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Hello lovely ladies
Sorry I have been off line for a while - have been lurking but have been a bit down - 2 baby showers and a birth. I have some big news. I had an FET on Saturday and will POAS in 10 days. Have told VERY few people and can scarcely believe it myself.
Hannah, darling, I too held my girlfriend's baby at 3 days and was OK - I cried a little on the way home.
Congratulations Nickster - I cried with happiness for you.
Mel - we are TWWing together! Good luck darling.
Babymiracles - I know what you mean - some days there are pregnant women and children everywhere. I am sorry the witch arrived but all the best for next cycle!
Megsmum - I am so sorry sweetheart - talk to you when you are feeling better xx
Issy - keep your chin up my love we are all here to support you and lots of us have been through (or are going through) IVF and can hold your virtual hand
Mannie that is WONDERFUL news. What a positive way to start this thread - thanks sugarpie!
Angel Babies, Jen, Jenushka, plc, AJC, Mollycat and everyone I have missed Big Hugs and love. I think November is going to be swamped with :bfp:
Love
Adele
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The first babies in my angel's old belly buddy group have just been born (Helen's twins, 7 weeks early), and while I am extremely happy for her, I didn't realise how hard it would be for me. I'm so happy to be lucky enough to be pregnant again, but a reminder like this just makes me realise how much I still grieve for my angel. My throat is all choked up, and I'm right on that cliff edge of bawling. I've been trying to tell myself that rather than making my angel's EDD a sad day, I was going to try to make it more about remembering how I felt when I knew there was a baby in my belly for the first time, and focusing on the positives. But I know now that it's going to be very hard not to let the sadness in as well. :angel:
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issy--:redface: Now you've gone and made me blush! Thanks for the huge compliment--you have no idea how much it means to me! :hug: Wishing you the best of luck for your last 6 mo's of uni--you're almost there!!
Saying loads of prayers for you that the new year brings you your long-awaited, and much deserved bundle of joy!
megsmum--Noooo! That stupid, stupid witch!! :angry: Fingers are crossed for your next IVF cycle.... big :hug:, hon... I know how disappointed you are, and I'm so sorry!
babymiracles--Grrr.... so sorry to hear about AF! At least now you've got the green light and are able to move forward with the IVF and frosty transfer. While it seems there's never anything to look forward to with AF, at least you know that now you're not stuck waiting in limbo anymore, and you're on your way towards your goal of holding your earth-bound baby! Best of luck for you, hon.... big :hug:
Mel--Good for you for feeling positive! I'm :pray: your TWW ends with a BFP!!
dellydoo--Saying loads of :pray: for a successful FET!! Good luck in 10 days when you POAS!! Keeping everything crossed for you!
Krystie--Aww, hon..... your time for holding your earth-bound angel is coming! It's ok to let the sadness in and to grieve for your little lost angel--she was and will always be a very special part of your journey to becoming a mom! You won't ever forget that first excitement, then the complete and utter devastation.... it's been driven into you now.... but you can learn and grow from the tragedy of a loss like that.... and you can gain a whole new appreciation for life and love. Lots of :hug: for you and for little Chyan, too! *kiss*
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mannie - Yay! Congratulations! :stickyvibesgirl:
jen - Thanks for the info on the risk factors. I too believe that the stars and planets have a role to play in our lives. I wouldn't go to the point of making every decision based on them, but I think we can gain insight.
issy - Goodluck with the last 6 months of uni. I remember how satisfying it was to finally finish after 7 years. And good on you for speaking up when you had issues. Sounds like things are sorting themselves out.
megsmum - Sorry to hear the witch showed. :hug:
babymiracles - :hug: for you too since AF has decided to visit. We all have those days when seeing pregnant women and babies makes us feel like crying. Just allow yourself to cry when you need to.
mel - :crossfingers: for the TWW. Sending you lots of :SAAF: vibes.
adele - That is big news! :pray: that the FET transfer is successful. :crossfingers:
krystie - :hug: There's nothing to say that can stop the sadness creeping in. But don't feel like you shouldn't cry for your angel.
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Big apologies that I haven't been online for a couple of days.
Things have been pretty messed up down here. As most of you know AF finally showed up after being 18 days late. Well it's still going strong now 9 later. I have always had alot of problems with my hormones and get depressed but up until Sunday afternoon I was coping. Then last night I had massive breakdown and had to go to the hospital where they had to track down my poor Dr, turns out at the moment my hormonal changes are affecting my bipolar plus all the stress of the last 2 weeks. I have had to go back on my meds which are unsafe during pregnancy and make me gain massive amounts of weight. So we have to postponed our TTC. :crying: I don't know how long I have to stay on them either. Devastated doesn't even begin to describe how i am feeling. Yeah well that's enough about me.
