Trying to conceive after Miscarriage or Loss May 2009

My mini fight with hubby last night became a big fight at 1.30 in the morning and cause he was very loud, he woke up some kids, poor grace said to me this morning that she heard us, i feel so bad, he was doing the yelling not me.
Everything just got made into something bigger than what it really is, and the stress of the last few weeks just took over i think.
I was telling my mum about it this morning and the first thing she said, is maybe u shouldnt have any more kids, im like it was a verbal fight, many people have them, im just so frustrtaed, grrrrrr!!!

and i dont think i have o yet but i keep thinking i might be pregnant, i wish my brain would stop that cause ill be very upset if af comes next week.

Hi Everyone,

CONGRATULATIONS CHERISHED. That is fantastic news Wishing you a H&H pregnancy!

Well, i'm over and out. Ob just rang and my hcg levels are negligable, so it's back to the drawing board i guess. I figured that anyways, as I did a preg test this morning again and it was negative. I really didn't expect it to survive the period i just had but you guys know that you always cling to any sign of hope there is. She managed to put my mind at rest cause I've been doing too much reading on the net and had conviced myself that there was something more sinister going on - molar pregnancy, carcinomas - you name it i reckon i had it?!?!? was doing my head in, but she's very thorough and ensures me that nothing bad is going on. she's basically leaving it up to me if i want to ttc again this month, but did hint it might be better to wait a month, both for my physical and mental wellbeing.
so......will continue to track my cycle this month with temp and opk, and hope for some luck next month.
hope you're all doing well and again CONGRATULATIONS TO CHERISH!

thanks
Jules

Thanks girls! OMG I am just soooooo excited! Still can't believe it! Just got home from work and the line is still on the stick! :dance: I Just made the ob appointment, I could have gone in at 7 weeks (as they take 8 weeks as being from the 1st day of your last period) BUT because I really ovulated a week later I knew I would 'really' only be 7 weeks... SO I told them I ovulated late and that I wanted to go in when the fetus is 'really' 8 weeks because we lost the last one at 8 weeks 3 days..... In many ways I want to go in straight way / as soon as possible but I know I would worry about loosing them at 8 weeks if I did go in early, so if I get the scan done at 8 weeks I will be able to relax knowing everything is fine!

Sorry for a selfish post I am just too excited to think of anything else although I do feel for everyone having a hard time... I love you all and me getting a BFP so soon after the m/c just shows you all that it can happen so please don't give up hope... Now I just pray that everything will be fine with this little on :pray:

juleswa big hugs for you honey :hug: and Anila only you know if you heart if you should be having more children with your husband :hug:

Ok i have an update i got a call from the prof at R.N.S they are sending tissue samples off for testing for a certain enzym to get a more definate answer as what syndryome abbi had the 1st is SMITH LEMI OPITZ SYNDROME the other is PALLISTER HALL SYNDROME the first is from mutated gene's that the parent's carry with a 1 in 4 chance it will happen in each pregnancy and the other would be a 1 off new mutation which means we wouldn't be carrier's or it could be somthing similar to those as they said her abnormalities were so servere they are trying as quick as they can to get an answer for us and the genetic councilor is very interested to know the out come as it is very rare so god i hope they get an answer and it's the pallister hall syndrome if it's the other they can't test for it in ivf embryos but they can through cvs at 11 week's.

congrats again cherished

yeah we will be ok, just like i said everything just got on top of him, we want more kids, its what both our hearts wants, he is just really scared of me getting my hopes up and having another mc.

but i think i may have o after all, i was having heaps of weird pain last night cd 17, and today cd 18 i had a small amount of clear ewcm, so i hope that means im at 1 dpo, i usually o cd 19, so its prtetty close!!
we dtd yesterday so fingers crosssed we got that egg!

hi ferrals i didnt see ur post before.

i hope they can get the answer for you soon, i wish you all the best hun.

