Trying to conceive after Miscarriage or Loss May 2009

[Sunny Love]

So I tested.......................................


BFN!

[Anila]

Morning ladies.
Well today is a week since my miscarriage, and to be honest, i feel so lost, i have kind of delt with it, but im still so sad.
Its hard to describe, i just feel lost....

[Sunny Love]

Anila, you're in the right place. Time never takes away the pain, it only helps us to cope better with it each day. I hope your spirits lift soon.
xo

[ferrals5]

Bugger!!!!
I had to have a quick peek before i walk out the door for work i will be late but this thread is so addictive.

Sunny09-don't panic it might be to early i have everything crossed for you.

Coco1411- same as abve (lol) it might be a bit early i am crossing everything for you aswell.

Milly5- Thank's i'm hopeful it has worked this month i will be devo if it has'nt.

Anila- hang in there it will get easier i know you hear it all the time but i thought i would never feel better after i lost my beautiful girl and i promise you it doe's get easier as time go's by.

OMG look at the time i have to go i'm late (lucky my mum is the duty manager)
talk to you all tonight.

[teme]

Well it looks like the TTC after the EP and methotrexate shots will be delayed again. We were going to start in the next month or so but Dh is going to be going for surgery for a brain tumour that he has been dealing with for 12 years. It isn't cancerous and it is something we knew would have to be done but it puts TTC as a lower priority. I was thinking that we might try beore his surgery in July but having gone through an EP I am already do scared of it happening again that if it did I think life might be ub=nbearably stressful. It would have been nice to be expecting to give us a special joy through this yucky time. Well all I will focus on now will be my DH and keeping his stress levels low. Anyway I hope you all have great success and I will be lurking for the next bit as that is all I can do

[Anila]

Anila, you're in the right place. Time never takes away the pain, it only helps us to cope better with it each day. I hope your spirits lift soon.
xo

Anila- hang in there it will get easier i know you hear it all the time but i thought i would never feel better after i lost my beautiful girl and i promise you it doe's get easier as time go's by.

Thank you sunny and ferrals, it all just seems so different to when i had my first angel, it wasnt spoken about, it was like tabo, iykwim, i was 21, my partner was cheating on me, i had to move back in with my parents, i didnt have any other kids, and i felt alone.
This time i do have a hubby that loves me, i do have 5 beautiful children, im almost 32, and i have the bb girls to help get me through this, but i still feel lost, i just need hubby to give me a time frame, i suppose then i wont be so much in limbo.
I know it will eventually get easier, and it only seems hard now as it is still so fresh.

Well it looks like the TTC after the EP and methotrexate shots will be delayed again. We were going to start in the next month or so but Dh is going to be going for surgery for a brain tumour that he has been dealing with for 12 years. It isn't cancerous and it is something we knew would have to be done but it puts TTC as a lower priority. I was thinking that we might try beore his surgery in July but having gone through an EP I am already do scared of it happening again that if it did I think life might be ub=nbearably stressful. It would have been nice to be expecting to give us a special joy through this yucky time. Well all I will focus on now will be my DH and keeping his stress levels low. Anyway I hope you all have great success and I will be lurking for the next bit as that is all I can do

Best of luck with everything teme, i really do hope that very soon, u will be able to have your sticky bubba in your arms.

[coco1411]

I checked my cm b4 and It is the lightest of pink/brown...so im expecting spotting tomorrow and a temp drop and af on sat/sun....

Im so tired of all of this, and one of the things i hate most is the thought of it being another long arduous month until we can see if we have gotten there again...