Thinking of you all and wishing you all the best
Take care
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Hi everyone
Sorry I've not been around very much - I think I'm starting to get lazy again. Haven't been sleeping the best so it kinda throws my whole day out. Not complaining though, don't care how uncomfy I get as long as Bub is ok.
Big Hugs to you all - am going to try and stay up for chat one night soon.
Am going to start my Christmas shopping soon, starting with everyone in here - have ordered BFP's all round. Am going to wrap them all up in pink and blue and tie them up with a bow covered in **sticky vibes**.
KL - just wanted to send you a big hug. Can totally understand those feelings. I got really emotional the day I set up the nursery for this bub. I found a little toy bear I bought when I was in Canada & pg the first time. Sadly that bub didn't get to see the bear and was almost going to keep it in my cupboard and not put it out for this bub but he's so cute. Everytime this Bub gives it a cuddle I will secretly know that Bub is giving his/her big bro/sis a hug for me.
Anyway - here's another big hug for you all, catch up again soon.
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:grouphug:mo3b - just read your post. Take care
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MO3B--Oh, honey... :comfort: To say "I'm sorry" seems so insignificant, but for lack of a better word... truly, I'm sorry for what you're going thru right now! :hug: I wish I had some brilliant advice to give, or some way to take away your pain. Please just know that we're here for you, no matter what, so feel free to vent when you need to. Take care, hon.... big, huge hugs for you! *kiss*
Angel--Thinking of you always & missing you! :hug: Hope you were able to get your rest and are almost back to "normal".... whatever that may be! :rofl: Love ya lots! *kiss*
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Manny:
CONGRATULATIONS SWEET MOMMA!!!! This baby will STICK!!! Sending you my very most +++ wishes.. am praying for a healthy and happy pregnancy and baby sweet momma!! I'm doing the happy dance for ya!! :cheer:YYYYAAYAYAY!!!
:stickyvibesgirl::stickyvibesboy:
Issy: thank you for the welcome momma... I'm doing ok... Just super anxious about November... I'm getting health insurance finally and by mid-or end of Nov. then I'm seeing my specialist!! YAYAAYAYAY!!! So happy.. even though we have bumped into a tight situation when it comes to budget but hopefully things will get better pretty soon and I can go ahead TTcing my miracle. I'm confident that with this doc I will finally deliver a healthy LIVE full term bundle!! ♥
Hugs to you sweet momma.. how are you doing??
Krystielove: I know how you feel....even though I'm not preggo now first I dread my Due date (April 2nd) I dunno how hard it would be...and I did have a preggo buddy she is in myspace and she was also due the same day as me.. I am so very happy for her when I see her pics.. but I wish you saw the tears that uncontrollably roll down my cheeks when I see how beautiful her belly is and how I would have been EXACTLY like her :redface::crying:
But... I can't cry over everyone else's sweet moment... having a baby is something amazing and I wish everyone the very best.. and I know one day I will finally have this dream WE ALL ARE FIGHTING FOR Come true.. so those TTCing... this is for you!!
:bluedust::pink-babydust:::stickyvibesgirl:
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Girls, from the bottom of my heart, THANK YOU all once again! You wonderful ladies are still always there when anyone needs it and the love and support you give is nothing short of a miracle. Thank you.
AJC - I bet the teddy bear will be your bubs favorite :)
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Mo3B - I am so sorry darling, that must be awful. I hope the break brings you some peace darling.
Ruthie - sweetheart, you are so strong and you will get there.
AJC - Thanks for the early Chrissy gift. I would love one!
Well hugs to you all. I have started work again and my head is swimming. Cannot wait until this TWW is through. Even though I am supposed to POAS next Tuesday I am thinking of waiting until DP gets back on Friday. Either way if AF shows we will know but I don't want to do it on my own. So depressing!
Love to you all mummies to be
Dellyxx
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Kyrstie sweetheart - it is only natural that you still grieve. All the best to you.
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delly - great to see you again and even more great re FET :hug: super positive vibes coming ur way.
