Trying to Conceive After Miscarriage or Loss October '08 #2

Hi gorgeous girls...

Just wanted to pop in and let you all know I'm pregnant again...
3 HPT's resulting in 3 BFP's! Each day darker and faster coming up...
So the doctor assumes I am 4 weeks and 1 day...
Going for a dating scan next week and another scan at 7 weeks.

Hoping this is a sticky one!
It's only been 6 weeks since my missed miscarriage and D&C...
We only had sex once this month and here I am!
So much for my month off... :doh:

I know how lucky I am - so I'm crossing all my fingers.
Just very excited and very scared - taking it day by day...

Bec - wow honey that is fantastic :happyforyou: news. :leap:Best wishes for a happy and healthy pregnancy. All I can suggest is to take it one day at time in these early stages. I know that it can be a very anxious time when you have already had a m/c.

Megsmum - just realised you are having EPU on thursday. Good luck sweetie - will be thinking of you :pray:

Jen: thanks for your best wishes. Sending you lots of :bluedust::noaf:

Possums - wishing you a BFP for this cycle:hug:

missbec-hoooray...congratulations

babymiracles...thanks and good luck to you for friday!

easha- here's hoping!

woohoo congratulations MissBec!!! :bluecheer::stickyvibesgirl: just stay positive and I'm sure everything will be fine...one day at time....I know its hard and the days can't go fast enough hey!

And Easha ooooh looks promising goodluck make sure you lets us all know your news!:noaf:

Babymiracles goodluck for Friday and I will be :pray: for you that this frostie sticks, my friend is on her fourth IVF cycle and she has just started taking the drugs, she will get her transfer around the end of the month. she's also 37 turning 38 tom and is hating the thought of having to go through this again for the 4th time but Im sure she will be lucky this month I can feel it...she's also been going to acupuncture and we have a lady who is 46 wanting to try and fall pg who goes to our acupuncturist and she also has many women in their 40's falling pg and delivering healthy babys ...so lets hope this is a lucky month for many of us.

plc and Jen thanks for your thoughts am doing fine, onwards and upwards, am getting heaps of CM now and also temps are all in order, have also started taking the Astrix 100mg aspirin so we are going to give it a go this month, third time lucky hopefully but my acupuncturist explained to me the reason behind thinning the blood because when the blastocyst comes down into the uterus and attaches to the lining it needs to be fed by the blood in our uterus until the placenta takes over if the blood is too sticky it can't penetrate the thin membrane into the cell to nourish it and help it grow, when its thinner the blood gets through much easier....I was like oh wow no one had really explained it to me like that and it makes sense.....so am giving it a go it can't hurt.

forgot to say (before my pc died on me) helloooo to all the other lovlies Ruthie, Joey, Jenushka,megsmum,MO3B,Tam,Angel,molly,princess,dut chy and so many of you I've probably missed lots of stickyvibes and babydust coming your way for a lucky month for all of us :)

Wow, great to see some happy news on this thread!

Missbec - Big congrats. I know it must be scary but sending you heaps of :stickyvibesgirl::stickyvibesboy:

Babymiracles - :goodluck:

Mannie - Glad you are starting to feel positive again. I've read about taking asprin and plan on talking to the FS about it tomorrow. I really hope it works for you!

Easha - Sounds very promising. :noaf:

Hi to Jen, plc1805, fifi, possums, WTH, Ruthie, MO3B and anyone else I have missed.

AFM - going to the FS tomorrow, a litle nervous! Good news, DH had his sperm tested and we got the results (had to wait 3 days!) and it was all normal! So happy about as I know DH would've taken it hard if anything had been wrong. So either something is wrong with me or we have just been very unlucky for the last 12 months. I guess we will have to wait and see.

Will try to log on and let you all know how I go tomorrow.

Does anyone know how I become a belly belly member? I would like to join so I can join you all in Friday night chats but not sure how?

Bye for now.

Possums--Wishing you the best of luck on your TTC journey! I'm :pray: you receive your miracle without the need for IVF! :hug:



missbec--Congratulations! :cheer: Wishing you a happy, healthy pregnancy! :stickyvibesgirl:



babymiracles--Will be thinking of you on Friday! :crossfingers:



Mannie--Glad to hear your cycle and temps are getting back to normal! You know, I never really understood why I was taking the baby aspirin--thanks for explaining it! :hug:



Mel--Great news about DH's little :sperm: Always good to know everything is in working order! Good luck with your FS appt, I hope you get all your questions answered! :goodluck:

Good morning Gurlies!

