ended up waking DF up, and he gets all huffy and puffy....then he comes out to tell me that he's tired of getting woken up at 5:30 every morning! Duh, it's usually 6:00! I guess I'm supposed to lay in bed awake for an hour and a 1/2 until it's time for him to wake up??? Yeah, right, good luck with that one! It's not like I was huffing and puffing all through the night while he's been keeping me awake while he's been sick! And that could affect my temp, so I should be huffing louder than him!!!

[jen805]

Angel--I always have lots of CM when pg!!

[tutmae]

Angel: I've heard the same thing! YAY!

[jen805]

Good morning smilanatu! Glad to hear your headache is gone! No rodeo for me...too much work! Besides, for a girl, missionary is best! Ooh, another DVD weekend? Go get it girl!!

[Baby Angels]

jen when he's sick you gotta go rodeo style... Trust me Lee gets no breaks and I accept no excuses

Ohhhhh crack me up smilanatu


TMI warning again.... thats good news about the Cm... cause seriously... OMG... panty liners required...... HEY I warned the TMI .... and yes smilanatu creamy

[jen805]

tutmae and smi, we're in the chat room if you want to come join us!

[tutmae]

Angel: So excited!! Are you testing tomorrow? remember- always follow A's instructions!!

[jen805]

Everyone's deserted me now, and it's only 8:45 a.m.! What will I do while everyone is ??? I guess I better work on cleaning my house since mollycat's cleaning fairy is MIA! I know one of you must have kidnapped her for yourself! lol... C'mon, fess up... who was it? *big sigh....* I guess I'll go clean the bathroom...that's the absolute worst!...



tutmae--I know what you're doing right now! *evil*



bettyboop--Hope things are going well with you! Big and



WTH-- Thinking of you and saying lots of



tempus--You've been MIA...how's those meds going for you? Hope you aren't having any ill side effects!



issy--Hey girl! How's the new lifestyle treating you?



Hi Acria! How's it going? You've been awfully quiet!



Ruthie--Where'd you go, girl? Any news yet? Finger and toes crossed for you!



Hi plc! Hope you're still lurking mama!


Hi's and big hugs to everyone else not mentioned! You're all always in my thoughts! I've run out of smilies, so just imagine the sparkles around this *baby dust* and *sticky vibes*!! We really need some more BFP's for July!!! tina's getting lonely!!!



Ok, that was a 5 minute distraction...*sigh*...now I'm really going to clean the bathroom...BOO!! Someone wake up and save me from my bathroom! ROFLMAO

[jen805]

One bathroom down.... 1/2 one to go..... no one has saved me yet!

[RuthiePCOS momma]

Wow the thread I left you girlies was closed....LOL I was lost again but found you..(again)...LMAO!!!

Darn I'm such a noob.

Update on me:

So I did some calculating and I'm 8 weeks from LMP.. I decided it was enough time to get a BFP..so I tested today instead of Monday (for those who don't know I have PCOS and on all my 3 prev pregnancies ( 2 m/c) I never showed a BFP till after the 6 weeks on all 3) and I got a BFN

I made an appointment with a fertility specialist and hopefully I will be able to get in on the beginning of Aug.
I'm bummed out that I feel so many things but from now on it's only PMS. I have to stuff that into my head...
so till then I'm just waiting for that docs visit. I will keep you posted on how I do.I'm just a bit bummed out and sad that I am not pregnant ; Meaning my fertility meds didn't work this month! For now I have to stop thinking I am pregnant.
If I take too long to write back here feel free to e-mail me.

makunga21@hotmail.com

I wish each and everyone of you Good luck , baby dust and I hope you get your
BFPS!!!


to all of you and keep me posted on em BFPS! Good luck everyone.



- Ruthie

[mollycat]

Well - that's much better. I don't feel neglected this morning, lots to catch up on. LOL

Jen - don't know where that cleaning fairy went - I told her to go straight to your house cause you needed her. Sorry. obviously she got lost on the way. Hey, if anyone finds her, can you send her back - My place needs another clean up.

Angel - for you. Sounds good so far.

Krystie - Everyone is allowed a "sooky day". Glad to hear you're feeling a little better. OMG look at that list, you keep an update on that so well. I think we need to move everyone from the top half to the bottom half, what do you think. And we'll put the ones in the middle down the bottom too.

Good Idea - put all the hospitals and birthing centres on alert - there's going to be an influx in April, actually around here there usually is.

[Easha]

quick post before I get caught by the boss

Thought it was all over early this morning. I woke at 3:30am (2nd day in a row) as I was soooo hot and needed to pee (not like me at all). I had major AF type cramps so quickly ran to the loo and checked and there was nothing.

The cramps continued for the morning and still are quite distinct now so when the alarm went off I actually said to DH it was all over but I couldn't bear to go the the loo to check. Anyway the pee got the better of me and again checked and again nothing.

Very interesting your last few posts have been about creamy CM cause I have had so much (TMI) and this is why I have been checking all the time.

Temp stayed high, although could be because I worried all night about AF

Oh well the waiting continues for me - keep throwing the baby dust

[plc1805]

Jen - lurking as always my friend!! lmao at it being called "rodeo" - I must be a regular cowgirl!!!

Angel - I get heaps of discharge when pg and i often get it confused with thrush. Getting all that checked at the moment actually cos my thrush is not going away. So short answer is yep, get heaps of discharge on pants (panty liners a good idea - thanks for that!).

Hey everyone - think I may have gone over the TMI line with each of the bits of info above but, oh well, we're all friends!