Trying to Conceive after Miscarriage or Loss November 08
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It's almost 2009 so hopefully it will be so much better for many of us then 2008.
Ruthie - Hopefully your DH won't be out of work for too much longer. You've had yet another tough time. As I said 2008 is almost out so it's onto good times for you.
PLC - You only missed Jen by 10 minutes...... We tried so hard to keep you up. Maybe next time. for you and that special little one
WTH - for a little sticky one for you. Good on the transfer sounds positive.
To everybody I missed, I'll try for persies later, I need to organise dinner for this lot
Good morning lovely ladies! No, you're not imagining things....it's really ME! I know I've been a bit of a stranger lately.... I haven't forgotten any of you, you're all always in my thoughts and on my mind! Will do my very best to make up for my lack of persies lately!
Megsmum--C'mon little embie! Stick, stick!!!!! Sending you lots of You're at the top of my prayer list, cycle bud!!
Mannie--Have googled Endometriosis, because I wasn't sure what it was or what the symptoms were, but no, I'm pretty sure I don't have it. So sorry to hear about your ear infection--hope you feel better soon! *hugs*
Tam--Woo hoo! Great BT results!
AJC--Great song! I love Bob Marley--our black lab is named Marley! When I was pg with DS2 I listened to his CD's all the time--thought Noah would come out singing some Rasta jams! lol... After he was born I changed up one of the songs.... Instead of "No Woman No Cry" I would sing, "No, Noah, no cry"!
jackjack--I think the nutritionist and the accupuncture are a great idea. I've never done either, but many of the friends I've made here swear by them! Good luck!
Mel--My fingers are crossed that your TWW ends with a BFP!!
Melissa--Glad to hear your naturopath is so reassuring! You sound really positive and excited about TTC--wish you the best of luck! Sorry to hear about your UTI--those are awful, I had several after DS2 was born, and they're agony! *hugs* Hope you feel better soon!
Rachel S--Looks like things are progressing well for you and your little one! Bellyrubs and for you!
Ruthie--OMG, kidney stones are the WORST! Worse even than labor for me! I got a couple not long after DS2 was born and got SO sick... couldn't stop vomiting, it was awful. When I went in to have them blasted, I only weighed 95 lbs! I looked like death.... it was terrible! Hope the antibiotics help you feel better soon--you don't have to have them blasted do you? Sending lots of positive vibes and hugs your way--I know things are going to start looking up for you, hon--you'll see! I'm very intuitive, and I see things getting better for you very soon! *hugs*
tutmae--Congratulations on your baby girl! So happy for you! I always knew you were having a girl... I don't know why, but Yay! Woo freakin' hoo!!
Hannah--Hope you and your DH feel better soon! *hugs*
wouldloveabubba-- Sorry that you've had to join us, but since you have, I pray you find peace and comfort here among us! This is a great bunch of girls that know exactly what you've been through and are going through! Wishing you the best of luck with your IUI and your TTC journey! *hugs*
plc--Oh, man... only 10 minutes?? So close! OMG, just looked at your ticker--barely more than a month to go! Feeling anxious yet? *kiss*
WTH--Congrats on your 1 perfect blast! It only takes one, you know! Sending lots of prayers and your way!
mollycat--Hmmm.... FF still has your O day as CD10.... is she trippin' or are you thinking that she's right now? Seems like your temps are behaving as though she's right. Praying you'll be pleasantly surprised at the end of your TWW!! *kiss*
Krystie--Hey stranger! So good to see your pretty little avi around here again! Been missing you a lot! Wow, look at that ticker go! Bellyrubs for you and little Chyan! Oh, BTW, can you PM me or e-mail me your address? I have a little something for Chyan from Auntie Jen Jen! Unless you think you'll still be making it out this way in Jan.--I could just give it to you in person. Or has the trip been scrubbed? Let me know! *kiss*
Toccara--Hey you, how's the TTC going? Thinking of you!
issy, Van, Chappas, and Easha--Hey girls! Haven't heard from the lot of you in a while! Just wanted you to all know that I'm thinking of you, and hoping things are well! *hugs*
MO3B--Hey hon.... been worried about you... Sending lots of prayers your way--hope things get better for you soon! Get a hold of me, e-mail me, PM me, whatever--if there's ever anything I can do to help!
smi--Happy Saturday! Hope you're enjoying your weekend! *hugs*
dellydoo, anneebee, Emmykate, babymiracles, Dutchy, Possums, joni, mumma&bubba, babyonboard, Milla, Indy, Princess, buliej.... Hello, *hugs*, and thinking of you all!
