Ferrals - Honey - Sod them, people are going to judge you because that's what people do. I love the phrase that opinions are like bumholes - everyone has one and they usually stink. Honey this is such a deeply personal decision, so how other people feel about it is worth less than nothing. I am just sorry you had to hear it and it has caused you to question your path. Remember why you started this and don't let the ignorant intrude. My Mum always says...let them talk if they have the time, I've got better things to do.
Much love
Delly