KL - no need to always feel upbeat and ignore the sadness pulling at you. Better to cry if you need to - makes way for the positivity to return. Love ur avi hun! rub for lil chyan!
ruthie - yep, def so good to see you here again. all well here - thanks for asking.
jen - a :hug: just because.
mo3b - it's hard to keep ur own brand of beautiful humour when ur faced with such obstacles, isn't it? i hope with all my heart that things just fall into place for you - special special :hug:
hello and big encouragament and positivity vibes for hannah, mel, babymiracles, megsmum and anyone else who needs them.
BB - hope ur getting back to your wonderful self - ur missed here.
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MO3B: Just sending you some loving support my love. What you are enduring is incredibly difficult. You are amazingly courageous and you will get through this. I wish something I could say would help but I am sending you a massive hug... :comfort:
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Dellydo: Thank you love... For the first time in my life I'm being patient.. that and right now.. I can't afford a baby.. I need to get back on my feet both economically and emotionally. I'm a bit concerned that AF has not arrived after my D&C it has been 46 days as of today since 9/12. Remembering that with this pregnancy I got my BFP in CD63. I don;t feel much to say WOW I'm preggo.. but BBS hurt..CM is more abundant than what I wish it were, a few headaches here and there...which I did have with this pregnancy... I tested 2 weeks ago and got mixed BFNs and faint super faint more like ghost lines.. I am going to have to give in to my urge of that thought lingering in the back of my head.. "what if":o... so am testing again maybe on Thursday to make sure that if a line pops up I have to go to ER ASAP to get a progesterone shot..otherwise... I'm doomed for heartache again. I really don;t want to be PG right now.. I was hoping for a Dec BFP or 2009 BFP... **sigh*** But if it's meant to be it is and imagine I won't say no to being PG again.. I highly doubt it though.. but of course I have to make sure so am POASing on Thurs Morning.. really.. I hope it's still a BFN. This is not the right tie m for me.:redface:
thank you so much love for thinking of me.:hug:
Plc: Thank you momma ♥ How are you doing sweets??? I'm glad I'm back I missed out on so much I HATE moving..seriously. Hope I never do again... just hope that next time we move in a few years maybe it is to our own house.. rent is such a waste of $$ ya know?:rolleyes:
a HHUUGGGEEEEEE MEGA hug for you!:hug:
Krystielove: Wishing you nothing but the best sweetheart! ♥:stickyvibesgirl::stickyvibesboy:
Flowerchild: I needed that hug today..:redface: THANK Y♥u!!!!!!
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O Happy Monday Gurlies!
WE did it!!! The Marching Band is off to state!!! I am soooo :leap:
mannie...CONGRATS!!! Seniding you loads of stickyvibes!
Nickster...congrats on a beautiful baby boy!!!
dellydoo...:pray: for a successful FET
Mo3...Take care of you! :hug:
AJC...I LOVE Christmas your gifts are just what we all need!!! Thanks!
plc...jen...Angel...Krystie...:grouphug:
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Hi there ladies, hope you don't mind me popping my head into this thread seeing I've been lurking for a bit now. My story quickly goes like this - we started our ttc journey in May '05 and finally got pg in Feb 07. Sadly this wasn't to be and we found out at 10w5d that it was a twin molar pg, meaning tonnes of bloodtests for months and months, heaps of hospital followup and "6 - 12 months" before it was safe to ttc again. I couldn't bear the thought of waiting that long because all I wanted in the world was to be pg again so we sneakily began ttc again in September 07. I eventually got my much awaited BFP in June, only to miscarry at 6w1d. At this point DH and I decided to take a break from babies as losing three babies, along with my Dad who died of a brain tumour in February, it was getting on top of us too much. We are going to start trying again the cycle after next which I am feeling really excited and positive about. I've been seeing a naturopath and drinking her evil herbal concoctions and to my surprise have noticed a significant (good!) change in my cycles after less than two months (usually really irregular but no longer - yay!!). Its really hard when DH family are pg just by looking at their partners and don't have any trouble throughout so they really don't get it. My SIL is actually due today and wants me to go to the birth - much as I love her to bits, the prospect of that is so so hard for me cos my baby should've been next and I am sure they all think that I should be over it by now - sigh. Anyway, I could whinge for hours but I won't. Looking forward to getting to know you all and sending out loads and loads of :bluedust::pink-babydust::stickyvibesgirl::stickyvibesboy:
Melissa
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I just wanted to quickly say welcome to our humble nest Melissal...goodluck on your TTC journey...my it be very short and sticky for you!