cherished!!!! THAT IS SO FANTASTIC!!!! wow :) really really happy for you :) Can't wipe the grin off my face and am even teary over it all it's such a good thing!!

ferrals - I really hope it's the latter option for you and that you come back with the :bfp: next week and that everything is safe and well and happy. Good news happens in threes apparently, just like bad news so maybe you and greeenslw are going to come out with :bfp: news after the weekend! That would be so great!!! Just when I'll be starting my TWW!!!! ARGH! It's killing me already! and maybe you're right - that the brown cm was just due to DTD... sometimes that happens with me too.

anila - it'll be ok. You've both been through some pretty huge stress and it's can be hard taking kids out shopping. Don't know about your DH but mine doesn't cope with it real well and we only have 2.

Juleswa - maybe a month off trying would be best. After I MC I waited a month (two parts to that really though cos it was actually too painful physically for me for some reason).

PS. Cherished, now is SO your time to be selfish!! don't apologise for it :D

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THANKS!!! Anila & Smallfry still no RB every time i go to the loo it's just normal cm so i don't know i don't feel like it's comming but what was the brown cm yesterday and i am feeling more positive that they will find what syndrome abbi had so they can test the next baby early a 1 in 4 is a 25% chance of an effected baby a 75% chance of a normal baby we will just cross that bridge when we get to it

Cherished- I still can?t stop smiling about your great news. It does give me great hope especially as it?s so soon after the m/c. :dance:

Greenslw- I have everything crossed for you for Monday and will be waiting with baited breath for your post.:crossfingers:

Anila- sorry you and hubby fought it?s the one area I guess my situation is different. In a way I?m lucky it?s a stress I don?t have to contend with being that I?m single (but on the flip side I also don?t get the loving support a partner can give, not to mention the joy of having a baby with the partner of your dreams). You are totally right, couples fight, but it?s no reason not to have more children and fulfill your hearts desires.

Juleswa- so sorry to hear you?re your news I was hoping for the best for you. I know a month off sounds good in theory but I also understand the huge desire to be pregnant again asap, we all do.

Ferrrals4- I?m really hoping you get the best news very soon from the genetic tests and a BFP to go with it.:comfort:

My temp is back down to 36.4 again so basically my chart now looks like a 2 hump camel!!!! What the?!? Since the ewcm I?ve been feeling a bit more like DTD so have started doing OPKs again today, nothing showing yet.

Did some major window and wall cleaning and it brought on AF so i am on time in my cycle and i'm ok with it because it will be good to get to see the genetisist first and know where we stand and what test's and option's we have when we do get pregnant so i hope i havn't gone on and on to much about it i'm just trying to reasure myself that it will all work out.

Sunbeam-i have a single friend at work who just found out she is pregnant with donor serm through IVF are you doing the IVF way or natrual way if you don't mind me asking just thought your donor will need to be on call so to speak when it's time to ov.

Smallfryplus-Nah hun not my month you get to put up with me a bit longer.

Greenslw-I can't wait to see your BFP flashing here on monday.

Juleswa-welcome to this thread sorry i took my time just had a bad couple of day's with some not so good news hope you get your BFP soon.

Anila-when a couple is under stress every little thing can turn into major drama i know we are trying to move to a new house clean the old one organise one son's major operation on his ear also juggle these genetic appointment's in sydney (i have been to a few )and we work full time and trying to BD in all this to have a baby it can be stressfull and it seems there is no end to it all but if it means a baby in my arms i will do what it take's i have to bite my tongue and walk away a lot other wise we would be having argument's to so hang in there and just think of what you are trying to achieve.

Cherished-I still can't believe it woohoo!!!!

Thanks everyone...
:hello: ferrals, Sunbeam, Smallfryplus.

Ferrals so sorry af came, but as u said, it will be good to find out everything u can, so u know how to deal with it all, iykwim.

well hubby is making up for it now, pizza for t, ice cream, chocolate, and he said no more fighting, so lets hope we get some make up nookie as i definatly think i am oing!

