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  1. #1
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    May 2008
    U.S.A
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    Jen- yes DH is still trianing but he is training at the jail by on new place until the day after Thanksgiving then he going back to training all week out of town and coming home on the weekend he will be done jan 2nd ... so I guess I will offically be back to ttc in jan but I'm so scared to get pg again ...

    ATM well I just found out my best friend is pg about two months along so her edd is about a month or couple weeks after what my last edd should have been I want to be happy for her but its a little hard I know she knows how I feel tho she lost a set of twins and had two more m/c's ... I'm looking forward to tcc again but at the same time I'm scared of having another m/c my heart can't take another lost ... I love all you girls big babydust and stickyvibes ....

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    Apr 2007
    NSW
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    Hi everyone,

    Sorry to have not posted since my last downer of a post, but had to take a bit of time to myself to get over it all. And I'm feeling a bit better today, apart from being really tired from the nasal spray, so thought I'd better do a little post.

    Toccara - It is so hard finding out about friend's pregnancies isn't it? It's not that you don't feel happy for them, but just more sad for yourself. I understand that fear too, I feel it myself but hang in there - you will have a baby to hold!

    Jen - Hey there cycle buddy, we're a bit closer again this cycle! At least I haven't had to do the whole Pill thing again - no more long IVF cycles for me!!

    Mel1979 - no doubt about it, one year anniversaries suck. I had mine 3 weeks ago today and it was awful. Make sure you and your DH take good care of each other on Sun!

    HannahD - I'm so sorry about your cousin's bub, how awful for her I hope you have a nice time in Melbourne despite, it is such a great city to visit.

    Mannie - Congratulations and all the best for today.

    WTH - Good luck for today!! And thanks for the ear over the last few days.

    Possums - Welcome to our thread and I'm so very sorry for your loss I hope your stay is a short one! The ladies here are a wonderful support. And like WTH said, there are a few of us here doing IVF as well, so I hope you feel right at home. Take care.

    Ruthie - Yay for the health insurance, although I have to admit as a former health worker, you health system confuses the hell out of me LOL I'd be POAS with those symptoms too!

    RachelS - Glad to hear the bleeding has stopped, take it easy...

    dellydoo - So happy to hear that you've had an FET, all the best for the TWW!

    Melissal - Hi and welcome, I'm so sorry for your loss The baby conversations are hard aren't they? I must admit that I avoid them wherever possible. Sounds like a good plan about the birth though, don't make yourself do anything that you don't think you can cope with, take it from me a birth is a pretty intense experience. All the best with whatever you decide.

    Angel - Come back!! Will miss you too

    Phew, I did it! I hope I got everyone, but a big hi to anyone that I have missed!

    AFM, the sig covers it pretty much. Just sniffing and jabbing away for now and have my first scan on Mon. I am absolutely terrified we will have another disaster like last month

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    Jun 2008
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    Ok so now I feel slight lower back cramping as if AF was comming.. then again I felt just that with this angel bub and my other two.. SOOOO CONFUSING!!!!

    Rachelswirl:
    I would be too (paranoid) but your baby will make it nice, safe, healthy & sound to this world on your Due date!!!!! Sending you a HUGE MEGA SQUEEZING HUG your way!!!!!!!!!!!

    Mel, HannhD, Dellydoo, Jen, Mannie, Possums:
    (holding your hands) tomorrow morning I will POAS.. whatever comes.. I will accept.
    if BFP I will be happy scared..if BFN I will be ok. I am seeing the specialist in Nov. (just around the corner)
    Thank you for your support! (all of you) means the World to me!

    Jen Jen: LOVE YOU TO DEATH!!! Thank you sweet sweet momma.I needed that hug.. (nervous laughing)..LOL
    let's see... I wanna POAS..just get it over with.


    WTH: hugs to ya

    Toccarra: You will have your miracle momma. I'm praying so hard for that.

    Megsmum: Boy am I there with ya.. HI here SUCK.. some are good.. Thank God this one is the same HI hubby had a few years ago in his prev. job (REALLY REALLY GOOD) so am super happy about that.

    I'm POASing tomorrow in the AM. (nervous as heck!!..LOL)


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    Jun 2008
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    Ruthie- good luck with the poas... please let us know either way how it goes. I am crossing my fingers for you...

