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thread: Trying to Conceive after Miscarriage or Loss November 08

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    Nov 2004
    Chasing Daylight...
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    Trying to Conceive after Miscarriage or Loss November 08

    Welcome to TTC after Loss or Miscarriage for those of you who have just joined us. We hope your TTC journey is quick and successful. We are sure you will find much loving support from the other women on this challenging journey.

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    Oct 2007
    Hunter Valley, NSW
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    Welcome to the new thread everybody......

    Here's some for all of us to share.

    It's almost 2009 so hopefully it will be so much better for many of us then 2008.

    Ruthie - Hopefully your DH won't be out of work for too much longer. You've had yet another tough time. As I said 2008 is almost out so it's onto good times for you.

    PLC - You only missed Jen by 10 minutes...... We tried so hard to keep you up. Maybe next time. for you and that special little one

    WTH - for a little sticky one for you. Good on the transfer sounds positive.

    To everybody I missed, I'll try for persies later, I need to organise dinner for this lot

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    Oct 2007
    Caroline Springs
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    To all my old friends, much love and

    To all our pregnant friends

    To all those currently in the TWW

    And to all those who are new to this thread

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    Mar 2008
    California
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    Good morning lovely ladies! No, you're not imagining things....it's really ME! I know I've been a bit of a stranger lately.... I haven't forgotten any of you, you're all always in my thoughts and on my mind! Will do my very best to make up for my lack of persies lately!



    Megsmum--C'mon little embie! Stick, stick!!!!! Sending you lots of You're at the top of my prayer list, cycle bud!!



    Mannie--Have googled Endometriosis, because I wasn't sure what it was or what the symptoms were, but no, I'm pretty sure I don't have it. So sorry to hear about your ear infection--hope you feel better soon! *hugs*



    Tam--Woo hoo! Great BT results!



    AJC--Great song! I love Bob Marley--our black lab is named Marley! When I was pg with DS2 I listened to his CD's all the time--thought Noah would come out singing some Rasta jams! lol... After he was born I changed up one of the songs.... Instead of "No Woman No Cry" I would sing, "No, Noah, no cry"!



    jackjack--I think the nutritionist and the accupuncture are a great idea. I've never done either, but many of the friends I've made here swear by them! Good luck!



    Mel--My fingers are crossed that your TWW ends with a BFP!!



    Melissa--Glad to hear your naturopath is so reassuring! You sound really positive and excited about TTC--wish you the best of luck! Sorry to hear about your UTI--those are awful, I had several after DS2 was born, and they're agony! *hugs* Hope you feel better soon!



    Rachel S--Looks like things are progressing well for you and your little one! Bellyrubs and for you!



    Ruthie--OMG, kidney stones are the WORST! Worse even than labor for me! I got a couple not long after DS2 was born and got SO sick... couldn't stop vomiting, it was awful. When I went in to have them blasted, I only weighed 95 lbs! I looked like death.... it was terrible! Hope the antibiotics help you feel better soon--you don't have to have them blasted do you? Sending lots of positive vibes and hugs your way--I know things are going to start looking up for you, hon--you'll see! I'm very intuitive, and I see things getting better for you very soon! *hugs*



    tutmae--Congratulations on your baby girl! So happy for you! I always knew you were having a girl... I don't know why, but Yay! Woo freakin' hoo!!



    Hannah--Hope you and your DH feel better soon! *hugs*



    wouldloveabubba-- Sorry that you've had to join us, but since you have, I pray you find peace and comfort here among us! This is a great bunch of girls that know exactly what you've been through and are going through! Wishing you the best of luck with your IUI and your TTC journey! *hugs*



    plc--Oh, man... only 10 minutes?? So close! OMG, just looked at your ticker--barely more than a month to go! Feeling anxious yet? *kiss*



    WTH--Congrats on your 1 perfect blast! It only takes one, you know! Sending lots of prayers and your way!



    mollycat--Hmmm.... FF still has your O day as CD10.... is she trippin' or are you thinking that she's right now? Seems like your temps are behaving as though she's right. Praying you'll be pleasantly surprised at the end of your TWW!! *kiss*



    Krystie--Hey stranger! So good to see your pretty little avi around here again! Been missing you a lot! Wow, look at that ticker go! Bellyrubs for you and little Chyan! Oh, BTW, can you PM me or e-mail me your address? I have a little something for Chyan from Auntie Jen Jen! Unless you think you'll still be making it out this way in Jan.--I could just give it to you in person. Or has the trip been scrubbed? Let me know! *kiss*



    Toccara--Hey you, how's the TTC going? Thinking of you!



    issy, Van, Chappas, and Easha--Hey girls! Haven't heard from the lot of you in a while! Just wanted you to all know that I'm thinking of you, and hoping things are well! *hugs*



    MO3B--Hey hon.... been worried about you... Sending lots of prayers your way--hope things get better for you soon! Get a hold of me, e-mail me, PM me, whatever--if there's ever anything I can do to help!



    smi--Happy Saturday! Hope you're enjoying your weekend! *hugs*



    dellydoo, anneebee, Emmykate, babymiracles, Dutchy, Possums, joni, mumma&bubba, babyonboard, Milla, Indy, Princess, buliej.... Hello, *hugs*, and thinking of you all!



    jenushka, joey, fifi, larz, pbstar, tina, missbec, and Katiegirl.... stickyvibes and bellyrubs for you all! Miss hearing from you all! Hope you're all enjoying those growing bellies! *hugs*




    Whew! Was that everyone? Hope I didn't miss anyone on accident! That's one long list! Ok, that's it from me for now. Have to go shower and get ready, it's after noon and I'm still in my jammies! Talk to you all again soon! *hugs*

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    Mar 2008
    California
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    for the new thread!!!! Let's see some in this one, ok girls? Saying lots of and keeping my


    Lot's of !!!
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    Oct 2007
    Hunter Valley, NSW
    624

    Jen - FF changed lines this morning. See told you I was right. O was definately not day 10

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    Mar 2008
    California
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    mollycat--That's SO funny! I JUST looked at your chart and noticed that it changed.... so I came to leave you a post, and you just sent me yours! You were definitely right!

