hey there mrzbaby, coco and milly!
milly im on cd15 today, and usually o on cd 19, but dont have any signs that im going too.
Hope ur having/had a good day :)
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hey there mrzbaby, coco and milly!
milly im on cd15 today, and usually o on cd 19, but dont have any signs that im going too.
Hope ur having/had a good day :)
Hi beautiful Milly :) I am testing tomorrow if AF doesn't show up, it will be CD31 & only 11DPO... I'm not holding my breath though for a BFP.... With regard to the temping... I am obsessed! :redface: Sometimes I test at 4am, 5am etc but 6am is the time I record it... Having said that I can often get different temps which can change within 45mins! So I really think you do need to take it at the same time every day, it is important especially around 'o' time.
Mrzbaby :hello:
Well I'm gonna go and put a loaf of bread in the bread maker :p
cherished - my breadmaker is my best friend... now if it were only as easy to 'put a bun in the oven' hehehe Good luck for tomorrow :) :pray: for :noaf: for you and a :bfp:
Hi Coco, milly :)
mrzbaby, solitude can be good thing. People keep telling me to meditate. I'm not so good at it but apparently it's very helpful, I get distracted all the time when I try :redface:
Smallfryplus I set the bread maker on the timer last night for the 1st time with a yummo new receipie that I found on the net... it's spelt with linseed, maple syrup etc... anyway I havn't used the timer before and I must have not pressed the 'start' so I was expecting bread at 6am but I don't have it.... THEN I thought well I don't want to waste the mix so I'll set it for 11am and accidently 'started' it and it kneeded it a little bit SO it looks totally stuffed lol :wall: so I guess I will see what it looks like at 11am :rolleyes:
OK SO I'm 11DPO, temp rise again this morning and NO AF! Got a BFN but that's ok because it so early I didn't expect too much... Still no pg symptoms AND not much of a feeling of AF anymore?????
cherished - that bread sounds yum :) My fave loaf is using white bread base and adding mashed banana, sultanas and vanilla. Toast it up and have it with a coffee in the morning, used to do that every day at work... of course now I'm almost 100% off coffee so haven't been making that bread lately!! Maybe should go the decaf... I do have a good one.
I have to say I'm feeling very excited for you and hoping and :pray: because it would be so great for you to get a :bfp:
Ok so i couldn't help myself i had to have a quick look before work,DH got a call to do extra shift and left the laptop at home ( hehe it's all mine )
Mrzbaby- glad your back i hope the break did you some good.
Hi :hello:milly,anila,smallfryplus,coco,greenslw,cher ished,sunbeam,erybery,counting days.
Quick update my temp is still up i woke up this morning feeling dizzy and queasy (which i have never had morning sickness so i have no clue why i felt like it) but i had another BFN this morning and i feel like RB is on the way i'm due to get RB friday so i will not test again until i'm late.
I'm off to work again! i will do persies tonight.
Hello everyone :hello:,
All that talk of yummy bread has made me hungry. I woke up to the smell of onions :lol: as I'd made veg soup last night and had the house all shut up because of the terrible weather we're having. I'm trying to eat very healthy and lose a few kilos as I've now gained 11 1/2kg since TTC.
cherished1 and ferrals4- I am so excited at the prospect of 2 :bfp: this month I have everything crossed for both of you :crossfingers:.
Milly5- I am really hoping i did not miss my o this month. My temp was up at 37.0 for the 3 weeks after the m/c then when my HCG dropped to 0 my temp fell to 36.4 and has risen in steps since then. I felt no o pains or saw any other signs of it but my OPKs were darkish but not dark enough to be positive so I'm wondering if it could possibly have happened just as my HCG dropped!?!?!:confused: Oh well if I have to wait a month I have to wait, and I'll try and do it in a happy Dr. Seuss kind of way.
Just wanted to ask if any of you dream about babies? Odd question maybe but I seem to be dreaming about them endlessly. Last night I had a beautiful baby boy, he was all swaddled up on my lap and I kept kissing his little cheeks, I couldn't take my eyes off him he was so gorgeous. I woke up feeling very happy.
