Matthews mum glad your day is over and you can dry your eyes now and look forward to the future its so nice you were able to spend the day remembering together maybe now you can move forward a little easier,
Mummyof4 sorry you didn't get the BFP I know how hard it is when you just want to be pregnant again we all feel it and the more pg ladies you see walking around reminding you of how it should be is heart wrenching, I hope you can get some comfort over the next few days and look forward to next year and a BFP really soon !
Ferrals can't wait for an update !
Everyone else hope your all trucking along on this road of TTC with lots of smiles and positive thoughts this time next year we will be changing nappies and no time for the BB forum !
AFM well I had a melt down yesterday mainly after an email from a friend who is 14wks pregnant and saying how hard it is and maybe I should consider not trying anymore at my age ! well she is 30 and not MC before so how can she possibly know how it feels,
MY DH keeps telling me it will happen again and hopefully sooner rather than later he is so supportive but its not just getting the BFP is it ladies you then have the worry for 12 to 14 wks of it happening again ! need to get some strength from somewhere to get through this !
Well i was right to not get my hopes up they want them over 6 cells on day 3 we have
1)9 cells
2)8 cells
1)7 cells
2)5 cells
2)4 cells
the embroligist has said they are good to fair as they have some fragmentation so the last 4 wont make it and the first 4 need to have the energy to make it i am disapointed
Ok just spoke to the head scientist he said our numbers are standard for day 3 of our 4 good embies they are grade 1 and 2 so he is happy he said of the 8 eggs he would expect us to have 4 good ones on day 3 so he told me not to worry and it is scarey but everything is going normally.
Ferrals my darling be positive girl youre almost there. Allow yourself to be happy babe, I understand it's hard, but youre there, the cup is half full X
I know youre scared to be let down, but you should let that wall down and celebrate the good bits of the news you get. Worry about being sad when you have to, you don't have to yet, if at all X enjoy your frustrating journey, because ATM it is totally out of your controll.
(remind me of this in 3 weeks, I have some news to share, and I'm sure you will be shoving my own medicine down my throaght soon enough!)
Matthew'sMum I just want to say what special earth babies you have X That is so sweet what they shared with you yesterday, I'm happy to see that you are now ok, and sorry that yesterday was so hard on you XX Another journey started for you today X A page heavily turned X
Craftymummy strength is what we all have here for you, just not for ourselves!! Sorry you had a meltdown X
Sorry no more persies, I have some news to share and I can't wait any longer to tell you all!!!!!
DH and I were meant to be doing IVF through REPROMED in Mildura JanFeb next year, well I got a phonecall from Adelaide repromed, and they have a cancellation this month and wanted to know if we would like to start treatment as soon as I get my AF!!!!!!!!!!!
Of course I screamed and cried YES!!! (and since it is in this year I get to have the current medicare rebate, not next years expensive one)
My appt with Repromed scientist is next Thurs in Adelaide, he wants to put me on the pill for 2weeks as soon as AF arrives so Im not due for egg collection at Xmas time cuz they closed, but just after.
I am not going to sleep for nights on end I'm so darn excited!!!!!
OMG OMG OMG!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Ferrals my dear do I have questions for you!!!!
I can't beleive this has happened so quick, I didn't expect to start FSH until end of Jan10
No fizzies for me at christmas newyear now!
That’s fantastic news Murrycod, it great when you get some unexpected good news.
Ferrals try not to stress too much, I hope everything goes ok
Craftymummy sorry about you inconsiderate friend. It is upsetting what some people say hurtful things especially when they have no idea how you are feeling.
ATM I am going to resign from my second job this morning- am a bit nervous after 6 years this is a big deal. Am also on CD 23 so four days to testing, I have held of so far, let’s hope I can keep to it.
murraycod thats awesome news hun, hopefully you can get your BFP very soon, and great too that you get it through the medicare rebate, thats very exciting.
Ferals looking good darls im glad that things are all on track and hopefully you too can get your little bundle very soon
Craftmummy people can be so insensitive at times, noone knows what its like when they havent had to deal with it. Hopefully this is your month.
Greencake goodluck with resigning this morning it must be a little scary, 6 years is a long time, but youll be better off in the end and hopefully the less stress helps you out a lot. Good luck with testing in a few days
Murrycod-fantastic news as long as you pick up meds this year or start the pill for a cycle even if you dont start injections til jan it is regarded as 2009 by medicare so a lot cheaper and feel free to ask away i will help as much as i can to make the process a lot easier for you and maybe help with all the mumbo jumbo.
Greencake- not long now!
Thanks to all for the well wishes tomorrow is D-DAY we find out if any of my 4 embryos have made it to blastocyst stage and if they are of good enough grade to withstand the testing they should be ready by the arvo but some take a little longer and it's early day 6 that they are ready i have decided to stay away from the computer until i have an answer either way as this is nerve racking stuff and i need to keep busy with other things i will say if my embies are no good for transfer i know it is not the end of the road as we are fertile we can still get pregnant the natural way and hope we get lucky with an uneffected baby so wish me luck cross all your fingers and toes and pray i have some good news over the weekend.
Ferrals darling I feel it in my bones youre going to get good news over the weekend X
Wishing you all the best wishes in the world.