Monday truly was crappy...I was so sick I didn't even bother getting out of bed...that sore throat last week was a pre-cursor to this weeks illness!

yesterday...came in to work but left very early...today...still yucky AND to top it off...AF showed this morning! YUCK!!!

jen...hope you're fairing better than I...

Sorry no more perssies...I just feel too yucky...

Hello girls I have missed you all so much big :hug: to everyone ... I had a great birthday and I have everything moved into my new place now... I started back ttc again the day after my birthday so its been about a week I'm a lil scared about having another m/c but if I don't try then no matter what I will never get my forever baby ... congrats to all the girls with bfp's I missed and sticky vibes to everyone ttc as well

Jen still praying and hoping you get that bfp you have been trying so hard for !!!
Krystie I'm so happy your pg is going so well :bellyrub: ....
Ruthie don't give up I'm praying for you too we can be ttc buddies 2gather !!!
Tut, plc, rachel, jenuska, wth, mannie, mel and anyone else I forgot big big :hug:

Bec :happyforyou::bluecheer::cheer: CONGRATULATIONS Hoping for a wonderful 9 months for you.

Smi - Sorry to hear that you're not feeling very well, and how rude of AF to show up when your sick. :hug: hope you're feeling much better soon.

Mel - If you go to LiveChat at the top of the page and follow through the prompts there, you'll be able to join in chat. I know how you're feeling. We waited over 10 years for our BFP, had a few things "fixed" on the way, now it's almost twelve months since our angel moved on. Really makes you wonder. All I can think is that this time twelve months ago I was over the moon. Now......

Mannie - glad to see you're doing OK.

Megsmum - All the best for today

Possums - Hope your miracle happens for you this month

Ruthie :hello:

Babymiracles :goodluck: for Friday. Hope all goes well for you too.

Hello Ladies,

well away for work again so I am just popping in for a minute.

Yay Missbec!!!! Thats fantastic news. About time some :bfp: came into this thread!

Sounds like its time to POAS Easha- very exciting, hoping for a :pregnant: for you.

Ruthie- bring on 2009!!! That is all good.

Hello to everyone else, sorry no time for more personals today. Not much happening with me at the moment. Sad to be away from DH and hoping that LH surge holds off till I get home on Sunday, then bring on the :2ww:

Wishing lots of :bluedust::pink-babydust: for everyone,

take care, Indy

Hi All,

Sorry no BFP for me :(

So so frustrating.... not only was there no BFP AF was also 4 days late:wtf:

Why oh why would my body do that to me. Sure if AF was meant to arrive then just gosh darn arrive..... stop playing with my emotions !!!!!!!!

Can't find the angry face but that is how I am feeling at the moment.

MissBec congrats on the BFP - hate to say this but I am jealous but still very happy for you.

I need to focus on other things for awhile so I dont fall in a heap obsessing about this. Will be back in a few days though

Hugs to you all

smi--Sorry you've been so sick :cold: Hope you're feeling better today! And d@mn that witch for showing up when you're sick!!! I think we should :protest:



Toccara--Here's a belated :happybirthday2: Hope you had a great one, and are enjoying your new home! Welcome back to the TTC bandwagon! :goodluck:



mollycat--You seem a little down and quiet lately.... just wanted to give you a big :hug: cause I think you need it and deserve it! Hope to see you in Friday night chat! *kiss*



Indy--Saying lots of :pray: for you that your LH surge holds out until Sunday! :crossfingers:



Easha--I'm so disappointed for you! :comfort: You would think it would begin to get easier each month, wouldn't you? Unfortunately, I know all too well that slap-in-the-face feeling each time that witch shows her face.... I'm so sorry! Know that I'm thinking of you!



MO3B--Been thinking about you... I heard you were a little down :( Just want you to know you're in my thoughts and prayers! *hugs*

Hi everyone

Sorry I have not posted in a while. Have been caught up in this whole second IVF attempt. In truth, it has been not been easy. Feeling emotionally spent and have not even done egg pick up yet (scheduled for tomorrow). Very nervous about the whole thing, particularly that I will ovulate before pickup and we will have blown another month (and $3.5K).