Hope you all have a lovely day.
Hi all, the TWW has a hold of me and I'm feeling flat. :rolleyes:
Still feeling :goodluck: but wish Monday would hurry up. I NEED TO KNOW ALREADY. :pray:
Feeling really really tired the last few days, could curl up under my desk right now.
Had some cake this morning (not good) and feeling bloated so I"m not on my best game today.
Sunbeam, I had a beautiful dream about a baby boy a few weeks before my last FET. woke up so happy.
:crossfingers: for you ferrals
Goodluck Cherrished Hopefully good news all round this month
:hug: milly but did you see the 65 year old woman on the news. there's always hope
Hi to everyone else hope you're all having great wednesday.
Three days till girls night at my place (yayayaya) good to have a distraction.....
OMG I'm freeking out!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I have a yellow brownish discharge.... this is what started last time............. oh does this mean no baby????????????????
I phoned the clinic and they said it could be normal. NORMAL what nothing should come out of there for nine months..........
Any calming words.. :cry:
Sorry hon I dont know how that all works but hope you are ok xx :hug: Your feelings sound very positive so :crossfingers: for you
Greenslw my friend stay calm that will be best for everyone :hug:
Greenslw-dont jump the gun yet it could very well be baby settling in to your uterus lining you hear about people spotting even bleeding in early pregnancy as things take hold and settle in.
I had a shocker day at work today i was on the verge of tears all day very hormonal i never usually get this bad when RB due every time my mum spoke to me i had to walk away so i wouldn't cry (WHAT IS WRONG WITH ME) has anyone felt like this in early pregnancy i havn't with previous pregnancies so i'm at a loss my mothers only comment to me was that's life and you will fall pregnant when your body is ready (REAL COMFORTING MUM)
I worked out how to add my bbt chart.
greenslw - it's possible that it's implantation? Apparently that can cause some discharge. Or, there are women who have a period right through pregnancy. I hope so much that it's one of those two things for you. You are in my :pray: :hug:
ferrals - I was like that when I was preg before Easter. Crying over ads on TV even. It was terrible. I can't remember how bad it was with my first two pregs but know that I was an emotional roller coaster then as well.
Yay still no RB (AF) & my temp is still high... keeping my fingers crossed! :pray::crossfingers:
[B]:phi ya all of you im new, from uk where is everyone from then?
i had a misscarage in aug 08 and still trying now had 2 spells done(yes im mad lol) u will try anythink
does anyone no any good tablets for male and female to try when trying for a babym
i had a dc when had misscarage .
i have just looked all over the net and found these
menevit,for him
and some think called viex or some think for me,
some times gets me down i cry every time i come on my period think why me i got preg before no problem i have a 9 year old daughter to,
get back to me and wow what a lovley site:redface:
Morning ladies i wont say it's good RB is here right on cue like clock work i woke this morning and my temp is still high 36.8 but went to the loo and there it was brown cm so i guess i'm doing it all again this month.
Cherished- i hope RB doesn't turn up for you :crossfingers:
Smallfryplus-well it's not pregnant hormones i've never been so pms before i hope that doesn't happen again it was terrible.
jenny- welcome and sorry that you are here but the girl's are great and we are all after the same thing a BFP and a healthy baby my DH takes menevit and zinc and vitamin c i take elevit, vitex, iodine and extra folic tablet's and i don't drink caffine DH still doe's (naughty boy) and i'm an aussie girl
Greenslw-what's happening today is everything ok?
ferrals - I was hoping so much that it was early preg hormones making you like that. So sorry that it wasn't.
jenny - welcome to the community :) I always wish I was meeting people in here for different reasons but if any of us can help you as much as I've felt helped in here then it makes things a bit better. (does that make sense?!?!) I'm in Melbourne, Aus.
cherished - that is great news! :pray: (ps. how did that loaf turn out?!)
greenslw - how are you this morning? Anything further on yesterday?
sunbeam - you gave me a great idea... vegie soup last night for dinner and it was soooo good :) the house smells divine this morning too!