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    Registered User

    Aug 2008
    Cairns QLD
    138

    A new thread already to all the lovely ladies...

    megsmum - throwing lots of your way luvie and hoping this one is a keeper...

    Hey Jen - boy you did a good job of those persies...didn't realise how many ladies we have on this thread...wish I was as good as you to remember them all...glad you don't have endo...hoping you get a BFP this cycle...

    Ruthie - thinking of you darl...get better soon...xxx

    Well AFM Im on the mend, at least now I'm not deaf in my right ear anymore but still feel very weak and sickly. Nearly finished the antibiotics and have a repeat, not sure if I should get them, will wait and see how I feel. I also did a pg test a few days ago and only a very faint line at 7dpo I'm 10dpo now but I'm going to wait again til after AF is due to test again. Haven't told DH as don't want to get him too excited again just in case, what do you think girls should I tell him or should I wait??? even took me a few days to tell you girls and you know what I'm going through!!! I'm just so scared I'm going to lose this one too. Have had some nausea and sore boobs which is positive even if it feels yuky... just have to see how this one progresses...wish me luck ladies, this bub will be born in August if all goes to plan! its a great month as I have many family members born in that month my mum and my sister...

    Have a great sunday ladies and stickyvibesgirl:to all you lovely ladies, sorry haven't got many persies but will promise to do a better job when I'm feeling a whole lot more energetic...time for a shower and cool down its so hot even with the air con on....must be the progesterone

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    Mar 2008
    California
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    Mannie--Glad to hear you're on the mend. OMG...

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    Apr 2008
    White Gum Valley, WA
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    Mannie: That's wonderful news hon! I think you should tell your DH so that you have some extra support, but do whatever feels right for you, hon.

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    Aug 2008
    Melbourne
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    Mannie - I hope this sticks - I'd be unable not to tell DH but I understand why you might wait

    Hi to everyone else....

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    May 2008
    NSW
    696

    Buliej, Hannah, Mollycat and Jen - thank you for your good wishes. We only have a 28-30% shot at this. But we have learned that I just might still have some good eggies. So if this month does not work DH and I will take advantage of the cheery silly season and enjoy getting back under the covers

    Mannie - wow! A faint line at 7dpo is very promising. In my case, I would have to share with my DH as he would be wondering why I was acting so weird in the meantime.

    AFM - had my second Pregnyl (HCG) shot on Saturday so cannot test any time soon or would get false +ve. DH and I have talked and agreed to test before BT this weekend.

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    Aug 2008
    Adelaide
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    Mannie - Glad to hear you're on the mend. I'm sending you a quiet congrats with lots of sticky vibes and am that this one sticks. If I were you I'd tell DH, just for some extra support. But I understand why you might want to wait.

    WTH - Sending you lots of stickyvibes too.

    To all those TTC in Nov

    To all those UTD

    To all those in the TWW

    Well, AFM, I'm feeling better and am back at work today. I'm halfway through the TWW, but am not feeling as optimistic as I was a week ago. Oh well, fingers crossed!

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    Apr 2007
    NSW
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    Just dropping in quickly to say still trying to get through the rest of the TWW, will know the outcome on Thurs or Fri this week

    Mannie - Yay for another BFP I hope this is your sticky one. I would tell my DH too, but then again I am so hopeless at hiding things like that that I wouldn't be able to help but tell him!

    Lots of to everyone!

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    Aug 2008
    Cairns QLD
    138

    Thanks ladies, will do another test this weekend and then will tell DH, if I can hold out that long!

    Goodluck Megsmum and HannahD with the TWW, I too wasn't feeling optomistic this cycle but it happened so expect the unexpected!

    WTH - sending out lots of BFP vibes for your home PG test and BT on the weekend!

    Am at work today so can only lurk occasionally during the day...hi to everyone else

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    Nov 2008
    14

    Just had another miscarriage. The first one happened four years ago, I was only 22, didn't even know what that was. But this time, it really hurts ~~~ (Both were unplanned pregnancies)

    After two miscarriages, I really want a baby now. Will start trying after two cycles, good luck to me and all other ladies who TTC.

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    Aug 2008
    Adelaide
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    I'm also lurking while at work, but just had to say to T.Y. I'm so sorry for your losses. But you have found a great group of ladies here who will support you through your TTC journey when you are ready to begin.

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    Mar 2008
    California
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    T.Y.-- I'm so very sorry to hear of your losses. We all desperately all understand that yearning for a child after a m/c, so we can all understand where you're coming from. I pray that your TTC journey is a short one, and you're blessed with a quick, sticky BFP!! You've come to the right place for comfort and support!



    Mannie--Some more for you!!



    WTH--Have to send you some extra as well! Saying lots of prayers for you!



    Hi buliej!! *hugs*



    Hannah & Megsmum--Wishing you both the best of luck during the last half of your TWW!

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