Trying to Conceive After Miscarriage/Loss July/August 2009

Hi Jules, nice to see you :) I was thinking that I ovulated on the day of my D&C aswel! my second chart on my ff link shows a dip on the D&C day (the day with 'M' bleeding CD49). I don't really know what my body was doing as there was still tissue inside thus the need for the D&C in the 1st place... I think my body was 'trying' to O anyway iykwim... I know that after the D&C my temp was high and than I got the AF which just finished and I am now on CD6, waiting to O again and ttc. HTH and take care xo

Hi Cherished,

how long did it take for your AF to come after the d&c?

Hello again Jules :)

I had my regular 30 day cycle after my 1st D&C and it came 2 weeks after this D&C... I think that is because there was only the smallest bit of tissue to take out so my cycle didn't get interupted. If you have a look at my chart on my ticker link you will see that i had an af start on July 8th and than 30 days later I had another one start on Aug 7th so it was still my regular cycle length even though I had the D&C on July 24th I don't think it interupted my cycle... This is also why I think my body may have tried to ovulate on the day of the D&C because there was a temp drop on that day and than it was high until af again... Sorry if I'm not explaining this too well but the chart speaks for itself... HTH ;)

Hey Jules, AF came for me 33 days after the d&c, which is my normal cycle length. Hope that helps for you!

Snugglybean I LOVE your signature! It's like a fu-c-k you to the TTC battle! I had the same attitude before the Laparoscopy hehehe! Thumbs Up!

Snugglebean,Coco-i have had a bit of that attitude myself lately ive been drinking coffee and having a few jd's and ginger beer (yummy!) and not popping all the health tablet's (just the iodine and prenatal one's) i'm not doing anything until the FS say's i'm ready to go then i will be good.

Hi All,

Hope everyone is going well today.

Sunbeam - Did your appointment show up yesterday? Is it so hard for people to pick up the phone and cancel if they cant make it. I would be so annoyed.

Anila - I hope you are having a better day today. I saw in another section that you were having a hard time yesterday.

Coco - Yay for the 2ww. Hope to see you reporting some serious symptoms before your bfp on the 30th!!

Ferrals - How far into the 2ww are you now? It would be so great for you to get your healthy sticky bub and not have to worry about the ivf. I have my fingers crossed for a positive outcome for you.

Juleswa - I hope your cycle is back on track soon and that you are feeling well.

Big hellos to eliselouise, chickybabe, NattyT, Kyrawolfe, SammyP, Sunny .... and anyone ive missed.

AFM - Im sorry for calling a/f a b%t&h. I totally didnt mean it a/f! I woke up at 5am this morning with the most painful cramping i have ever had in my life. Still very light bleeding but im sure by the pain i was in that its got to get heavier soon.

Maddison-AF is due monday as i ov early i tested todat got a bfn which is ok because ivf is the best way for me to get pregnant as we will know the baby wont be effected so if AF show's her head on mon then DH and i will be absolutely careful every day of my cycle until our ivf starts which i'm praying will be in about 8 weeks.

Morning Girls,

Yes the client did show up even thougth he was 1/2 hour late, obviously to hard to pick up a phone and let me know he was running late!!!

Sammy- I'm a Psychologist I do counselling with kids and adults (and occasionally couples though I try to avoid this.) I work part of the week for my self anf part for a charity called Bravehearts.

Maddison- Are you okay that sounds a bit worrying to be in that much pain.

Gotta go Have a great day everyone.

Ferrals, what great pics... xx

Sorry I haven't been in for a while... have been a little self consumed. I am again in the tww.... thankfully!! LOL... I find the lead up to O very stressful!

Mel, sorry that you have started bleeding :( (((hugs)))

Sunbeam - Im not sure if i am ok or not. TMI alert... I just went to the toilet and af has arrived big time but i passed a big clot and a few little ones. Was pretty gross really.

ooh maddison, im sorry af is here, i hope ur ok hunni.

thanks for asking about my day before, its alot better today.

Ferrals : :hugs: I have not been able to get on and post but wanted you to know you were most definitely in my thoughts and prayers - I adored your pics. I was talking about you to my DB on Tuesday...He was stunned to learn that its not just the first three months that can be dangerous

Anila: I'm glad to hear that things are looking up slightly for you. I often disappear from here for a few days because I can't think of anything positive to write...I guess that's when we actually need to be here though

Maddison: Oh hunny, I am so sorry - I truly had my fingers crossed for you - I would have loved to go through paml with you...I hope that this passes quickly and you are back in the game

Tanya: I'm not far behind you for the tww...fingers and toes crossed for each/all of us :)

Sunbeam: what a great profession...it would be great to be able to help people in that way!

CoCo & Snuggly: Completely agree on the $*&#$ you to TTC! I told DB last night I want to bd cause its fun but feel like we are bd just for a bub which I don't like...(TMI) he didn't give me a choice! :rofl:

Cherished: how have you been?

Kyra: you sounded busy since you haven't been on here much - hope everything is going well for you and hope you get your sticky bundle this month

JulesWA: my D&C seemed to 'reset' my cycle so unfortunately I don't know how much help we have been...always happy to try and help though!

Sammy: Hope to be joining you in just a couple weeks, how is everything going?

Sorry to anyone I have missed and I think there are a few of you...I'm at work so am trying to be quick but having a :( day so wanted to get on here
AFM: DB is being great about being a stud this week/weekend...as I wrote earlier he is the one who didn't give me a choice when I said I don't think we should (made me very happy with him lol) I (like we all do) have my fingers crossed as this month we are actually in the same house on the days I think I o and we need to bd. I have been all up front with him and said that's what he is for this weekend lol and he is all good about it.
It seems the week for some sadness though. Monday was not fun for me, I would have been 18 weeks and I don't know why but I was just devastated that day. I took the day off work and spent it at home chilling with DB (he had day off as well - works for himself so he can :))

Here's to many more BFP's this cycle and for those on RB - for the coming cycle :)

Maddison sorry to hear she is here in full sweety xxxxxx

Anila: Glad to hear you're having a better day!