:hello: milly, coco, anila, mrzbaby hope you all have a fabulous day!
:stickyvibesgirl: :stickyvibesboy: for everyone!! Think we could all do with some good news in here!
Ferrals GOD DAM RB so sorry honey * BIG HUGS*
Smallfryplus :leap: it was the BEST BREAD EVER!!!! just perfect! Big heavy load but when I cut it it's light soft and moist inside, the linseed throughout it looks amazing and spelt bread is just so yummy anyway (little sweeter than normal wheat flour) and the crust is perfect too, not too soft not too hard.. What winner :D I even took a photo and put it on our forum(I mean the forum which dh and i have which is jsut for us... dh made it, it's FANTASTIC cause we can keep track of stuff under heaps of different catagories eg work, house, holidays, family ie ttc lol and heaps of other stuff like finances etc... we LOVE it) :backtotopic: bread was great!
:welcome: jenny I think most of us are from Australia :)
I just got the worst new's my genetic councilor rang to tell me the genetic specialist and the professor of the fetal medicine unit at royal the north shore want to see DH and i on the 10th of june as they got abbi's D.N.A test's back and the final autopsy report it look's like we are carrier's of a gene faut that caused our daughter's abnormalities they will test us and try to find the gene responsible then when we fall pregnant again they will do a C.V.S and see if that baby is also effected we are devastated we can have healthy children to our ex's but not each other i called in sick to work as i am crying and cant stop what do we do risk having a baby together or give up we have a 1 in 4 chance each pregnancy:crying::crying::crying::crying::crying:
Ferrals - that is such a tragedy. I'm so sorry for you and DH. Is the gene detectable in the frosties before putting them in? :comfort:
oh ferrals4 I just don't know what to say... In the week that I found out that I had lost the bub, before I had the D&C I dreamt every night something awful and one of them was that dh & I carried a gene fault exactly like what you are talking about... but it's actually happening to you :hug:... I was very upset about it for days and I woke up crying that night
:hug: ferrals I am so sorry for your bad news. Day off work sounds like a good thing. DH around for cuddles?
Me No more sign of any colour really since last night, keep thinking I feel something but when I go to the loo nothing. Who knows. Last time that's how my MC started a bit of yellow in the morning (thought it was from the pesaries) then clots and clumps of brown I think it just brought back all the trauma. After all I haven't tested yet and who know's what's up there :pray: for the best.
Really crampy today, not like last time either kind of random spots of pain like someone has a pointy stick in my belly (both sides at different times) then my side aches then I want to spew, then nothing.
Normally when AF is arriving I really look for a BD with DP and haven't done that either. So :crossfingers: Still all the signs, especially the sence of smell, I can notice bad breath at 20 paces. (not good at a meeting I tell you) blah
So I'm still playing the waiting game until Monday DP is off to his place in the countrey this weekend, so I am the house to myself and my sister in law is coming over for a girls night. Was hoping DP would stay but he and step son have a cold so happy they and their germs are out....
I feel a bit of a goose for yesterday, I really apreciate being able to vent and share with you all as not many people know what I'm going through :grouphug:
Ferrals - I have PM'ed you:
WTH x
Hi Everyone,
sounds like there's a lot going on in this thread, so i wish those of you waiting, good luck, and ferrals, just want to say thinking of you, and hope you're able to take the time out you need to get your head around it all.
Here's my story:
Had a m/c 29th April at 11w, but bub was only 6w2d, had positive and rising hcg results last Friday so thought i was pregnant again by accident, but af came on sunday so that was a no go too. had another hcg test today so waiting for the results now just to make sure that it has gone down and there is nothing else going on. so i guess in the space of 4 weeks i've had 2 m/c's and i can't quite get my head around that somehow.
has anyone else experienced anything similar?