Sorry no persies, but :grouphug: to all you guys :D. Great to see some more BFP's popping up on this thread :dance:

princess and dutchy - :welcome: and sorry for your losses. Goodluck with your TTC journeys. And princess, congratulations on your engagement!

missbec - Congratulations! Sending you lots of :stickyvibesboy:

mel - Its good to know that everything with DH is in working order, at least its one step closer to finding some answers. Hope it goes well with the FS.

melissa - Good for you attending your SIL's birth. Its okay to have a meltdown every once in a while. I had one a few weeks ago and am now feeling much better. A meltdown is simply a purge of all the emotions that come with TTCAML - and there are a lot of emotions! Just let yourself feel whatever you feel and to hell with everyone else. Just because other people don't get it, doesn't mean you have to justify your feelings to them all the time. If all of us angel mums pretend that we're fine, how are people who haven't been through it supposed to understand how hard it is? (Hmm...must be channelling Angel) :hug:

mannie - Good to see your feeling more positive. Hope the aspirin helps.

easha - I'm so sorry that AF arrived....and 4 days late too!

ruthie - Sorry you got a BFN. Goodluck in 2009.

babymiracles - :crossfingers: for the frostie transfer. Goodluck!

jen - Great to see your still around hun. I've never known you to be so quiet. Although keeping busy does make the TWW go faster.

smi - Sorry your not well...and AF showed her ugly face as well! Sounds like a perfect reason for a day (or a few) in bed. Hope you feel better soon.

:hello: and :hug: to adele, plc, krystie, tam, angel, mollycat, megsum, possums, tutmae, larz, fifi, rach, wth, indy, mo3b, ajc, jenushka and anyone I have missed

I think this thread could do with some :stickyvibesboy::pink-babydust:. We need some BFPs around here soon.

afm - Not much going on. Work is super busy at the moment - hence I'm reduced to lurking. AF actually took it easy on me last week - arrived on time, with very little PMS and get this: No pain! Had some O pains yesterday so will probably be pretty scarce this weekend since the BD marathon has begun. LOL. Take care girls and have a great weekend all.

and so the TWW begins!! wish me luck girls! thinking of you all......very busy at work at the moment so will be lurking for a little while.....LOL til the weekend that is!! :)

all my luv and lots of babydust and stickyvibes to you all!

:( sorry to hear the dreaded witch has visited you Easha....was thinking of you....and hoping for you...lets hope it happens this cycle!!

Hi lovely ladies,


I have been and still am on holidays will visiting my parents if you call that a holiday and driving back home on the 20th to a broken computer so prob wont even be able to catch up then. Its only going to be quick as I am using my little sister's computer and this thing is joined at her hip.

Mannie Wishing you lots of :goodluck: with your tww hope it goes super fast.

:welcome: princess, dutchy and all the other newbies that have joined since I have been away. I am sorry for your losses and the pain you have gone through. The pain does get easier but never goes totally. I am glad that you have found this forum with all the lovely ladies here. I hope that you all can start:D again soon.

Easha Sorry about AF showing up if she was going to come you think she would at least turn up on time. I hope she leaves soon and without to much damage.

Missbec Congratulations sending you lots of :stickyvibesboy::stickyvibesgirl:

babymircales sending your lots of baby dust for your transfer I hope you get a BFP for christimas.

Hannah Goodluck with the babdy dancing this weekend hope you catch the egg.


Jen and MO3B Hello it's been a few weeks since i last spoke to you both. I hope are both doing well and still ploding along. I tied to go back through the tread to see how you both are doing but you dont seem to be posting as much as you used to.

AFM!

Well what else can i say but i got my :bfp: yesterday. I am so worried I have been running to the toilet and checking my undies and toilet paper every five minutes. I am so scared of having another m/c. I have had a slight back pain all along my 2ww so I am a bit worried about that. Please keep me in your prayers.

Tam - I would like to send you a big whopping congratulations for your new BFP - however I understand you are not ready for too much fanfare just yet ;)

So..... can I send you a cheery (but respectfully subdued) "congrats" instead? Sending many cyber sticky vibes your way

WTH xx