I asked my mum, if she thought after a mc would o hurt and she said she thought it could, and the timing is right, so just hope we get that egg!!
Mum took me out for some retail therapy, and i started the girls birthday shopping, even though they have 4 yrs between them, they are 5 days apart, lol.
So my little ponys for bailea and littlest pet shop vip on line for grace!!
and only 8 days till my birthday, im feeling it already...

ferrals - so positive about it all. I admire you. Of course, you're totally right, the stress of being pg now and not knowing the results with abbi would be pretty huge. So as much as I'm sad for you, you're right, it's best. ps. happy to put up with you for as long as it takes us both!!

anila - I love the retail shopping. I did that with my two girls today. First with little one after school went in and then after school with both of them. New shoes and some clothes for each of them. Amazing bargains, I love DFO :D brownie points for your hubby with dinner etc. tonight :)

Now there's a question - when a person does fall pregnant, what's the rules on staying in this forum? I feel sad at the thought of not being part of this group when the time comes. I'm not real familiar with it all here. I know the preg tickers are out and that's not a prob, that's fine, just wondering if we have to leave or are allowed to stay still and support friends.

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well things are looking up :D
so pizza arrives the delivery dude rattles off all the pizzas we ordered (3) and we get to the kitchen and they are all wrong, so as we were deciding what to do the pizza store called and said that there was a mix up and the delivery dude left before they could change it, he said he would remake our pizza and give a full refund and throw in a bottle of softdrink, so i was happy with that, then i said what should we do with the ones we have now, he said eat them freeze them or chuck them, i said hey i have 5 kids, they will get eaten, so he says in that case ill swap the drink for some magnums for ur kids to eat :D so we ended up with 6 pizzas and 6 magnums (1 box) for free!!!
so we had a great dinner and will be having a great lunch as well.

and hubby and i had cuddles on the lounge so looking all good tonight!!
and he is excited about potentially getting a bfp this cycle.

hahahahaha Anila, I want your pizza shop!! don't care if it's almost 2,000km away from me!!!

ok, I'm off to make choc cherry hedgehog and coconut ice with minimallows and chocolate base... decadence reigns this weekend.

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hahahahaha Anila, I want your pizza shop!! don't care if it's almost 2,000km away from me!!!

ok, I'm off to make choc cherry hedgehog and coconut ice with minimallows and chocolate base... decadence reigns this weekend.

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lol, hmm sweets sound nice :D

ok silly question but do u get ewcm before or after o, as i had the o pain yesterday and today but only small amount of ewcm today?

(I'm still here... haha haven't started making stuff yet...)

ewcm should be just before ovulating. Have just recently signed up to fertility friend and have joined the class on fertility. I can't believe I'm learning stuff I didn't know! :redface: but it is very useful. (not that I think I know everything but there's a lot more to falling pregnant than I realised - both times I have successfully done it, I wasn't trying - now that I am trying... I can't seem to work it out! :()

hehehe my verification words for this post are 'crabbily that' so me!!!

hmmm ok then if its before o, then when are o pains? are they before or after, im so confused, i had pains yesterday and today but only little ewcm today, so i dont know exactly when o is, iykwim, lol.

the good news is that lesson 5 (which just arrived in my inbox!) is titled "all about cervical fluid" :) I'll read it and sum it up for you if I can!

Have decided to quote instead
"? In a typical menstrual cycle, cervical fluid starts out scant and dry just after menstruation, becoming sticky or pasty, then creamy before the more fertile, watery and egg white fluid is observed when you are most fertile around ovulation. After ovulation, cervical fluid is again scant and dry.
? Ovulation usually occurs around the last day that fertile quality cervical fluid is observed. This is often called the "peak" day."

Ok, nothing in this lesson about ovulation pain but I always thought pretty much what you seem to think - that the pain happens when the egg is released. Of course, this means that the egg still has a bit of distance to travel but I always assumed that the journey was relatively painless. That could be due to the words used to describe ovulation - rupturing follicles!