As my body never really got a chance to recover from the first m/c b4 we may be been pregnant again, we're thinking to wait for another cycle before ttc again, although i desperately want to be pregnant again and am having a rather emotional day today.
not really sure what else I wanted to say here!?!?!??!
just have to wait for my results and see what happens. I was reading this thread and saw some of you mention that some women have periods through pregnancy so now somewhere deep down, i'm maybe hoping for that to be the case with me. I know it's a long shot and i really am clutching at straws, but i guess untill you really know it's completely over, there's always that small shimmer of doubt. Although I also temp which has gone down, so i really don't think it's at all possible.
anyways, hi to all, hope you're having an ok day and glad that you're all here to support eachother.
take care
jules
Smallfryplus- we havn't got to that stage yet we will wait and see what they say on the
10th of june from what i know so far abbi's abnormalities were because of a faulty gene we carrie they think they know what syndrome or disorder she had but need to test DH and i to look at those gene's that cause it if they find what they think it is well then they can test embryos if we do ivf or fetus if we concieve natrually we have decided not to go ivf we will try twice natrually and if we don't get a healthy baby out of two then with abbi that makes 3 so we will give up as it is to heart breaking
Cherised1-DH is at work my mum is comming over this arvo and sister has already been over to see me i just cant believe it could happen to us after losing abbi and now this.
Greenslw-thankyou i couldn't go to work my eye's are burning i have rang the hospital for a councilor where i had abbi for some help i feel in shock i just want to pinch myself and wake up my fingers are still crossed for you.
ferrals :comfort: I am so upset for you, I have tears streaming down my face. hang in there, we are all there for you xoxo
ferals, :hug: hope you are ok sweetheart. Sending you some warm fuzzies. xxx Eliza
Ok i've calmed down my mum and DH have said don't panic wait to find out what syndrome/disorder we carry and then look into our options my DH even mentioned looking into IVF where they test embryo's before they implant them but at 4000 a go i'm not to sure if that's possible i used a lot of our savings when i had time off with abbi and the cost's we spent on 2nd opinion ultrasounds and extra tests and petrol cost's to and from RNS daily the cremation (the list goe's on) but i just want to say thankyou for your kind word's everyone this has been a terrible day and i just feel lost and don't know what to do i have my heart set on a baby with the man of my dreams he is my life and i want nothing more than to give him a healthy baby.
I hope everyone had a better day than me and i will do some persies tomorrow sorry to be so self absorbed i'm going to soak in the bath
Ferrals I think that sounds like a good idea, good to know all your facts. But don't forget the medicare rebate on IVF. I only Paid 200 for my last FET because we're over the 1500 already. (80% back) :) so that may help your choices. Glad you've got some supports and a counsellor is always good, they are there just for you.
Welcome Jules WA sounds like you've had a big month Welcome.
Cherrished, I'm so jelous about the bread, I'm a bit gluten intolerant but do enjoy nice bread (then suffer) but some days it's worth it. good to hear no AF for you :goodluck:
SmallfryPlus I agrea on the good news time
Welcome Jenny
Been looking at implantation bleeds on the net and not sure when this happens 6-12 after ovulation but how bout 12 after FET? so confusing but all is stopped so still could be........ :pray:
Greenslw there are heaps of lovely breads which are gluten free and lots of bread maker recipes too if you are interested
oh ferrals hunni, all i can do if offer a shoulder to cry on an ear to listen and arms to hug. I hope they can find a way to make a baby happen for u and hubby.
greenslw - implantation is that long after ovulation so I would guess it should be similar with FET? Or maybe not quite as long since it doesn't have to travel down fallopian tubes. I'm not familiar with FET myself so don't really know... just searching for an answer, which I'm sure you're doing even more than I am.
juleswa - hi and :welcome: I never realised until joining this group how often this sort of thing happens in the world. It's a misery of a place this world. I hope that you find some comfort here. Someone was saying a few weeks back that they fell pregnant within a few weeks of mc so it is possible. However, I've also seen somewhere that you can return positive preg tests for some weeks after mc so perhaps that's what it was for you? I agree with sunbeam though, wait til tests come back.
ferrals - I'm glad you're feeling calmer. I think the initial shock of anything is always the hardest part to bear. Once you get through that you can start to see your options and understand things clearer. It doesn't necessarily make it easier, just clearer. This place is the best place to vent everything out, as you said, it's hard when you haven't told many people what's going on. :grouphug:
sunbeam - no idea what's going on with your posts. Mine go up as soon as I hit post so apparently no moderator (unless somehow I'm just getting through all the time!! ) don't take it personally though cos computers can be pretty sucky at times.
