ric - that must be so hairy for you! Esp after a PMP, I don't know if it's the same for you, but I know I get so worried, if AF is even a day late, when any bfp could mean regrowth, or it could mean pg.

chez - I'll come up another time and we can do our own tri. That way I can do a long ride, big swim, and run like 100m! I am the worst runner ever. DH almost has me convinced to attempt Coot-tha this weekend - I am terrified but psyched! There's two other friends going so I can't back out, either!

emmy - I would make the appt. You can always cancel it down the track if you want to.
I would also say something very rude to my MIL I did to mine, once, and we've never been closer since.

ferrals - you are not letting anyone down in the whole world. You are doing completely the opposite by being so strong - I bet you're actually inspiring them. I'm sure it sucks to feel that they're all sad with you, but it's only cos they love you. Don't worry about them, just look forward, focus on your own journey.

budgi - I had a massive meltdown a few weeks ago just after a colleague announced she was pg. I was OK at first, but I was the only one she'd told, so I copped all the details,w hich was fine, until she got to the scan and told me how her DH started to cry when he saw the heartbeat. I left the room in tears. She just didn't really think. Telling me before anyone else not really the brightest idea either. Two days later I crawled under my desk and had a huge cry because I couldn't bear to even look at her. She's now off for 3 weeks due to massive sickness, a relief for me emotionally, but stressful work-wise.

juleswa - don't feel bad about coming in with news. I find it really comforting to know that there's hope on the other side of this. I don't know about everyone else, but I love to hear from you.

AFM - TGIF!