Anyway, hope that has helped a little. If you haven't signed up, those lessons are actually really useful - they're free too which is even better. They get emailed one every day and because it's a US website, I get them in the evening which is perfect for me cos I can then sit down and have a read and relax.

Good luck!!! Sounds like we'll be on TWW together :) I'll personally be very happy for the company! I'm due to ovulate in the next 48 hours according to a 'normal person' cycle but think I usually ovulate several days later than that so I may not until mid week. Which means we won't quite be on the same TWW but it'll be close.

:loveshower: (this is currently my fave emoticon - I must be in a really good mood - or be loved up!)

Morning beautiful girls :D Smallfry & Anila, ovulation pain can start a few days before ovulation and hang around for 24-36 hours after ovulation or it can start sooner and finish later... Some cycles I hardly feel anything at ovulation time but this last cycle it was so painful I would not have bd if we weren't ttc due to how sore it was down there. For me I found OPK test sticks great because it lets you know when the surge (ovulation) is about to happen, for me it is usually 1-2 days later. EW CM is also a good indicator. I hope that has helped in some way :)

Smallfry I'm getting into 'fresh' bread this morning... That same recipe and it's wonderful... I set the timer for it to be ready at 6am and it's just so great! Greenslw did you get the PM with the recipe... I tried to PM you too smallfry but I wasn't allowed to, maybe you need to make more posts?

AFM I've got MIL coming for morning tea so I'd better mop the floors! and I was VERY HAPPY to wake up this morning feeling nauseas and starving YAY at least that is one symptom.... Have a great day everyone xoxoxo

Morning ladie's well the spotting has stopped again iv'e had it twice in 2 day's when on the loo and then nothing when i get my AF they usually just hit with a vengence then they are gone i'm thinking it could be the stress of moving ,abbi, and the fact that my DH is working in sydney 12 hr shirft's so i have to do all the packing and cleaning and organise the move the truck, elec, phone,foxtel,ect anyway i refuse to do another test as i have spotted so i know i can't be pregnant.
And that's somthing that was on my mind to what happen's when we do get pregnant i don't want to leave you girl's

HI ladies!!!!
so many posts in just a couple of days ....
forgive me if I may have missed some of them. Just a quick note, so hello to everyone!!!!

CONGRATULATIONS CHERISHED!!!! That is so exciting and such wonderful news. Sending a big hug and super sticky vibes your way.

Ferrals - a big hug for you, and good luck for your upcoming appointment. Thinking of you.

Anila - my recent ov, the first after m/c was SO PAINFUL, and some uterine cramps too, they settled down after ov, but they were around for good couple of days. I think it must be just everything getting back into shape/order after the m/c.

Hello to the new ladies, and hello to the regulars. :grouphug:

Hey Cherished, thanks for the info on ovulation pain. I've often wondered because I can sometimes get it for several days and other times just for a day or a few hours.

does anyone get nauseous with ovulation?? I nearly always do, sometimes really bad but never to the point of actually chucking up.

WOOHOOOO!! I just realised I don't have to enter the verification words anymore :) I must have hit quota of posts!!

Have woken up with an ill 6yr old this morning. She seems ok now but woke me during the night with a fever and now is a bit congested. Guess that changes the weekends plans now! We were supposed to go visit a gf for lunch and playtime with her kids (I even made slices last night!) but don't want to infect hers as her kiddies are younger than mine and it's miserable having sick children, you feel so helpless.

Not sure if I have ovulated or not. EWCM seems to have disappeared overnight but even if I go by a textbook cycle I shouldn't ovulate til today sometime. Normally I don't ovulate until around CD17ish. I feel another month wait coming on. :( HA I don't want another month wait because that will mean that I will be due the same time next year as the exes new wife had her baby this year. I don't want to have a baby celebrating birthday the same time his does. Though at the same time, I also don't want to wait another 2 or 3 months to fall preg :( argh!!!!