To all the other precious ladies in here, I hope tomorrow brings better things than today for all of us. Sleep well :)
Im having a dud of an evening, it started as a good day, hubby had yet another day off due to the rain, so got some bd in again, then we decided to go to the shops, the kids all needed new pjs and 3 of them needed new undies, my budget was $100, but wow, 2 pairs of pjs each and a pack of undies, and i spent $151.
Any way, all i saw all day were baby things and pregnant women, i had a moment of that should be me, and got a little emotional.
Then my beautiful trouble maker emme, just kept taking off and not listening and hubby was getting frustrated and so was i, then the afternoon went all sour, and now hubby and i are having a mini fight, :(.
I have had some weird cramping all day, then tonight it got a bit more painful, its all along the bottom tummy line, so i have no idea what it is, if it was with ewcm then i would say o, but i have no cm at all.
And just now i have a stabbing pain in my boobie, and wow that hurts!
I am cd17 today usually o cd19, just :pray: that i still do!
and this weird cramping pain, still going on.
sorry its all me tonight.
:bfp::cheer::hooray::bfp::bump::bfp::happyforyou:
:leap:
OMG I CAN'T BELIEVE IT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Congratulations Cherished! I am sooooo happy for you! That is just fantastic news!!! When are you going to the doc for a bloodtest? Ask for a referral to have an early scan to hopefully reassure you, I know it helped me heaps! Just the best news YAY!
Cherished1- WOW!!!!! that is so awesome congradulations you did it.
Ok i am also confused with my body yesterday i woke up with brown cm and since then nothing but watery cm DH and i DTD the night before brown cm maybe we upset somthing being to rough i just asumed RB was here now this morning my temp is still high at 36.83 and still watery cm i'm scared i am pregnant now after yesterdays news maybe i scared RB away with shock.
Thanks-Anila,sunbeam,smallfryplus and everyone .
Cherised1-i still can't believe one of us got the BFP
http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/21ef3c
Thanks so much beautiful girls! I was in shock when after 5 mins there was no doubt about it.... there were 2 lines on my pg stick! When I get home from work at lunch time I will be making an OB appointment for 8 weeks (he already told me when I had the m/c in March that I could go in early next time).... I will also be making an appointment to see the dr for bloods... I will probably go in there next week for the referal but then only get them done just before the OB visit so that the levels will give me more of an idea that everything is OK when I see the OB.
YAY I am jsut soooooooooooooo excited, can't believe it!!! :dance:
Ferrals honey I love you xoxoxoxo and thanks lovely erybery my old belly buddy xoxoxoox
Wow Cherrished CONGRATS :dance: and ps would love the bread recipies, I really do miss my carbs especially when TWW. But wow good on you :D
:crossfingers: for you Ferals hopefully it was implantation for both of us
:hug: Anila hope you feel better today.
Thanks for your research to SmallFryPlus There are just too many sights aren't there
Sunbeam I am so hopeful for a BFP this Monday DP is off for the weekend and I didn't want to let him go this morning even if he did keep me up all night with his cold (caugh, spit, grumble etc etc) but he'll be back for the good news :pray: Seams like all our bodies are being odd at the moment. Maybe it's good odd ;)
YAY
cherished
CONGRATULATIONS!!
that is awesome news
so very happy for you
:clap::dance::clap:
:D:DYay yay yay cherished that is fantastic news I'm so excited for you :dance::happyforyou:
Sending you lots of :bluedust::stickyvibesgirl: