thread: Trying to Conceive after Miscarriage/Loss - October 2009

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  1. #1
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    Jan 2009
    Perth
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    coco1411 hope you got through the day, my thoughts are with you. Must be hard for you.

    murraycod don't worry about whinging on here. At least we can listen and sympathise, probably the best place to be. At least you know someone is listening hope your eggs do what they are supposed to be doing!

    Loubee, how much bad news can you guys get?! Hope you and your DH are coping alright.

    Afm, I have another scan tomorrow, 3 weeks now since I took the tablets and non-stop bleeding I am so over it. I have to go in fasting to be prepared to have the d&c. I think I am ready for it now, just want to put this behind me so I can look to the future.

  2. #2

    Apr 2009
    central coast
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    Coco-hope you made it through the day yesterday with not to many tear's i was thinking of you.

    murrycod-i hope you get better new's on tue and sorry you and DH had an argument the stess ttc bring's on a couple is huge i try and make sure to put us first and if i see DH is getting upset i change the subject we make time for us (dinner window shopping walk's) were we talk about anything except ttc and babie's it is hard i know but our relationship is to important because when we feel like baby making machine's and lose the intimacy the sex become's a sceduled chore and so we need to remind ourselve's what sex and being a couple in love is like before ttc .

    Loubee-sorry about your SIL and yah! for size 10 jean's.

    Snugglybean- Chanel SVN

    SPF-3 week's of bleeding you poor thing i hope it stop's so you don't need a d&c.

    AFM-i'm on my liquid vitex (yuk!!!) and on mostly organic no hormome food and i'm avoidind food's high in natural estrogen (very boring) so basicly i'm eating like a bird and i'm starving.

  3. #3
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    Sep 2009
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    morning everyone,Coco-hope your feeling a bit better today,my af turned up a day after my edd...craftymummy- hope your cold symptoms have left the building,you'll need all your energy for bd'ing.I've needed to bd while having the flu and it wasn't as much fun...Murraycod-sorry this cycle isn't going as well as it could be,fingers still crossed for you.Hope you &dh have made up,people say things they don't mean when their angry,still hurts though.It's been such a long time for you guys with a devasting loss just this year so that has to put strain on the best of marriages.Hope things go well with the results today ...Loubee-sorry for the loss of your sister-in-law,sounds like she put up a good fight...scarypinkfairy-you must be exhausted from all that bleeding,hope things get sorted for you today...

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    Jun 2008
    Cardiff Heights
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    Hey ladies

    thanks for the well wishes. I was ok considering!

    AF turned up today, the same as you Matthews mum the day after the due date.

    DH and I are going to be hanging out tomorrow night and going on a date old school style

    Thanks again everyone xx

  5. #5
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    Aug 2009
    Murray River Victoria
    649

    My gorgeouse girlie girls XXXX

    SnugglyBean this would be the second time this week you have had me LMAO out loud !!

    Thank you for making me laugh babes you are truly the best! X
    PS: Iv'e tuned in
    I hope I can return the favour when you need it one day hun.

    Matthew'sMum you always have kind words to say everytime you post, you are lovely, AFM is "As For Me", use it luv! We would love to hear how your going and what your up too X Your just as important babes XXX I love that your so kind to everyone, I have read posts in other threads that you have written and I think you have a heart of gold

    Ferrals things we have to do hey!... How long for, do you have to take the Lqd Vitex? What does it actually do? Thank you for the advice you shared, it makes complete sense to me, I need to enjoy our "normal" intrests too, we seem to have forgotten about those, this Fertility Treatment seems to consume you and the rest of your life goes on hold, well not as of tomorrow, thank you so much XXXX
    I hope you are holding out ok, this waiting thing sucks big time, you have been so patient X

    SPF how did you go today? I pray that your bleeding will just stop already! Going what you have gone through is hard enough, but to be still reminded, everytime you wake up to the bleeding is just cruel. I hope things got sorted today once and for all, so you can start fresh X

    Loubee so sorry to read about your SIL, I hope that you and DH are coping ok.
    Freezing MAO in Victoria these past few days, send some sun our way! X
    Take care hun X

    CraftyMummy thank you X I really do apreciate all of the kind support you girls have shown me this past week.

    Coco,

    Well I got the results of BT thisavo, seems that I have not ovulated............dunno how not.............. the pains and aches I got on my R side groin were awfull, and I dunno where the 3 eggies packed up and took off to on my R ovary, cuz they not there now!
    2 eggies have stuck around for the long haul on my L side, still only 13mm so they haven't grown even a millimeter since Tues, dunno what's goin on there either!
    So you could say I'm at witts end and completely clueless!
    So Puregon 50iu injection every evening still untill Tues, get to have another Delightfull scan done to see once again whats happening.........
    I wonder how far into your cycle you can get before it is seriously too late for an IUI, cuz I recon I'm pushing the envelope on this one!

    So still in the game.............atleast for today

    Thanks again to everyone for the kind words and support, you girls are delightful, DH and I are back to love'n again thank god, I hate arguments.

    Hello to everyone I missed tonight X
    Have a great weekend XXXXX
    Last edited by murraycod; October 16th, 2009 at 08:14 PM.

  6. #6
    Registered User

    Jan 2009
    Perth
    276

    hey everyone

    murraycod i must say you are a brave person. so many injections. do you have to do them yourself? come on eggies, do what you are supposed to!!!

    coco that sounds wonerderful you and df going on dates again. i went and and had coffee and cake with my dh today. it just felt special somehow

    so, i had my ultrasound today and after all that bleeding none of the retained products have actually come out so i'm booked in for d&c on monday. i am looking forward to it in a weird way, as after this i will be counting down the days till i can ttc again after this. just hope it all goes well

  7. #7
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    Aug 2009
    Murray River Victoria
    649

    I'm glad that things are going to work out SPF XX After monday, FRESH START And no more bleeding! Yay.
    Good Luck for Monday babes, will be thinking of you

    DH doesn't mind giving me the Puregon inj cuz we just have to dial it up in a Pen (just like a diabetes insulin pen) so to him it doesn't look like a needle, but he wont go near the Pregnyl.........that is an actual syringe that has to be drawn up, I get one of my friends to do that one. (She a nurse too)