    I have been shopping today and am now SHATTERED!!!! I am just going to get an early night and then come on here to check on you ruthie tomorrow!

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    2011 BellyBelly RAK Recipient.

    Aug 2008
    Adelaide
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    Hi everyone

    Boy a lot has happened in here since I last posted - it is difficult to keep up

    Ruthie : Good luck with the test. Fingers crossed that you get your BFP, and that everything will be perfect this time around. You deserve it hon

    Jen: you are such an amazing support for everyone on this thread. Big hug just for being you

    Mel: Really feeling for you honey. Take care this sunday - maybe you could do something special to celebrate your angel on that day

    Megsmum: glad you are feeling a bit better. Good luck with the scan on monday - wishing you lots of success this time around

    Toccara - I know how you feel - I too am terrified of having another m/c. Fingers crossed we both get a BFP soon and a healthy baby to hold in our arms very soon

    Hannah: Have a great time in Melbourne. So sorry to hear about what your cousin in going through. Let her know that there are a lot of people here praying for her
    Possums - Sorry that you have had to join this thread though. I am also doing IVF. It can be so stressful can't it, and so devastating after taking so long to finally get a BFP, only to m/c. Praying that the next IVF cycle will be a success for us both, and for all of the ladies in this thread who are undertaking IVF.

    Dellydoo - Wishing you every success with the FET. I am doing the same thing this cycle - first blood test next tuesday.

    MO3B - I am so sorry you have been having such a hard time. Been thinking of you. Take care of you honey

    Mannie - congrats on BFP - wonderful news

    Jenuska, Rachelswirl, Tutmae and all other pregnant ladies - belly rubs for you and wishing you the most happy and healthy pregnancies. I hope lots more of us from this thread join you very soon


    WTH, Angel, Megsmum, and everyone else I have missed. Sending you hugs and best wishes

    Me (37) DF (50)
    5 september 2008 (6 w 4 d)
    FET this month (first blood test next tuesday!)

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    Mar 2008
    mid north coast, nsw
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    hi everyone...wishing you all well...and thanks again for the nice welcomes...
    sorry just not up for more personals today....I'll get there though and will chat more

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    Jul 2008
    Perth
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    Wow, I was having trouble keeping up on the old thread, then I go away for a week and now I'm doing some serious catchup. (Still trying to keep you all straight in my head!) OK, so here goes for my 1st go at personals:

    Mannie- congrats on the - an excellent way to start a new thread!
    Megsmum- good luck for your next cycle, sending you lots of sunny its beautiful in Perth today)
    BM- same to you. with starting the IVF
    Mel1979 and dellydoo- looks like we are 2WW buddies this month. Wishing you lots of . I?m going to test next Thurs, unless AF shows up uninvited.
    MO3B- so sorry to hear you are having such a hard time, our thoughts are with you.
    Ruthie-I haven?t been here very long but you seem to be a really strong wonderful lady so I?m sure that you will handle all the curve balls that seem to bounce around here (sorry, not good at sports metaphors) Good luck with the POAS. I?m also going to say thanks for the general babydust and hope I?ve managed to scoop some up!!
    Melissa,- hello but sorry that you are here, if you know what I mean, good luck on starting down the TTC path again
    Possums- just need to put in a little story cos there is always hope around: My Mum had an et preg after she had me and ended up with only 1 badly damaged tube left and was told there wasn?t any way that a baby could happen naturally for her. Then when she was 40, she went to my Dad and told him she was either entering menopause or she was pregnant- I now have a 13 year old brother!! Hope is a very good thing.
    Fifi and rachelswirl- keep growing those sticky bubs of yours, all the best
    Jen- a big hello back, am in awe of your ability to keep everyone straight!

    OK, sure I?ve missed someone, so I?m sending out lots of sticky vibes and to all who are here. Have to say that I find the number of preg women around seems to greatly increase during the TWW, maybe they are drawn in by the LH surge (sorry that?s a little disturbing ) Anyway, 1/2 way through 2WW so am chanting

    Also, having a little problem with the babies, babies, everywhere thing. There are 5 babies of close friends due in the next 4 weeks (plus one that arrived last week). Can't help thinking that I would have been nearly 5 mths along, sigh.

    Must be around I just need to find it- shouldn?t be hard, I never dust my house, it MUST be piling up in the corners!!

    Take care, Indy