Morning ladies sorry i havnt been doing percies of late i have been so self obsorbed with everything and under a lot of stress but we are happy with our decision we spoke to our FS and scientist about our fertility egg quality ect and they say they are happy with everything egg numbers sperm quality fertilisation ect so the 8 months since we lost abbi would not have effected our natural chances and our age is not yet problematic as they say so we can try naturally and hope for the best but i was told it might take a little while as if we concieve an effected baby it might not stick or i could m/c or it might hang on like abbi so he said dont panic if it takes a bit longer it will be nature weeding out the faulty ones well i hopes so anyway and if one does stick we can be tested at 11 weeks so i am waiting for AF and taking my vitex to help me o/v after all the hormones it might be delayed.
Thanks for everyones replies and thoughts the money was a big issue and a sore point $14,000 for PGD IVF when normal IVF at westmead hospital will cost $2,000 i just think the government should help people with genetic conditions as caring for disabled kids will cost 1000 times more than PGD process and SIVF and MIVF are the only ones who do PGD so what choice do people have.
So anyway i will stop being so selfish now and be more supportive to you ladies hope you will forgive me.