Good morning everyone
Hope you all had a good night
thanks for all the info, Smallfryplus, cherished and milly, and hi to ferrals.

Milly, this was my first o after the mc and yeah it was definatly very painful, and i thought it was my imagination, but it also thought i was having like contraction like cramps too. So i hope it has all worked it self out and i can get on with getting that egg. I barely have any cm, but im not sure if that has to do with age and the fact i have had so many kids, and im breaking out in pimples, i did that last cycle as well.
Smallfryplus, i do get a little ill feeling also when i am ovulating, i thought it was just me, lol. I hope your day gets better, and ur 6 yr old feels better also.
It will be good having a tww buddy, just have to pin point the excact day of o, but its either thur fri or sat, so im either 1 or 2 dpo, i think.
and this may sound a little tmi, but it was soo late at night last night, i really wasnt in the mood to dtd, so i said hubby could have a free one, and way we decided to do doggy so he would be closer to the cervix, and i felt really sore and tender in there, im hoping either that that it was just due to the mc, or my cervix was ready for the it, iykwim :redface:

anyway i hope everyone is having a good day so far
and has anyone heard from flowerchild? hope she is doing well.

Gees girls I don't turn the computer on for one night and there's a trillion posts to catch up on, we are a chatty lot:lol:.

Got to get ready to go out so just a quickie.

Ferrals4- my donor daddy is a friend, he only lives 1/2 hour away so when I know I'm o'ing I just call him and tell him its time. He rocks up before work, does his thing, goes off to work and I inseminate myself. We usually do 2 -3 inseminations depending on my temps. He's really lovely though a bit clueless about all the fertility stuff, as you might expect for a gay man. I made him a really funny book called "A gay boy's guide to girly bits and making babies" so he knows a bit more than he did but I can?t give him too much info or he gets grossed out!

I've had no o pains or any more ewcm so no clues as to what my body's up to. It's been 4 weeks today since the m/c so maybe I just won't o, who knows:dunno:! Don't think I'll be doing the TTW with you Milly5.

Hope you all have a lovely weekend. Been very ggod with my diet so I get french toast for breakfats tomorrow ;)

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I made him a really funny book called "A gay boy's guide to girly bits and making babies"

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That is so funny!!! and after you publish it you can then edit it slightly - with help from us here at BB so we can then give it to our partners!!! LOL

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That is so funny!!! and after you publish it you can then edit it slightly - with help from us here at BB so we can then give it to our partners!!! LOL

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:lol:Hehehe it would be pretty perfect, it's very male focussed as it's only 12 pages long:lol:

Cherished 1 :leap::confetti::leap::confetti::thumbsup: sent you a message you clever thing!!!

Ferrals4: Hun thoughts and wishes with you and your DH. Hoping for the best outcome for you.

AFM: Well my cousin had her baby this morning :( not doing as well as I thought I would about it.
I had spoken to mum about how i was felling beofre she had it and she said she wouldn't make a big thing about it and that if I didn't want to visit then it would be ok.
Well it was Mum who rang to tell me and then i had to go really quickly told her this...rang her back and she was like oh are you ok, how are you.....I'm like what are you on about...she is like the bay ....I said yeah thats good glad she and bub are ok what else do you want me to say ...Mum said well you could call and say congrats!!!!!!!!.............Me: fuming angry yelling voice in my head says : what congrats that you smoked and drank throughout your whole pregnancy and you got to have a healthy baby!!!!!!!!!!!!.....I just said yeah bit busy will ring in a few days.......

I have not stopped crying...it is pouring rain has been for days.....feeling really blah.


Anyhow enough of me .......has anyone seen Jen??????????

Em

Happy weekend Ladies :D

I just dropped my step son at his mum and I"m relaxing with some yummy bread, cup of honey lemon drink (my new coffee) and catching up on all the goss.