jenushka, joey, fifi, larz, pbstar, tina, missbec, and Katiegirl.... stickyvibes and bellyrubs for you all! Miss hearing from you all! Hope you're all enjoying those growing bellies! *hugs*
Whew! Was that everyone? Hope I didn't miss anyone on accident! That's one long list! Ok, that's it from me for now. Have to go shower and get ready, it's after noon and I'm still in my jammies! Talk to you all again soon! *hugs*
jeunshka and mannie and jen...hello! hope you are well
babymiracles--- yay for you a FET this year...fingers crossed!
plc1805- hello to you too...i do my fair share of lurking
mollycat
mel1797- glad you are feeling a bit better now about things. And try not to feel guilty about not being able to give your DH a baby ..YET....I've sometimes felt that way too, because the problems are with me...but it's not our fault and our DHs love us and don't blame us...
hannah- hope you are going ok...
ruthie- glad you are feeling better and happy thanksgiving!
mesgsmum- fingers crossed for you!!
buliej- hello, hope you are handling things ok...i know about feeling bad about not being able to give DH a baby...but it's out of our hands
afm- feeling better with less bad cramps this arvo...compulsively staring at babies in the shopping centre way too much, but apart from that feeling fairly sane and stable this week
Toccara - I wish I could be with you and give you a huge Life is so unfair at time, you shouldn't have to go through this yet again. Please give your DH a hug from us and let him know that you have lots of people thinking about the two of you. It's such a hard event to go through.
Krystie - Here's a special for you too. The EDD is such a hard one to get through, no matter if you've got kids, got one on the way or still ttc. It reminds you about lost dreams that you and your family have. Thinking of you.......
Indy - : congratulations. Sometimes, nothing shows up until well after AF is due, others get in early. Enjoy the ride
Mumstheword - Sorry for your loss, You've come to the right place, the girls in here give so much - a shoulder to cry on, arms to hug, lots of support and heaps of ears to vent to when needed. We've all been through losses and I know without the girls in this group, I wouldn't be where I am today.
Tempus - Congratulations. You were one of the support team around when I first joined. I'm so glad you've got your BFP. Hoping and praying all goes well for you.
AFM - As a couple of the girls on here know, I am stepping back from TTC. As most of you know, my angel left us just over twelve months ago and I am ready to step back from TTC. I am now at the stage of Whatever shall be, shall be In that, If I'm meant to have another bub, it will happen, but it will happen by itself. It took 10 years to conceive my last bub (my angel). It's now time to concentrate on me, to look after my family and myself. I will still pop in (and lurk). My one desire is to see this thread close down - in that there is no longer any need for it - however, whilst there is, there will always be support here and a great bunch of women to hand it out.
I am so looking forward to seeing BFP's and birth announcements from all the girls in here. I'm hoping that 2009 is a very productive year.
AAWWWW mollycat, I was just getting to know you! All the very best to you, I hope whatever will be "WILL BE" for you in 09. Go out there and spend some time on "YOU" - you deserve it. Thanks so much for your kind words, support and encouragement during the week (I only joined last week). Everyone on this site is so supportive and just gorgeous. I don't know what BFT stand for but I am guessing "positive pregnancy test" or the likes, and I hope to have one of these in the new year. Have a wonderful Christmas mollycat and all the very best to you and your family in 09.
P.S. love the Hunter Valley, we go out that way a bit for Sunday drives.
I appreciate all your kind words and thinking of me at this time just as I'm also thinking and praying for you Toccara, unfortuantley it was not meant to be for me either, had more bleeding today and cramping too, so have taken some pain killers and will leave work soon and go home early. Not sure why this keeps happening, have no answers. My DH was upset but positive and very optimistic when I told him today at lunch, he said it will happen for us, not in our time but in God's time, so we just have to trust in God and know that he loves us and we will have our forever baby soon.
I have the list of the tests that is on the recurrent miscarriages thread and will request these tests done via my GP tommorrow. No point getting my HCG levels done as they should be back at zero by Friday.
We were so looking forward to telling our families at Christmas time oh well lets hope its fourth time lucky instead. We are giving ttcing a break over Christams until all the tests come back. I promise!!
thankyou for all your wonderful prayers and stickyvibes. I'm giving them all over to Indy and Tempus now... Goodluck girls!!
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