Tina: Hello!! :D :rofl: at the stud comment behahahahaha I drove to Lithgow on monday just for that reason lol :D

AFM! omgomgomg!!!!!

You know how I wrote about all the little signs Ive had this month? The dream where we were picking up "Madison" from the hospital, the BFP numberplate I sat behind on the way to going to hump DH in Lithgow, and the "Madison" sign on the side of the road coming home from lithgow????

I just went to buy a new quilt cover and I picked out one that was cheap and didnt care if it got dirty on holidays *we're taking our own blanket*(Sheridan factory outlet has 70% off) came down to $20..anyway..I asked the woman about the measurements so i knew it would be the same size as another one i bought there so it would fit the quilt, and you know the names they give the designs??

It was called MADDY! YET ANOTHER SIGN FOR US!!!! :hooray:

Hoping and praying this is our month because I am going to be in pieces if it isnt!
:pink-babydust::pink-babydust::pink-babydust::pink-babydust:

Hi ladies,
just thought I'd pop in and say hello.

I had been reading and quietly lurking for a while, but then decided that wasn't really a 'break'.
So I thought I'd just come back and say hello to you lovely ladies, and see how you all were.

And I thought I might post a very 'self-absorbed whinge' if that was OK?

I hate hearing pg complain about normal pg syptoms - morning sickness, big boobs, swollen bellies and kicking babies!! What I would give to be able to feel a kick, see a swollen belly, I'd even be happy with throwing my guts up every morning. I swear, that should I ever be fortunate enough to fall pg again, I will NEVER complain about any of those syptoms that signify the one thing I don't have now. Unless of course it's spotting, because we all know what that means......(PS - I don't mean complications of pg - complain about those, because they're NOT meant to happen, But complaints about normal symptoms are the ones that irk me!!)
Sorry if that sounds harsh, but I'm just having a bad day!

My update: Thyroid meds haven't really kicked in yet like I had hoped - I had some side effects two weeks ago and had to stop them for a while, but have restarted on a lower dose, and working back up to the higher dose. The original estimatle of 3 months to take effect has now moved to around 6 months. I know it doesn't seem like much, but I am just so concious of the fact that every month is another month older, and I feel like my chances are slipping away with every passing month. *sigh*.

sorry if I brought the thread down too much, but I really needed to get that out!

Hello Everyone! My week has fineally settled down enough to have some quiet time with my keyboard haha!

Tina -=- Thanx for the hey, Yeah all of a sudden Ive been running into everyone and having all these activities to go to/take my family too (its been so nice cuz i feel so housebound smoetimes) Its so good that you get a proper chance to BD this month! Ill be sending u lots of hope from me !

Maddison -=- So sorry AF made yet another painful appearance, its such a mood breaker when she takes away that hope we all get at the end of a month.. Well at least it marks the beggining of another chance right? Gud luck hope this next cycle is your last!

Tanya -=- GUD LUCK BD'in :dance:

Sunbeam -=- Your a psychologist!! You are officially Idolised :D! Sorry to sound simple but I always get Psychologist and Psychiatrist mixed up, I know one pescribes medication and one doesnt.. but I never remember which ones which! Wow, that must be a draining weight though, having to help everyone else with there problems and here all the horrible stuff everyone go's through, and then have your own stuff going on on top of all that.. I can imagine why you would avoid couples.. Im guessing half the time they just end up having arguments in front of you..:wall:

Ferrals -=- I hope the IVF makes a big difference for you.. heres hopeing you only need one round! Gud luck keeping everything together till then.. sending virtual hug!

coco -=- awww! Next time you have a sign, maybe it will be a date! then you'll know when to expect your little bubba! the signs are certaily way to forward to ignore! This is def your month!! :D

Milly -=- Hey :hug: I know what you mean.. Ive had to see so many friends go through there flawless succesfull pregnancys while im still waiting on the baby that will complete my family, and the one that always boils my blood is a particular ex gf who not only *****ed about EVERY moment she was carrying her child, but used us through the whole PG we put her up when she was having petty fights with her BF and she demanded us to buy her pizza, coke, tim tams, etc etc Because she was pregnant. I got so annoyed that she wasnt taking care of herself. Then when she had her baby she moved back in with her BF (useless btw) and they neglected the baby from day one. I had a big blow out with her and both myself and her parents have called child welfare on her after seeing how she treats that beautiful lil girl.. Shes 6 months old i think.. and her mother rang to tell me that shes in hospital having a kidney removed because her parents have given her panadol non stop to get her to sleep for them since she was born. I really do hope she gets taken off them before she joins our little angels.. Ive ranted about her on here before it just makes me so angry that someone gets given a gift they dont deserve when people like us are left with broken hearts.
Sorry to rant again-- sigh.. I know its hard to see people whining about what they have, i really hope you get ur BFP soon

AFM -=- sorry this is so long, i havnt had a proper write in a bit hehe.. Im soo tired.. I had a full nights sleep and two naps today.. and im not sick, but i have no energy at all.. and as funny as it sounds, its gotten me excited! hehe.. I asked hubby to pick me up two tests today, is it too early to test yet? Im not sure cuz ive never actually known my cycle b4 lol.. help! should I do one?

Kyra :grouphug:

I know.. meeting her when her parents saw us at the mall was heartbreaking.. they let me have a hold and i wanted to run away with her.. Heres hopeing the hospital will report this and it will be the end of that cows "parenting"

... mily ur post just dissapeard lol