Had the BEST sleep DP was away and no caughing was bliss. Miss him but not when he has a 'mancold"

Sunbeam, I love your book, I taught sexed to year 10's I bet they could use one of those too. can you tell me about the temp thing? can you use this with IVF too?:lol:

Anila, I love that term "free one" sometimes you've just goto, I feel alot of pressure during BD atm and afte I O it makes me feel sick. wonder what it means,

Smallfryplus I really hope things happen in 3's too :crossfingers:

Cherished I got your recipe Thank you :hug: will give it a go I'm sure it will be yummy. Glad you're embrasing your symptoms it's worth it when it's real :D

Ferrals, did you do a PT? or is it too soon, still got my :crossfingers: for you with your doctors appointment

MrzBaby :hug: Some days life is too hard, teers are good for the soal. Send some rain to me k... It's still dry under my mulch

Hmmmm a question about CM does it continue during pregnancy?

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hey there Greenslw :D

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Hmmmm a question about CM does it continue during pregnancy?

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i was always under the impression that it does, i dont remember my other pregnancies as i never took noitice, but my recent one, i didnt have any at all, actually i had heaps at around o, then none with the bfp, and none since i lost the baby either.

and i so here u on the man cold, lol, my hubby has one and the couching, plezzz make it stop, its not nice ladies cough, its horrid man one, lol.

Hi everyone - just a quick post.

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Hmmmm a question about CM does it continue during pregnancy?

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For me it did - alot - I remember running to the toilet several times because it would come out in a real flowing gush. Others I had spoken to have also said it did for them.

Oh yes, and man cold .........................

Afternoon ladie's
I'm still packing and cleaning YUK!!!!

Greenslw- yes i have done a pt and it was a BFN i spotted for 2 days then nothing so i don't think i am AF is just late cause i'm stressed i think and when i was pregnant i had lot's of cm.

Sunbeam- LOL you made me laugh i had a visual of you with a turkey baster but i think it's fantastic what you and your donor daddy are doing good luck and the book what a great idea.

Mrzbaby-sweet i know how hard it is and the last thing you want to do is to congradulate someone who has done all the wrong things and had a baby i am dreading when my sister inlaw has her baby it will shatter me.

Anila-after a few mths of trying to get pregnant with abbi we did doggy every time for somthing different and we got pregnant that mth so hope it works and it sounds like DH is ok with the TTC again told you he would come around.

Anyway as my AF just wont show and keeps me guessing im going to have my way with my man as he is home tonight (YIPPEEEE!!!)and we will bring them on .

Hi my lovlies

MrzBaby it is just sooooo annoying when someone even gets pg and has a baby who wasn't trying to or if they abuse their body while they are pg :angry:

Ferrals I thought you must have had AF as your ticker is on CD1? Hope you did get is soon then...

Hello to everyone else and thank you all so much for all of your support, I love you all and :pray: that I have given you all hope that it can happen again so soon after a m/c or a D&C and I can't wait to hear about all of your BFP's really soon. I was brave last night and joined my belly buddy thread but I will drop back in here from time to time to see how you all are. :grouphug:

Cherished - how long ago was your m/c? if you don't mind me asking. i'm having the old do we ttc again straight away, or wait a month debate.

Hello ladies :hello:,

Greenslw- many of us follow our temp rises and falls so we know when we are most likely to ovulate and therefore need to BD. I'm not sure you'd need to with IVF as the hormones they'd be giving you would affect your temps and they'd be controlling when they transfer eggs or embryos. Is that what you were asking? Let me know if I've misunderstood.

Mrzbaby- I know how horribly unfair it feels when someone who takes no care of themselves falls pregnant and has a trouble free pregnancy with no effort at all :wall:.

Personally am really trying to practise embracing life in what ever form as my holistic naturopath clinic encourages positivity as much as possible as it is best for our bodies and minds. Often soooo much easier said than done.