I'll be starting my injections around 20th December, wont know exactly till I get AF, then go on the pill for 2wks X
You know I can't ever remember wanting AF to come so badly!! After TTC for sooo long, I dnt remember what it feels like to be happy when the witch visits!!!!
Thanks for the congrats everyone XXXXXXX
Will find out the nitty gritties of it all next Thursday, can't wipe the smile off my face though!
Greencake hope the resignation went alright today XXX
You can add my strength to yours not to POAS yet, cuz I want AF so badly!!!!! On time!!
Have a great great weekend girls, let your hair down and RELAX! XXXXX
afternoon all,Murraycod-Fantastic news,so pleased for you,will be looking for updates...Craftmummy-sorry about your girlfriends comments,we will get through this together and soon all of us will be able to chat in the paml thread...Greencake-hope this morning went smoothly..eliselouise-good luck with 'o' soon..Ferrals-hope the weekend brings good news...afm-did 'o' test yesterday,still came up neg,so will do another tomorrow,so might be a bit busy over the weekend.
Hi ladies,
just a quick pop in
great news murray cod, and fingers crossed for you ferrals!!
AFM - quick rant - well we got a letter from DH insurer today - IVF etc NOT covered (despite the fact we were told it was - put a post on the LTTC thread if you wanted to check it out) so I had SOOOOO better get a BFP this year.
Morning all
Thanks to all of you for your kind words its so nice to know Im not alone in feeling like this from time to time I feel much better today and more positive THANKS !
Ferrals fingers crossed will be checking all weekend for news !
Murraycod well what a great day you had ! I know you are waiting for AF to arrive but hey what if she doesn't turn up and you get a BFP now that would be a suprise ! and such a wonderful gift, will be waiting to see what happens !
Greencake and matthews mum thanks for your support we all have bad days from time to time and only those who have been there really know what its like and how hard it can be at times THANKS LADIES your the best !
Afm well im on day 9 so will be getting the opk sticks out really soon, had some good news yesterday we are just about to start building our own home went to the pre-start meeting yesterday and chose all the things we want bricks ,roof and door handles and everything can't beleive after 6 mnths we are finally being given the chance to own our own home so IM thinking NEW HOUSE, NEW BABY its not anything really special but we have to have 5 bedroooms for all my brood and it will be our home we won't have to move again !
yesterday at CD24 i started light red and brown spotting (sorry TMI). I tested (just in case -) had a cry and then thought AF would start (3 -4 days early!), however I have only very light spotting to date.
If I was optimistic I would think implantation bleed, however I am not. I know it is my body punishing me all over again
why or why can't my stupid body get back into some routine after the m/c? It seems intent on reminding me and punishing me over and over. Sorry for my rant, its hard to express these feelings in the real world, and I know you all understand.
Have a great day everyone, I promise to post persies tomorrow.
Hi everyone, found this site googling.
I'm 41, had a stillborn son @37 weeks in Feb, fell again in Sept but after seeing a heartbeat at 6 weeks had to have a d&c at 9 weeks, 8 days ago.
just hoping for some support.
Ronlyn
Ronlyn welcome to BB and so sorry to hear about your losses
Greencake I hope the spotting is implant bleeding.
Craftymummy how exciting about your new home. I hope it all goes smoothly buliding and you will be living in it quickly. Sounds wonderful.
murraycod what wonderful news. So excited for you.
ferrals4 I hope your little Embies are going strong and you can have a transfer and get a BFP before Christmas.
Hello to everyone else. I've been quiet lately and working way to much.
I am in my first 2WW since July. So exciting. Would love a BFP in less then 2weeks but I doubt I will get one. I am just so excited to be ttc again. The wait was horrible.
Ronlyn - I am so sorry to hear about the loss of your beautiful son and another tiny angel. You have been through a really bad year. I hope you find a lot of support here.
greencake - how annoying! I hope your body gives you some answers soon. congrats on your resignation, must have been tough.
milly - I hope you get your bfp too! Otherwise we might have to have a cake stall for you
murraycod - I am SO excited for you! Make sure you pass on all the news, in all the gory glory details! Sparkling apple juice (sweet) or grape juice (dry) is a really good substitute for champers.
ferrals - I am hoping it's good news and celebration that's keeping you away from the computer! Fingers crossed for some big tough blasties!
EL - we are O'ing at similar times! I think this might be it - our chance to be Belly Buddies again! Hoooray! Let's make this month a good one!
AFM - I am MELTING! but not long til snow time in Japan!
I have given up booze completely, ready for official TTC time! Giving up coffee was waaaaaay harder, but I'm pretty much there now. It's now 15 months since I took my first folate tablet mg:
Currently on CD 13, DH coming home tomorrow night.
We are off to Sydney next weekend, for the family Christmas (we don't do Dec 25th, as its too hard to get all the siblings in one city!) Mum doesn't have room for us to stay, and plenty of friends and family are offering to have us, but our main criteria is whether or not we can baby dance while we're there!
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To all that need some !
its not anything really special but we have to have 5 bedroooms for all my brood and it will be our home we won't have to move again !
mg:
baby dance while we're there!
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