A freind of mine fell pregnant within days of me and we were so excited about being pregnant together and planned to go to pregnancy yoga. I have decided to do the yoga with her still (if they'll let me while not pregnant) in the hope that pregnancy pheromones will waft around me and help me conceive :) I know it will be hard seeing her get bigger knowing I'd be the same if I had not m/c but I am still so happy for her because she's had a horrible journey too losing her precious girl at 16 weeks pregnant and taking over 18 months to get pg again.

Cherished1-yeh i thought AF had started to they cant make up there mind spotting 3 times now but nothing else i will change my ticker tomorrow if AF turns up

Jules I've turned off my ticker in this thread, it has my charts on it from fertility friend... I will pm you :P But to answer the question I had the D&C on March 20th and started charting straight away and ttc than I ovulated, got AF, ovulated again and now I am pregnant again, 7 weeks later YAY!!!! I AGONISED about how long to wait OMG it drove me INSANE... all I wanted was to be pregnant again, I'm sure you all know that feeling... Many people tell you to wait 3 months, others say to wait one cycle to let your lining build up again and the acupuncturist even said to wait 6 months (AS IF!) What I found out was that if you did happen to get pregnant straight after the D&C (without waiting to get AF first) the worst thing that could happen is your lining wouldn't be thick enough and you would m/c WITHOUT EVEN KNOWING IT... ie you would just get your period and be none the wiser (unless of course you took a very early pg test) So I thought what the heck I will start trying straight way. I am so happy that I am pregnant again so that all you girls have hope and know that it can happen... I wish 7 weeks ago I had read this post and know someone who had gotten pregnant again quickly. I'm not sure if you read my post yesterday (it might have been in another thread actually I can't remember) BUT the only thing different about this cycle was that I had HEAPS of fertile CM (WCM or EWCM) like 10 days worth, I usually only have 2-3 days worth... And the only thing which my body did differently was have a D&C 7 weeks ago and I had 2x bowen therapy treatments after that af... Apparently there is a move they do around the tail bone which can increase fertility.... Now I don't know if that is responsible for all the great fertile CM but it is worth a try for anyone who wants to give it a go HTH

Sunbeam I love your outlook you sound just like me... embrace everything! It really is liberating (for me anyway) to have health as my number one priority and to experience many natural therapies etc... It really is wonderful for mind body & soul

Hello everyone else... Ferrals I will be keeping an eye on you;)

Morning ladie's

Well last night seemed to work it made my spotting worse so i guess AF is here just really light maybe because i was so heavy last month.
I didn't sleep well last night i had looked up the two syndrome's that the genetisist think's abbi might have had the first is PALLISTER HALL SYNDROME the other is SMITH LEMLI OPITZ SYNDROME or a syndrome similar so i kept thinking what if we keep getting pregnant with affected babies what if we can't get pregnant again what if they recomend PGD IVF how can we afford that what if it dosn't work the first cycle then i started thinking how could it be possible that we might be carrier's there is no family history on either side and we have healthy kid's to our ex's then i started to think maybye we should give up our dream before we go through more pain and just get on with our lives and enjoy the kid's we have to our ex's.
so i didn't sleep real good anyway i hope you girl's enjoy the rest of your weekend i have to go to work at 2 until midnight so i will catch up with you all tomorrow.

oh ferrals honey come hear and let me give you a big hug :hug: You can get private health cover 'hospital only' and it covers IVF, it's cheaper without having 'extras' cover, if you want to look into it :) dh & I are with AHM,we are pretty happy with them and have been with them for about 18 months now HTH

Thanks cherished we are with nib but they dont cover ivf unless i take out a higher cover i will look into those tomorrow i'm off to work see ya in the morning .

Hi Ladies,
I'm sitting here with a PT and I'm not sure if i should or shouldn't. I've semi decided I should because I will find out results at work tomorrow and the old "want to be prepared" side of me is strong. If its BFP then yaya I get a BT tomorrow if it's BFN then I'll be ok when the BT confirms it. I am so confused. My DP is still away and didn't really want me to test at home. Being you can get false BFN...... ahhhh what to do....